Family & Relationships - 14 November 2006

Here's a perfect example:
A couple months ago, i met this girl who seemed pretty kool or whatever. She is 7 years older than me, but that wasnt a problem. I never wanted a relationship with her. just friendship.
Well anyways, we talked all the time and she used to always talk about how men were dogs and what not. she also promised to help me if i needed anything while saving up money for college. i never asked her, but it was still nice of her to help when she did.
well all of a sudden about 3 weeks ago she met a boyfriend and has not kept in touch with me since. nothing wrong with having a guy, but it just irritates me how some women seem to forget about everyone when they get a man. im sure there are some of you on here that have probably done the same thing. But ever since that ive decided to never put trust in most women from now on.
i just thought that she would at least remember the promise she gave me to assist me if i needed anything when in college.

2006-11-14 01:41:42 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Been married for 6 years. I have 2.5 year old whom I adore more than anything or anyone in the world but I'm not happy with my wife and I'm a catholic.My wife has phsycological problem about sex which she neglected to tell me before we got married.Before that, she presented herself as sexually active.I stuck with her, all this while telling her to seek help but she never listen to me.Even while conceiving our son, it was very clinical and stressful for both of us.I grew to resent her for witholding this info from me and for her not taking seeking help(she's not abused in any way by the way).Recently, I've fallen in love with anothe woman.This woman's been very understanding of my problem.My wife found out about our affair and I broke it off. Now my wife wants to get intimate with me, almost forcing herself on me and I can't sense that she's doing it as though it's a chore.I recoil everytime she touches me.. My family wants me to stay with my wife & they are forcing me to do so. So sad.

2006-11-14 01:41:34 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have a nine years old little brother and a mom that has custody of him and she is a user or methamphetamines I am extremely uncomfortable with my brother living with her and I would like to move close to him so he can stay with me a lot more or maybe even live with me but my fiance does not want me to move back close to where im from because i also struggled with addiction and he thinks that being there could pressure me!! I live an hour away from my brother and my mom wont let him live with me!! Im 19 so i cant get custody and i dont want to lose my fiance what do i do???

2006-11-14 01:39:52 · 29 answers · asked by kawasakigurl1400 1 in Family

Im Alice im 13, my mum was an alcoholic, shes classified Bi polar, so shes mentally ill, she is violent with me, im going to go to court against her, so i can live with my father in London, She forced me to move to Paris in July, she used to beat my father and acuse him of hurting her and is doing the same thing to me, i ranaway to my Sisters house as she threw me to the ground my little autisic (mild case ofspecial needs) brother lives with her and is okay at the moment, but i am frightened should i go get him?

2006-11-14 01:39:04 · 19 answers · asked by Chiinny. 2 in Family

i want to make more friends by attractive talk. iam a honest person. i mostly avoid lie.how can i talk attractively

2006-11-14 01:38:40 · 3 answers · asked by savi t 1 in Singles & Dating

I try to be funny , without showing off, I try smiling alot, I listen to them aswell as talk, is that o.k. what else ? can u help ?

2006-11-14 01:37:23 · 32 answers · asked by lotn100 1 in Singles & Dating

I know this is a shallow question-- but all other factors (personality, etc) out of the picture... Is there actually a preference-- and WHY?

2006-11-14 01:36:07 · 28 answers · asked by reba 1 in Singles & Dating

just wondering...I'm falling and I wanna hear how everyone fell in love for the first time. thanx =)

PS-make me smile

2006-11-14 01:35:47 · 14 answers · asked by grace 2 in Singles & Dating

I know his first name, where he was raised, his occupation, and the company we worked for. The company went under and he was transfered, at which point we lost contact.

2006-11-14 01:35:30 · 4 answers · asked by texasheatherlynn 1 in Friends

I got married before 8 years. We have very happy married life, but now a days during love making my husband fantasize about wife swapping including his best friend and wife. Does wife swapping exist in real life? Has any body real experience of it...? I am very worried. Please help me.

2006-11-14 01:35:28 · 31 answers · asked by Suchi 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Both of us had major surgeries, during recovering period we really needed some help. None was available. Whenever our children needed help we let them move back home , no questions asked.

2006-11-14 01:34:13 · 9 answers · asked by mimi 4 in Family

Okay, there is a guy at work who says that if you ask a woman how many partners she has had, you multiply the answer by 3. And a man will tell you the truth about his conquests. Is this true?

2006-11-14 01:34:10 · 22 answers · asked by whoanelly 3 in Singles & Dating

I guess I know that it means something along the lines of... I want to marry you at some point of time. Are they good things or bad?! And also what are some types of promise rings? Diamonds? Birth stones? Please help

2006-11-14 01:34:03 · 20 answers · asked by Jessica B 4 in Weddings

I have been talking to this guy for a couple of days and I really don't think that anything would go further than the e-mails and IM's. Not to say that we wouldn't meet or couldn't meet it's just right now we won't. any thoughts? please try to be serious.

2006-11-14 01:32:14 · 24 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

why not just ask them out?

2006-11-14 01:30:53 · 17 answers · asked by Pretty Little Girl xxx 1 in Singles & Dating

Any suggestions will be greatly appreciated !!! Or i cud see a 40 year old virgin 2 film coming out!

2006-11-14 01:30:46 · 31 answers · asked by daveyh_09 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-14 01:29:45 · 7 answers · asked by shital p 1 in Friends

Okay whenever i call my boyfriend and he's with his friends he's always like ima call you back in like an hour then he never calls me back until around 9pm..and i have to get off the phone on weekdays at 10pm. so that only leaves us an hour to talk and he usually dont wanna talk that long he talks for about 20mins and is like let me call u back in 15mins..so he does and we only have like 10mins! to talk. Should i be feeling madd at him or should i just let it go and hope that maybe he will change and wanna talk to his gf instead of hanging with his friends all the time? b/c if i was with my friends and he called i would deffinetly go away from my friends and make time to talk to him!

2006-11-14 01:29:08 · 23 answers · asked by heatherstike2 2 in Singles & Dating

I recently became engaged to my girlfriend (she asked me), but I haven't been completely truthful with her. We're planning on moving in together in January, so I feel I need to tell her all of the things I haven't, but I feel so ashamed. I haven't graduated from college and I'm in some financial trouble. I love her with all of my heart and I want to be with her for the rest of my life, but I'm afraid this may turn things upside down. I know to be truthful and all of that, but any advice would be greatly appreciated.

2006-11-14 01:28:46 · 17 answers · asked by Nick 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Guys, when you know that a girl is sexually active, do you often wonder what it would be like with her? even if she is just a friend?

2006-11-14 01:28:38 · 17 answers · asked by Mintygoodness1 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-14 01:28:30 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

he is not a morning person...

2006-11-14 01:28:18 · 8 answers · asked by reba 1 in Singles & Dating

I suspect one of my sisters is a lesbian, so I was thinking. Today she's gonna have a friend come and sleep over, should I put a camara in her room to make sure they don't do anything lesbian like, if they do then my suspiscion is true.

2006-11-14 01:27:46 · 22 answers · asked by Pimp of the Day 1 in Family

2006-11-14 01:27:29 · 27 answers · asked by creamy k 2 in Singles & Dating

Told me that an emotional women is better in bed because she will be intense in bed also, is this true?

2006-11-14 01:24:33 · 8 answers · asked by sweetsmile 2 in Singles & Dating

right,if u are a really shy guy and a girl liked u but u didnt no it yet,how would u like her to approach u? by getting her friend to tell u that she likes u,or getting her to tell u?
wot wud u do?

*this is 4 my situation
thanks!

2006-11-14 01:24:11 · 7 answers · asked by *cutie with a bootie* 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-14 01:23:45 · 28 answers · asked by lollypop 3 in Singles & Dating

what does it do and what feeling do u get with it and how long does it last is it worth it

2006-11-14 01:23:28 · 24 answers · asked by stephen d 3 in Singles & Dating

Do I have to tell her or wait til she comes to me and tell me she likes me. I don't know please I am serious give me an answer

2006-11-14 01:23:01 · 16 answers · asked by zephyr a 1 in Singles & Dating

i hav a classm8 hu tried to court me a few mos. ago but i refused although i also hav a crush on him coz i'm not yet ready to enter a relationship & i've nvr been in a relationship b4... then, now, this guy is like trying to avoid me, and he's flirting with sum other gurlz..
in our clasrum, we're only 9 girls, & in that 9 girls, it's like that i'm the only one whom he doesn't want to be friends with,.. he's talking with me sumtimes, but only when he needed sumthing to ask
for... what shud i do?? is he mad at me? do he really like me or wat?? shud i tell him that i like him???

2006-11-14 01:22:49 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends