Okay whenever i call my boyfriend and he's with his friends he's always like ima call you back in like an hour then he never calls me back until around 9pm..and i have to get off the phone on weekdays at 10pm. so that only leaves us an hour to talk and he usually dont wanna talk that long he talks for about 20mins and is like let me call u back in 15mins..so he does and we only have like 10mins! to talk. Should i be feeling madd at him or should i just let it go and hope that maybe he will change and wanna talk to his gf instead of hanging with his friends all the time? b/c if i was with my friends and he called i would deffinetly go away from my friends and make time to talk to him!
2006-11-14 01:29:08 · 23 answers · asked by heatherstike2 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes you have a right to be angry. No he will never change. I used to have a bf of 3 yrs that did this, and no matter how many times I would tell him that bothered me he did not change. Of course he would be good for a bit, but then he'd go right back to his same old ways. I have had other bfs since then that do not do that. He is more concerned about himself and what he wants to do which is not call you until he is good and ready. Its a selfish nature that does not change in them. I'm sorry to say this, but you have to do one of two things. Either accept it and stop getting mad, knowing it will never change, or move on and find someone who respects you enough to keep his word. Right now you are unsure because its a small thing, but this sort of behavior from him, is only a glimpse of what his behavior would be about the bigger things. Good Luck to you as I know how you feel, torn.
2006-11-14 01:49:02 · answer #1 · answered by Elvira 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you 2 are younger. Just enjoy life, don't sweat the small stuff. You don't really expect a man to sit on the phone for an hour, do you? As long as he sets some time aside for the 2 of you, let the phone thing slide.
2006-11-14 01:36:35 · answer #2 · answered by str8tequila80 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can't be trusted with the petty things, where would you be with him should an emergency arise where you'd need love, understanding, support? Dump the jackass. Find a man and stop going out with boys. One of the fundamentals of a steadfast relationship is to know that the person will be there for you even when the chips are down. Was he there, ? No! See what I mean?
2006-11-14 01:40:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As, a boy i want to tell you that u will maybe be mad at him but for some reason is becouse maybe like u call him..but he will like embrass to talk on the phone becouse for boys talking on phone are not romantic and they hanging out with friends his friends will like too tease or somthing so as a boy i can say dont blame your boyfriend becouse sometimes boys also need some spaces for a rest
2006-11-14 01:40:20 · answer #4 · answered by anton 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest, an hour on the phone isn't bad... and less than that, it's not bad. I talk for mine about that time. I don't have a problem with it. Don't try to expect so much. Is he your NEW boyfriend? It sounds like it. Just relax. Just tell him how you feel..
My boyfriend says he's gonna call me back... but I never set a time limit. I don't ask, "When??" I just have faith in him to call me back. No biggie!!!
2006-11-14 01:31:32 · answer #5 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, that's what you would do. Not what he would do. When he is with his friends, he wants to be with them, and not interrupted by phone calls. Let him have his friend time.
He talks to you for 30 minutes everyday and you are complaining? You know, sitting on the phone for an hour everyday gets pretty boring because you run out of things to talk about. You have to give it space.
2006-11-14 01:32:47 · answer #6 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you specific which you're boyfriend and lady chum? perhaps he's merely not that into you. once you are going to take a seat down around waiting for him to call and then get mad that he hasn't spoke of as, %. up the telephone and speak to him. it is not is job. for sure, with the aid of fact he isn't doing it. If I spoke of as somebody my boyfriend and that i hadn't heard from him in weeks, there could be something incorrect with our relationship. i could completely question if we've been even collectively.
2016-10-17 06:27:59 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't leave your friends every time he snaps his fingers. You're being too possessive and too available. He's keeping his life and you should be too. Friends are what you have when boyfriends dump you, so treat them better.
By making yourself so available you are making yourself boring. By being so demanding, you are making yourself annoying. Why not take all of this extra "talking" time and do something to make yourself more interesting?
Don't be mad, be too busy to give a damn if he calls. That might wake him up.
2006-11-14 01:37:50 · answer #8 · answered by Firespider 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
an hour on the phone is really not that bad..how long have you guys been together? i would not really worrie about it because it sounds like you guys are in a few relationship anywayz so things will get better. just have a talk with him and tell him how you feel:)
2006-11-14 01:33:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
most guys dont like to talk on the phone. so ya cant blame him for not wanting to talk for hours, so if you dont keep him on the phone so long then you wont have a problem getting him to call you. besides that you look desperate if you get pissed off at him for not calling
2006-11-14 01:33:36 · answer #10 · answered by blondie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋