2006-11-14 01:27:29 · 27 answers · asked by creamy k 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I believe you can be in love with someone and hate their behaviors. Good luck and God bless*
2006-11-14 01:29:58 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutly! I am expierencing the same situation now. It's like the ole' saying can't live with them and you can't live without them. It is a mix of loving things they do VS. hating the things they do. Now it is a problem when you hate more than love. (So think about it) do share more happy memories then unhappy or do you cry more than you laugh. It is for you to decide, but yes there is such a thing.
2006-11-14 09:38:42 · answer #2 · answered by hoharr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. In a romantic relationship...absolutely, I once had a boyfriend that I loved but also "hated" at the same time. I resented him for not giving up smoking pot for me. I felt that I had to make an appointment with marijuana to see him. Marijuana first me second.
Non-romantic relationship....yes...usually these feelings stem from an abusive situation. If your father for example is abusive, either verbally, emotionally or any other way you will love him but you hate him for treating you the way he does.
2006-11-14 09:33:07 · answer #3 · answered by krystal c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
Hating someone is an indication that that "someone" is valuable to you and they greatly affect you to the point that they are capable of letting you hate them.
If you don't care about this person in the first place, or if he doesn't have any significance to you, you would be indifferent towards them.
The opposite of love is not hate, it's indifference. Because unlike hate, indifference shows that you really DON'T care.
2006-11-14 09:35:31 · answer #4 · answered by WomanOnTop 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, You love the person and hate some of the things they do!
2006-11-14 09:29:51 · answer #5 · answered by Gerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mybe yes you are in love with him,,,, but you hate the things that he does,,,, like you can not be in love and hate that person at the same time,,,, yes you love him but maybe he is doing things you dont like,, think about that,,,
2006-11-14 09:33:32 · answer #6 · answered by Airforcepink 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh yes, did of my bf of 3 years. Loved him because of how he was in the beginning and continued to be sometimes in the present and hated him for the way he acted towards me. Broke up with him.
2006-11-14 09:53:31 · answer #7 · answered by Elvira 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes!!!!!! i love my husband i think but at the same time i dont care if we work it out or not i have put up with his lies for so long that i dont give a **** about him he made me this way i know it dont sound to good and its not but i dont think its going to work out with me and him its just a matter of time when the hate comes in its just a matter of time
2006-11-14 09:39:24 · answer #8 · answered by PATRICIA P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really. You either love them or you do not. Love is a very powerful emotion that many of us are not equipped to deal with when things do not go our way. This is evident with those who try to control their so called loved ones...even to the point of harming them.
2006-11-14 09:38:47 · answer #9 · answered by Robere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. one way love is just like that. you love that person because he inspires you but at the same time you hate him for not noticing your feelings, esp. when he treats you sooo nicely but then he always draws a line between the both of you as just mere friends...geeez.
2006-11-14 09:33:23 · answer #10 · answered by O-range 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋