Family & Relationships - 3 November 2006

I've been living overseas for 5 years. The last 3 with the man I love. We've just broken up, and I'm struggling to cope. I was silly and relied on him for everything, so don't have a great network of friends to help me get through this. I have to make a decision whether to stay here and fight my way through Christmas & New Year alone, or finally fly home (the other side of the world) and start my new life there. It has been a struggle to stay here for so long anyway - I love it here, but have never been 100% settled. But I just know that I'm going to cry and cry and cry if I leave, and I might never be able to come back. It really is one of those BIG life changing decisions, and I don't know how to make it. I am so torn both ways. Of course if I stay here, I will also have to deal with seeing him about town, probably at some point with a new girlfriend. But if I go, then that really rules out any chance of us getting back together in the future. (which I really want). Any ideas?

2006-11-03 09:55:00 · 7 answers · asked by me 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Should I phone her cos the washings still on the line

2006-11-03 09:54:21 · 38 answers · asked by pop 4 in Marriage & Divorce

If yes, how did you do it hehehehe!

2006-11-03 09:53:59 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

For example like the way people are doing are dressing these days

2006-11-03 09:53:48 · 8 answers · asked by cutie12 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-03 09:53:02 · 13 answers · asked by chocolate_baby95 1 in Singles & Dating

question something like,Do you like guys with big biecepts my answer (not you) GOT PENALIZED do you belive it!!!

2006-11-03 09:52:36 · 4 answers · asked by troble # one? 7 in Singles & Dating

ok. We met at a football game and I knew him before the game but I didn't really talk to him ever. Well we started texting each other and he asked me if I like him and I asked him if he likes me and he said kinda. Then I told him that I kinda liked him. And then when it got late he told me sweet dreams and that he'd be dreaming about me. So I got all excited because I really like him. But then after that he replied back to some of my texts and didn't reply to others, and he always has his cell phone with him. And at the next football game he said hi, but didn't talk to me after that and I saw him later holding hands with another girl. I don't know what to think. Does that mean he doesn't like me now or something?

2006-11-03 09:51:53 · 11 answers · asked by Some Girl from College 2 in Singles & Dating

We are going to go bowling, i'm wearing this shirt with a brown tanktop underneath. What kinda cute accessories should I wear? I have long brown hair down to my chest, shoud I wear it wavy or straight? http://www.aeropostale.com/product/index.jsp?productId=2297031&cp=2284058.2038744&clickid=cat_leftnav_txt&parentPage=family

2006-11-03 09:51:08 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We always hear girls saying they mostly care for a guy's personality not his looks....is it true or are they more like men

2006-11-03 09:50:57 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-03 09:50:54 · 3 answers · asked by tamekaclrk 1 in Weddings

2006-11-03 09:50:33 · 10 answers · asked by John B 1 in Singles & Dating

if a guy loves u as a lil sister.....what does that mean really

2006-11-03 09:50:20 · 8 answers · asked by necole 1 in Family

How come women are always trying to control men, when men were put on this earth first? What is with them? And anyone who is wondering about that "rule" against hitting girls, it's because P.E. coaches take it easy on chicks resulting in them being weak later. The only strong women are the ones that don't mind sweat(no one should) and go to the gym.

2006-11-03 09:49:11 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How come women are always trying to control men, when men were put on this earth first? What is with them? And anyone who is wondering about that "rule" against hitting girls, it's because P.E. coaches take it easy on chicks resulting in them being weak later. The only strong women are the ones that don't mind sweat(no one should).

2006-11-03 09:48:46 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my (girl)friend and i jave been friends for awhile, and i really love her, we are kinda going out but we haven't gone anywhere together yet. my parents dont know, but hers do(i'm a boy, we are both 13). i kissed her the other day for the first time and it was really awkward. i loved it, but i bet she didnt. it was so cool to have that warm feeling on my lips, it was awsome. the problem is im a really shitty kisser. yesturday, i tried to kiss her and i missed and got a peice of her face above her lip and below her nose. if u couldnt telll, ive never kissed anyone before(besides family) now, i think shes dropping hints that she wants to mke out with me, she said shed teach me how. i know you people are justt gonna tell me im too young or just relax, but how do i just mae out with her, what should our lips be like? i know she'll teach me, but i dont wanna look like a total jackass

2006-11-03 09:48:41 · 7 answers · asked by jimmy f 1 in Singles & Dating

we both like each other but he'd rather be a friend with privlages[sp] yah know what i mean? ......

2006-11-03 09:47:15 · 25 answers · asked by tinkerbellavic 1 in Singles & Dating

My friend and I want to know if you would date a gymnast with brown hair and eyes and perfect teeth, A kind personality and disposition, with a willingness to accept you for who you are not try and change you. She thinks my bf is perfect and wants to see if there is anyone else willing to accept her for who she is. Thanx!!

2006-11-03 09:47:08 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How old do you think you have to be before you can date?

2006-11-03 09:46:41 · 18 answers · asked by shorti241 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-03 09:44:57 · 8 answers · asked by April W 1 in Singles & Dating

So my roomate and I got involved, which was already complicated enough. But we tried to make things work. We have so much fun together, we can talk about anything, and I just feel so good when I'm around him. The first time we kissed, he said there was no spark, and that it wasn't going to work. He also said he was scared because it's been awhile since he's been in a relationship. Is he just saying this because he's scared or does it all really come down to one kiss. I also feel that maybe our timing was wrong, but I don't know. I still want to try to make it work, but I don't think he does at all. Should I just give up completely?

2006-11-03 09:44:55 · 3 answers · asked by scotty t 1 in Singles & Dating

I asked a serious question. Not at all any dirty than some of the others I have read and I get deleted.....My question was Does size matter? Mine is only 6"

2006-11-03 09:44:22 · 16 answers · asked by dragonshark1971 1 in Singles & Dating

is it the newest trend going around that you have to be dating before you're a teenager!!!???? I am 19 frikin yrs old and single! am i a old bachleor to todays standard? Well, good thing i'm going to the army then!!!!

2006-11-03 09:44:00 · 6 answers · asked by jackalope_00 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-03 09:43:59 · 11 answers · asked by sweetcorn 1 in Singles & Dating

I need to know this. I have not taken care of my hair...uhh...down there...ever. It just grows and grows. Now from a guys perspective, what do you expect to see down there?

2006-11-03 09:43:29 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He was only 2 and I miss him and I cant afford a new one, and I love her and wanted to have sex in her my gf not the mouse.

2006-11-03 09:43:28 · 8 answers · asked by maddogs 1 in Singles & Dating

See, I wont have sex with a girl who weighs over 130. Do you have anything like that?

2006-11-03 09:42:31 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

To spend the weekend with. And you were in total control of this persons actions...no restrictions at all!!!
1. Angelina Pitt
2. Paris Hilton
3. Angela Bassett
4. Raquel Welch
5. George Clooney
6. George Harrison
7. Arnold Shwartznegger
8. Pamela Anderson
9. YOU FILL IN

2006-11-03 09:41:44 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am in my 20's and never met my mom's mom.
She disowned my mom a year before I was born over a family fued.
Last week it was my mom's 50th birthday and she called my mom and acted like they had never had a dispute (she never apologized to my mom for the hell she raised).
She is meeting my mom for the 1st time in 25 years tomorrow.
My mom would like me to come along to meet my so called "grandma"- and I dont want to- she abused my mom as a child, and never acknowleged me- Why now?
Think I have the right to decline this relationship?

PS- 'Grandma" is not a nice woman- she is mean, verbally abusive, and addicted to painkillers- I really dont think I will be missing out on anyone that is signifigant

2006-11-03 09:41:26 · 10 answers · asked by Rae 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok my bff Tashi has liked this boy Jeff since 9th grade (now in 11th) and the more I saw him the more I began to like him too. I mean ALOT of girls liked him though. In the 10th grade I had 3 classes with him and I would talk to him and mess with him all the time and Tashi knew about it...the thing about me is that when I like someone I dont sit there and fantasize...I make sure they know it...and Tashi is opposite she hopes maybe they will somehow read her mind. Well in the middle of 10th grade he asked me to be his girl and of course I didnt turn him down...sh!t homeboy is sexy as hell. And when I told her the great news she was so surprised! She was like "You know I like him blah blah blah..." But the thing is SHE knew I liked him too, yeah she liked him 1st but he doesnt even remember her name 1/2 the time....and he was ONLY a crush its not they were talking....and besides she wants me to break up with him b/c she still likes him but we are STILL dating (almost a year) and I refuse

2006-11-03 09:40:55 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my date to this dance is being realllyy weird, please help me out here....

i told him i was gonna eat lunch with him and he like freaked out and hes like "my friends cuss. you won't like it, you just won't like it!" and came up with all this crap about his friends might hurt me and junk. and then he said he'd sit next to me and i didnt want him to because my friends were being rude and im not even sure that he was serious about sitting next to me.

in the halls, he ignores me, but sees me out of the corner of his eye and blushes like crazy.

i wanna know whats going on with this kid.

2006-11-03 09:40:42 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating