For any reason at all, go for your mother. She may need your shoulder to lean on. Show her the great mother/daughter relationship you and your mother have together, something she missed out on. I think your mom needs you and you should be there no matter what. You don't need to have a relationship with this woman ever again, it's your choice after that. Good-luck to you and your mother.
2006-11-03 09:47:41
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answered by Mustang Sally 5
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Though I believe you have a right to decline this meeting. I also believe you should in fact go if not for yourself to meet blood then to go in support of your mother. What if something happens and your not there to comfort her. Im hoping your relationship with your mother is a good one. You dont have to consider this woman your grandma all you need to do however as a concerned child is stand up for the goodness in your mother. She may end up needing a shoulder to cry on and you already sound as though you know so much about the situation. GOOD LUCK. Who knows maybe it will flop and then you dont have to worry about asking questions like these anymore. Either way family is family and if anyone deserves a second try family does. Be there for your mom.
2006-11-03 17:48:27
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answered by Oscar T Clown 2
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This a touchy topic, but I think that if she never even tried to make contact with you then why should you even bother. I know that its your grandma but that just isn't right for her to hold a grudge or hard feelings against you because of a disagreement that your mother and her had. Since you are at the age of making your own desicions, and have been for a while now, then why didn't your grandma come and talk with you before now? I am sorry that you never got to know your grandma, but apparently she doesn't even care enough about you to try to contact you all these years.
2006-11-03 17:48:11
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answered by Anonymous
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While I can understand your feelings, your Mom has asked you go to with her. For that alone, you should go. Although the woman hasn't had a part in your life, she is your biological grandmother. Things that happened before you were born played a part in your life, of course, but you may never have another chance. I think you should go, and just see what's what. You can at least be there to support your Mom and whatever decision she makes.
2006-11-03 17:44:27
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answered by sassybree1979 5
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Go!! Show her what a beautiful granddaughter she has missed out on. You will be the bigger person. If you don't you may always wonder. Support your Mom. Two is better than one. You can both leave if it is not good. It is hard to forget but we can all forgive.
2006-11-03 17:49:34
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answered by NANCY P 1
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I think your mom is asking you to come with for support. This reuinion is going to be very difficult for her. You just have to be brave and go with her to help her out in this tough situation.
2006-11-03 17:44:35
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answered by arbolito 3
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she could have changed, she obviously made an effort to call.
You have the option to decline sure, but she made the effort to give you the option of meeting her. So its really up to you.
2006-11-03 17:44:21
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answered by Andrew M 3
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2 wrongs dont make a right be the bigger person
2006-11-03 17:43:42
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answered by pam 3
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she is your grandma. you may not love her but she is still your grandma.
2006-11-03 17:44:15
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answered by Grasshopper 5
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JUST MEET HER. WHAT DON'T KILL YOU WILL MAKE YOU ALOT STRONGER.
2006-11-03 17:44:01
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answered by CUTIE BATOOTIE 2
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