We always hear girls saying they mostly care for a guy's personality not his looks....is it true or are they more like men
2006-11-03 09:50:57 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I agree with txcowgirl... Some women can be just as shallow as men. For me, I am for the most part attracted by personality because sexiness is not a look for me, its a way of being...mannerisms. The way a person carries themself, the way the talk, walk, and act.... As far as looks, all I require is that the person has excellent hygeine and is well groomed.
2006-11-03 09:59:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how compromised the look is,values she was taught growing up,Every body has different likes.Some girls ,thats all they want(a looker (shallow) others dont care as long as they are treated right) Time and experience changes alot,if you havent met her;stay groomed,do the best you can being a gentleman and have some kind of financial goal/responsibility/be yourself (humor or what comes natural). It'll happen-patience. Dont be afraid to met new people. Good luck.
2016-05-21 21:42:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
After a girl dates some one that looks good, and he has a terrible personality, or is incredibly stupid, then she might start focusing more on a guys personality. Whatever the reason a girl likes a guy, there has to be something about him that she finds attractive. As time goes by we do realize that the most important thing is that a guy treats us well.
2006-11-03 10:02:59 · answer #3 · answered by dumbblond 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every girl is different; some care more about looks (even if they won't admit it) and some of us truly do care more for a guy's personality.
I personally look at a guy's personality much more than his looks. As long as I personally am attracted to him, that's what matters. I'd choose a guy who was mediocre looking but had a good personality and respected me than a guy who was a hottie but was arrogant and disrespected me.
2006-11-03 09:59:11 · answer #4 · answered by Green-eyed Nikki 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being young(19), I can't even explain how I'm attracted to guys. . .firstly, age is a big factor. Guys older than me is just sexy imo. Secondly, don't know why but I like a bit of chunk. The typical hot muscular/lean man just isn't attractive to me really. So in a way, looks do matter to me but they don't. I won't just say no to a guy because of looks. . .personality is a part of the equation.
2006-11-03 10:01:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls say the like a man for his personality but do you ever see ugly men with wonderful personalities dating a lot of girls? I mean, yes, pesonality is great. But you can't date someone you don't think is attractive too.
2006-11-03 09:58:10 · answer #6 · answered by Some Girl from College 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its both. They have looks kind of in the middle of their requirements. A woman wants to know who you are and in doing so she is attracted to you. If you physically look good then its icing on the cake. This doesnt mean that there arent women who think like men, because there are. It just means that a woman is more methodical in choosing who it is she is attracted to than a man is.
2006-11-03 09:58:07 · answer #7 · answered by Wheres the Rum Gone? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, we care about men's looks just as much as you care about girls looks.
2006-11-03 09:53:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only young girls do...when girls grow up to be women, then we want something a bit more than looks. Because all those hot guys that we were so in love with now have beer guts...
2006-11-03 09:53:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do not let the rest of the world fool you. Women are just as concerned with looks as men. I can tell you this as well. Women are cruel and vindictive when it comes to talking about other people. Ask them(women) and they will tell you and if they deny it. Then ask them what things they discuss in their locker rooms. I have been with my share of women and they are no better and no worse than we are.
2006-11-03 09:58:42 · answer #10 · answered by yourluckystar69 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋