Family & Relationships - 2 November 2006

I'm the new girlfriend, my boyfriend has a child and is paying child support. My boyfriend and i are thinking of getting married and startinng a family. But I'm concerned because he is paying a lot for childsupport right now. Will it go down once we start having children? I just don't see us making it financially. We live in CA so you can imagine how much his child support is.

2006-11-02 10:33:54 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-02 10:32:58 · 6 answers · asked by ryan p 1 in Singles & Dating

please help me with some advice

2006-11-02 10:32:34 · 2 answers · asked by ellis45011 1 in Singles & Dating

im new to my school i like some boys but they may not like me what to do

2006-11-02 10:31:48 · 18 answers · asked by LALA 1 in Singles & Dating

should I tell her what happened. she has 4 maids in her house. And whenever we went out i just leave my things in our room unlocked.

2006-11-02 10:31:34 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-11-02 10:31:32 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-11-02 10:31:25 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-02 10:31:14 · 19 answers · asked by missprissy1004 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-02 10:30:46 · 12 answers · asked by ggtightend 2 in Singles & Dating

Hey Guys I need serious advice. This girl named Adela at school was like one of my best friends but then she stabbed me in the back today. She is telling the whole school that I am saying "Jordan's touch was magical" Jordan is my crush he told me he doesn't believe that. I emailed that to my best freind Liz but she said lolzzz after I said jk jk jk (just kidding). Adela is mean know and just laughed when I said I didn't like that. Should I still be friends with her or should I dump her?

2006-11-02 10:30:10 · 17 answers · asked by dcstar_101 1 in Friends

Plz, give me some examples

2006-11-02 10:29:47 · 10 answers · asked by Read the nametag, Duh! 4 in Singles & Dating

I really miss hanging out with him but I don't want to leave the baby with a sitter just yet. How do I make my husband feel loved and special?

2006-11-02 10:28:36 · 15 answers · asked by huntersterlingsmommy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My friend sara and i have been pretty close since 4th grade... We are in 11th grade now. Back in 7th grade all my friends had boyfriend so i was like yeah i have a boyfriend too! cause i was young and stupid. And everyone kept asking me questions about him so i kept saying all this unrealistic crap like he has a hottub in his room. SOoo there was this annay chick and she never believed me back in the day and sara acted like she did but would always be sarcastic and say things like So hows you boyfriend....now this was 4 years ago and she still talks about it. Im embarrassed that i even made up that story years ago and she ( not beliving me anyway) keeps asking me aboout it like soo what ever happened with that boy and the hotub. EVEN NOW SHE STILL SAYS STUFF and i told her i was like idk we stopped talking Now i have a boyfriend ..a real one lol and she dosent belive me...he goes to another school and anytime i say anything about him which is rare she's like needs proof.....

2006-11-02 10:28:21 · 13 answers · asked by And kayla was like 1 in Friends

how do I get a guy to notice me?

2006-11-02 10:28:04 · 15 answers · asked by cutie pie 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-02 10:27:40 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I liked this guy and I'm pretty sure he was into me. We were the best of friends and saw a lot of each other since he was in almost all of my classes. When my friends told me that he was going to ask me to a dance, I kind of said 'psh, yeah right!' and they got word back to him, although I secretly wanted to go with him. I'm the type that will pretend to be the girl who doesn't have a crush on anyone and hates mushy-gushy stuff. But anyways, I think I might have hurt him, because after that we sort of kept our distances... and I still like him a lot. It's been a year since the dance incident, and we occasionally exchange a conversation together once a day, but not as often as we used to. I still feel the connection and chemistry, but I can't tell if he still does for me? Sometimes, I feel like he's moved on to another girl, who is my friend (plus I think she likes him, too, but she doesn't know that I do). I can't tell. I don't know if I'm ready for a boyfriend either.. but still.

2006-11-02 10:27:34 · 1 answers · asked by Cantaloupe 2 in Singles & Dating

My new boyfriend treated me to a really expensive swedish full body massage. Now I want to do something special for him. We haven't been dating for very long so I don't know what he would like. Any ideas?

2006-11-02 10:27:18 · 12 answers · asked by sweetdjd87 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a 4 month old, dad and i werent cn eachother long and split bfore i found out i was pregnant. he was not supportive of the pregnancy but has had access 2 days a week since baby was born and sometimes overnight. baby had bn sleeping in a moses basket in his house. he is now too big for it so i told dad a few weeks ago that he would need a cot if he was 2 stay ovr. a week later still no cot so i said that he couldnt stay the night again until there was a cot. last week when i dropped baby to dad for the night there was no cot which had bn promised by that night so i took baby home. now dad wont talk to me and hasnt cn his child since even tho he was given the option to.. hes now changed his number and is taking me to court. Wat should i do??

2006-11-02 10:26:58 · 11 answers · asked by singlemother22 1 in Family

2006-11-02 10:26:46 · 19 answers · asked by LaTiiNa BaBii 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i have these ex bf, we used to hate each other and call each other names for the fun of it, then we started talking to each other and he went passed my class room and looked at me and smiled, but now that some people told him i loved him so much he told his friends he hates me, but he still went passed my class room and looked at me, he looks at me sometimes in the gym and stuff but not when his around friends and my friend said that she's heard that he said he likes me........... WHAT DO U THINK DOES HW LIKE ME OR NOT???????

2006-11-02 10:25:35 · 9 answers · asked by Tonya Sizemore 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-02 10:25:25 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-02 10:25:18 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I teased my boyfriend really bad and he walked away from my house pist off and didn't even say bye,what do you think about his reaction?

2006-11-02 10:25:15 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

for quite a while my brother in law and his missus havent been getting on, they argue over anything and everything, but tonight his missus has punched him in the face, and marked him, now my brother in law is by no means soft but he didnt hit her back although he felt like it, all she keep saying to him was "hit me back" but he didnt retaliate.
They have a daughter together and she told him if he leaves he will never see her again,
He wants to leave but hes affraid that he will never see his daughter, i wanted to go to they house and kick the crap out of her, but it would probably only make things worse.
This isnt the first time he has found himself in this situation but now hes had enough, what can he do, as he needs to be ensured he wont loose his daughter

2006-11-02 10:25:13 · 12 answers · asked by tracy 2 in Family

Well.sometimes I'm almost positive he does,and other times I'm left guessing,Everyone says just tell him..but I'm sorta shy..and even more so around him.We're in a couple of the same clubs [at school] together..and when he sees me at one of them he'll always come over and say Hi. Well..today was the first day for one of them,and he didn't know I'd be there..so he didn't say anything..and his friends and him left before I could,so I didn't have a chance then. Well anyways,I was at one table and he was at the one next to mine.He was sitting sorta diagonal from me,I could see him out of the corner of my eye,and sometimes he'd be looking down into his bookbag,and then up [which is exactly my direction where I was sitting]Well,I have an extra ticket to Universal and I was thinking about asking him. If I ask him,will he know I like him?A couple of my other friends,and parents would be there also,but we're not staying as a group.We're going to split up.if he does go, does it count as a date?

2006-11-02 10:24:47 · 5 answers · asked by Blue-eyed Beauty 1 in Singles & Dating

sorry for the misspelling

2006-11-02 10:24:46 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I live in Denver
He lives in Texas

2006-11-02 10:24:44 · 5 answers · asked by ~InEvItAbLe~ 2 in Singles & Dating

okay so recently these two juniors (im a freshman) in my class have been actually talking to me. they make fun of me and i always tell them to get the HELL away because it bugs me, but they nevr did until recently when they apologized for being mean and offered to take me to lunch. im like "ookkayyy...im not going anywhere..." and now they always tell me to slow down and hav fun with them.

they invite me places and when i say "no" they wont leave me alone!!!! omg!!!!! today they blcoked the doors of my classroom until id talk to them and tell them why i didnt want to hang out.

im seriously scared now. why me? why annoy me? its not like im some qiet, shy girl...im outgoing anf if they did anything bad, they know id immediatly tell someone...i have a HUGE mouth.

what do i do? they blcoked doors...thats weird. HELP!

2006-11-02 10:23:43 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

some people are just good at being fake

2006-11-02 10:23:34 · 12 answers · asked by java348 2 in Singles & Dating

woman was in bed with her lover when she heard her husband opening the front door. "Hurry!" she said. "Stand in the corner."

She quickly rubbed baby oil all over him and then she dusted him with talcum powder. "Don't move until I tell you to," she whispered. "Just pretend you're a statue."

"What's this, honey?" the husband asked as he entered the room.

"Oh, it's just a statue," she replied nonchalantly. "The Smith's bought one for their bedroom. I liked the idea so much, I got one for us, too."

No more was said about the "statue." Not even later that night when they went to sleep. Around two in the morning, the husband got out of bed, went into the kitchen, and returned with a sandwich and a glass of milk.

"Here," he said to the statue. "Eat this. I stood like an idiot at the Smith's for three days and nobody offered me so much as a glass of water."

2006-11-02 10:22:35 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating