how can a man tell if a woman is a selfish before he gets in too deep?

Question

some people are just good at being fake

Answer 1

Listen to her talk. Does she talk down about people, does she say mean things, does she make jokes about the unfortunate people. Does she always talk about herself. Does she ask you to do everything for her. Like get her dinner, drink, send you to the store for her stuff etc. It's all about listening and reading body language.

Answer 2

Test 1) Get her a really crappy piece of jewelry and ask her out to dinner the next night. If she wears the jewelry, she passes the test, if she leaves it at home, DTB.

Test 2) U can also say that it's kind of a "family policy" that you will need a pre-nup before marriage, and you hope she doesn't mind. See what she says about that. It's not so much whether she compalins or not, it's how she talks about it that will give you a lot of info.

Test 3) If you have a brother, say you think he might be gay, and see what she does with that information. In my experience what a woman will do with a potentially embarassing secret says a lot about her character.

Right before dinner is the most truthful time for women, when they are hungry they become their real selves.

Answer 3

Well...there's only one real way to determin this and that's time. Do some normal things for her that you'd do for any girl and see how she responds to them.
Look for snide comments, see if she's constantly complaining or if her standards are to high or unrealistic. Ask her what she wants out of a relationship. if she says things like "someone to take care of me" or mentions material things then you can kind of get a gist of what she's seeking and what her intentions are.
See if she's willing to do some things for you but don't mention it b/c you may be influencing her. Maybe if your out to diner take some time before you pay the check to see if she at least offers to do so...but not on a first date b/c that in my opinion is the guys job. =)
Also, I tend to think that if a woman is being to sexual that's a sign too! She's using that as adecoy to distract men and then get what it is they want in the end. (We all know men can be easily distracted by sexual gestures and inuendos) This is a common tactic many women use to use men for whatever it is they want. Just be in tune to her! What she says, how she acts, how she looks at others, if she's judgemental...that sort of thing.

Answer 4

i imagine maximum each and every man or woman is, no longer all are with a similar issues yet certain. i'm egocentric in wondering that I wish we had better time to be right here and understanding quicker or later we will be a grave backyard that's leveled and a extreme upward push equipped. like that's form of ineffective this aspect we call existence. quicker or later no one will be left that knew you once you develop into alive. Scares the hell out of me, and that i'm pissed at that actuality.

Answer 5

What do they want out of life? Most poeple care more about their dreams than they care about other people. Or some care only about other people and have no dreams of their own. You have to find someone who can choose one or the other in daily situations in a way that will create a healthy relationship. It's tough for you to learn to recognize this in people and, believe me, it's tough to find in a person, esp because everything around us pounds the idea into our heads that we need to do everything we can to "make our dreams real', which usually includes buying a lot of expensive things to create the life that the TV and magazines sell us. Good luck.

Answer 6

Well my boyfriend always tell me that I'm selfish when we fight,but I know its true,so just be honest but nothing will change anyways...

Answer 7

If she thinks the world revolves around her, high tail it out of there. She hasn't yet learned that there are more people than her in this world.

Answer 8

listen to the things she says and the way she preceives life to be most of the time but listening to a woman talk about herself you can figure her out

Answer 9

See if she is willing to give up her time and go help at a homeless shelter this holiday season.

Answer 10

said this once I'll say it again two types of women?..b i t c h e s and ...sweeties its up 2 the guy to tell who is who...sounds like u have trust issues..