Family & Relationships - 29 October 2006

I would guess that 99% of men would be happy to have a quick Vegas wedding. Women are the ones who demand a fancy elaborate wedding.

2006-10-29 14:48:31 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My boyfriend and I have been together for a year, and we know each other so well. He respects my wish to wait for sex until marriage, and we can talk about pretty much anything. I really do love him. But things are slowing down and starting to feel like they're always the same old thing. I constantly feel like he doesn't think i'm good enough now because i've put on a couple pounds, and he's even told me that he'd find me more attractive if I was thinner.
I met this other guy a long time ago and we get along very well and we've both developed feelings for each other. I think the main reason i've developed feelings for him is because I feel kind of ignored by my current boyfriend sometimes and the other guy makes me feel special.
So here's the point... I feel wrong for even talking to my friend when I know he has feelings for me too. Should I stop talking to my friend in order to make my relationship with my boyfriend more stable? I really don't want to leave my guy. I love him.

2006-10-29 14:47:38 · 12 answers · asked by Lizzie H 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-29 14:47:33 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is it possible to not be able to tell if you're attracted to someone by having only talked to them online?

2006-10-29 14:47:03 · 13 answers · asked by clarity_is_peace 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-29 14:46:40 · 10 answers · asked by misspeaches 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and my lady broke up becuase we can't deal with each other any longer.Now that the drama is gone, I uern to have someone around and I feel lonly.It hurts me to think that shes with another man and every time she calls she sounds like shes doing just fine without me.But me, I feel hurt in side and I gave up every thing for her even my friends just becuase I realy felt thats all I needed (a famaly).If you broke up with a loved one how long did it take to find someone new or did you just stay single to enjoy the freedom?

2006-10-29 14:45:57 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

White girls don't like chinese boys because the chinese don't exist in any media in the USA in a positive light. The only positive chinese White American's are aware of is already dead a long time ago, and that is Bruce Lee. Any chinese on screen now days since, is acting the typical roles as dish washer and take out delivery boy. So no positive role models of chinese in america. How can white girls like chinese, it just dose not happen.

2006-10-29 14:45:51 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i will be 14 in two weeks and im 5'2

does anyone know about how much more ill grow
my mom is about 5 feet
and my dad is about 5'8
my 16 yr old sister is 5'4
and my 12 year old sister is 4'11
thanks :]

2006-10-29 14:45:11 · 13 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family

Its doesnt have to be a positon just something different to mke sex more fun

2006-10-29 14:45:11 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have gone to 17 web sites for finding a lost love for free and have not been successful,is there anyone here can help me out,this is important.thanks

2006-10-29 14:44:16 · 1 answers · asked by sweetmommy2828 1 in Singles & Dating

ok my ex girlfriend cut me because she needed space. we dont talk on the phone any more but i see her in person. on time in a dream she was sitting with her friends at her house and i came up to her and all her guy friends started talking chit to me. yeah i end up fighting with every guy until i won but when i looked at my her she crys. does someone knows what this mean? im comfused.

2006-10-29 14:44:12 · 6 answers · asked by jose c 1 in Singles & Dating

my husbands best friend got married,and they also work together my husband is a manager well at the wedding this woman I had never met before,came over and sat with my husband and I well my husband knew her and introduce me to her. well to make along story short after the wedding she grab my husband arm and walked out of the church with him, at the party after the wedding she held on to him like she was his wife,i called him to the side and ask him what was going on? he said oh she a manager over food and bev/we are just friends at work.bull s*** i said we went back inside and hear she comes and grab his arm and said i got us a table. well i grab this b*****. and told her that I would stomp her a** like a mud hole told to stay away from my husband if she wanted to live,well believe me she went her way, he told me i was wrong for doing that. and was ready to leave. i feel like he they did this in front of me what do they do behind my back, he said nothing .i say he having a affair

2006-10-29 14:43:56 · 23 answers · asked by gucci 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Mature answers from married folks only, please.

It seems like there are so many marriages where people go outside of the bounds of their marriage for intimacy (closeness, sexual fulfillment, etc) when their marriage provides none, rather than doing the hard work of communicating with their spouse and working through their problems, and then go on with their relationship like it's life as normal. Does anyone have any thoughts on why that is so? Why is it so hard for some people to work on their marriages, or just end them in the light of difficulties, and they instead would rather trample on their wedding vows?

What I'm looking for is well thought out comments and ideas, not "I'd never do that" or "I can't imagine anyone doing that". It happens, frequently. So why?

2006-10-29 14:43:56 · 12 answers · asked by You'll Never Outfox the Fox 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been "living with" my duaghter's father for 4 months now. WAIT!!! we are not in a relationship. However, we have a child in common and I take care of us; including another child he has had after my daughter, for the entire time that we have lived here. I need to find an apt, and move on in terms of relationships, and whenever it smentioned, he kind of makes me feel as though he has no issues with the way things are. 1 week after moving in we stared having sex somewhat regularly, but we still slepp in separate quarters. is is wrong to date while living here even though we have since stopped having sex? is this something work talking tohim about considering this is NOT a relationship? how do i just move when I am carrying the weight of the household on my shoulders?

2006-10-29 14:42:43 · 7 answers · asked by kcrobinson03 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have afriend who cannot stop talking about her tragic childhood.
She has a great business, and has done some amazing things for herself and as a young person in business ( shes only 27!),

but everytime she slows down, its like, boom, she goes into this "my parents left me, I can't trust anybody, Why did it happen, why do these things happen" kinda deal.

It doesn't help matters that she also recently went through some really tough things with an unfaithful husband.

Shes a cool person otherwise, and like I said, when it comes to her business, shes on Fire.

But behind closed doors, she can be a wreck.
How can I help her?

2006-10-29 14:42:36 · 9 answers · asked by littlegirlblue 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i ad a shite wkend.... ma ant's house was like walkin into life ov grime!!! her house stunk n full ov dried poopy everywhere and chrispy period towel in her walldrobe.... 7 months worth ov fat on her cooker n brown walls.... i had 2 get out ov there. she wanted me n ma 12 month old daughter 2 move in wid her, like no way! shes got a 12 yr old kid... wat shall i do??? i cant report her, our family's been thru enuf, im jst concerned. all the rest ov our fam, inc me is noway dirty as that!!! plz help

2006-10-29 14:42:04 · 19 answers · asked by youngkalz 1 in Family

My Friend calles me and mi boyfriend a freak...but are we really freaks....? what makes a person a freak?

2006-10-29 14:39:48 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

why is it that men have to carry the burden of women. most women are jobless and feel that thy have all this powere between there legs yet all they seem to do is restrict sex and nag the life out of a man. why is it that men must carry women. dont women in genral think that its wrong to just be a leech on the back of a man. what happen to the helpful woman the respectful woman the woman. why is it that men must pay for dates. why do we have to prvide for you when most of you dont suport us. what does a guy have to do to never be trobled by the leech type woman again? ive met women that the only goal they have is to get a man to pay for everything that they want. to me that just doesent seem right. and with women they feel that they can get away with anything jsut because there a woman whats up with that. why do you do what youi do to kill us?

2006-10-29 14:39:42 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am looking for some old friends and I have tried people search etc. and have only found out a little. So I wanted to know if anyone knows of a website where I could find people who have retired or their families?

2006-10-29 14:39:18 · 3 answers · asked by Bernie 2 in Friends

my bf is hot (i think) but there is some things that I am not sure about! Here they are:
- he promised to call, but did not
- at luch he flicks food at my friends! I think it is sort of funny!
Here are things I love about him:
- He dose sit by me at lunch
- He does alot of great things!
- and he is very sweet!

Also it is a middel school relationship (i am in 6th grade and so is he)

2006-10-29 14:37:52 · 19 answers · asked by Lauren ♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

SHE WAS A GREAT FRIEND OF YOURS UNTIL SHE WENT OUT WITH YOUR FRIEND... YOU THINK SHE'S STILL A KEEPER BUT YOU STILL WANT TO TALK TO HER EVEN THO SHE HAS A BOYFRIEND. yOU VE TOLD HER THAT tHE REASON WHY you sTOPPED TALKING TO HER WAS BECAUSE SHE HAD A BOYFRIEND. tHE LAST TIME YOU TALKED TO HER WAS FOR HOURS AND YOU WERE LAUGHING WITH HER SO HARD. yoU LEFT HER A MESSAGE WITH yOUR pHONE nuMBER BUT IN THE MESSAGE YOU DIDNT SAY "CALL ME BACK". SHE IS USUALLY OUT WITH HER BOYFRIEND AND SOMETIMES YOU ARE bUZY TOO. iTS BEEN A WEEK SINCE YOU LEFT HER A MESSAGE AND SHE HASNT CALLED BACK. woULD YOU CALL HER BACK AND SAY wUZ UP? OR WOULD YOU JUST LET IT GO??

2006-10-29 14:37:47 · 8 answers · asked by Dr. Truth 3 in Friends

It's my little brother's daughter, and his wife passed away a few years ago. My niece is now 12 and since I'm the only adult female in her life that she can talk to, I was wondering if I would be totally out of place to tell her just what she needs to know for now.
She's asked me a few questions about that earlier, but I just try to avoid it for right now..... Should I ask my brothers permissino before I tell her anything??
I feel that she should get the REAL facts from someone that knows something about it, and someone that she can trust, and not from just some friend or an older girl at her school. I just want some advice........
Please and Thank You.

2006-10-29 14:37:36 · 13 answers · asked by *~aMy~* 1 in Family

i knew this boy for like ever but we always have something to talk about but he is like the sweetest sexiest thing on planet but.....he really wants to **** but we dont go out sooo i dont kno n he says that he tried askin me out it jus wont come out cause its strange because we knew each other since elementary and now we're in high school!HELP

2006-10-29 14:36:33 · 10 answers · asked by confused chica 1 in Singles & Dating

Both are males. One is 33 single the other is 26 gf..It seems I just see them on my birthday and holidays. I was a full time mom very involved with my kids and miss them terribly. They don't seem to have a problem with not seeing me and say work takes all their time. When I mention it, they act like I am nagging them.

Can you think of activities that I could do with them or invite them to that could get me seeing them as least once every several weeks.

Also how to not bring it up when I see them as I think that doesn't work and makes it worse, but it is hard to be silent as I have a tendency to talk too much and express everything I feel.

2006-10-29 14:35:43 · 10 answers · asked by mindy 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

why is it that the "abd boys" get the girl, and the nice guys get the shaft...especialy when girls know what to expect from the jerks?

2006-10-29 14:34:23 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friends cousine is nice to me and sometimes his my textmate. I always want to talk to him. Or may be I just need someone to talk to.

2006-10-29 14:34:21 · 6 answers · asked by annapat16 1 in Friends

OK here is the situation...me and my girlfriend's love making has been getting pretty mechanical...until...i found some of my old National Geographics....those pictures really turn me on...well my girlfriend saw me looking at them in the bathroom before I smashed it with her...she got all mad...hid them on me...should I kick her to the curb and if I do...how do I get my magazines back?

2006-10-29 14:32:19 · 29 answers · asked by loofa36 6 in Singles & Dating

IT's all about male/female relations. There is this guy I like and he acts VERY interested in me but he has had my number for two months and still hasn't called me. I live 4 1/2 hours away from him, but I see him at least once a month. What is your opinion on this? When I say Very interested I mean flirting, putting his hand on my waist, and watching closely when I talk to other guys. I'm getting mixed signals.

2006-10-29 14:32:10 · 14 answers · asked by akgrlatheart 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-29 14:31:51 · 10 answers · asked by cassandra 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-29 14:31:28 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce