why is it that the "abd boys" get the girl, and the nice guys get the shaft...especialy when girls know what to expect from the jerks?
2006-10-29 14:34:23 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't feel bad darling. You and I are in the same situation. I am a licensed masseuse, very good cook and love watching sports. For some reason guys what the easy ones.........go figure. Romance fell off the wagon some where. People have lost their morals. No wonder the marriage rate is so terrible. They say nice people finish last but at least we have dignity. Good luck!!!
2006-10-29 14:40:39 · answer #1 · answered by Italionaire 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Haha.I dont know & Im a girl myself.I was talking to some guy that is also a proffessional person to give advice on women.Hes done many studies.He found out that there is something so attractive about a guy that is up for anything & acts like he doesnt care.Yes these guys arent the best boyfriends but they are fun to be around because they are funny most of the time.Im a girl & am still confused about that one.Good luck n/e ways.
2006-10-29 14:57:08 · answer #2 · answered by Abby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems that the girls just don't have the smarts enough to realize that they can and deserve to be treated well. Sometimes girls have this tendancy to think that they don't deserve better.
I feel for them and I don't believe that they need to be treated badly but these guys just seem to take them for a ride anyhow
Its just too bad that the girls don't feel better about themselves
They know what the jerks are going to do and still they keep on going back . Doesn't make any sense to me either maybe they were treated badly while they were growing up?
2006-10-29 14:41:26 · answer #3 · answered by Spirit_Rain_3-SunShineAries 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Take it from me--girls will only tolerate jerks for so long. The younger the girl is, the more likely she is to date jerks. After a while, it gets really old and they start to get sick of being treated like dirt. Then they start to look for the good, cool, mature guys. That's why you see that older women tend to be more self-confident. They aren't tolerant of B.S. They've seen it all, and will kick any jerk to the curb before they'll tolerate any disrespect. If you're not one of the jerks--stay cool! You will find the best, most confident, sexiest women that way.
2006-10-29 14:39:58 · answer #4 · answered by Jess H 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If I don't believe I deserve the best for myself I'll go after the loser and think that's what I really want because I don't believe that I am worth anything and that a nice guy is to good for me. It is all about a woman's perception of herself when she chooses who shes gonna be with. A woman that really loves herself and respects her being will go after the nice guy. And that goes the same for guys as well..
2006-10-29 14:54:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Theres something about bad boys that turns girls on, my fiance was a bad boy (notice past tense "was a bad boy"... I've tamed him).
I loved it because it was so exciting being with him. He is tough (I feel so safe & protected), and he was like the Alpha Male.
Mostly I think some girls feel high & important that they are with a bad boy who treats them nice, yet everybody else is afraid to stand up against him. It could be a popularity factor.
Not all bad boys can be jerks, they will treat their lady right but will stand firm & tough against any man.
2006-10-29 14:40:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
A bad boy is bad to the world around him. If a woman can make a bad boy her partner then she feels special. She will be the exception to the way he treats people. Like a mean dog that loves it's master.
A bad boy also cuts through the red tape of dating by letting a woman know the real deal.
2006-10-29 14:42:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm was one of those girls that always fell for the rebel without a clue. For me it was the idea that they were big and bad for everyone else and sensitive and sweet with me. Made me feel special like I was the only one that could understand.
But I'm like most girls and it only took a couple of those bad boys for me to learn my lesson. I'm with a very sweet nice guy now.
2006-10-29 14:39:14 · answer #8 · answered by alltheanswers 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
nice guys dont get the shaft...they are already with their woman. bad boys have the rep cuz their hot, have HUGE egos and play the game better then any guy out there. well, guess who will still have their looks, huge egos and playing the game SOLO when their 30??...not the nice guy. dont worry, you'll find your girl...just give it time if you havent already!
2006-10-29 14:38:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because nice guys are seen as boring and predictable and bad boys are seen as exciting and unpredictable.
And why they choose them? When they know they will get hurt..
It's just like people who play in fire, they know its hot and can burn you, but it's so much fun until it does.
2006-10-29 14:38:47 · answer #10 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋