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my husbands best friend got married,and they also work together my husband is a manager well at the wedding this woman I had never met before,came over and sat with my husband and I well my husband knew her and introduce me to her. well to make along story short after the wedding she grab my husband arm and walked out of the church with him, at the party after the wedding she held on to him like she was his wife,i called him to the side and ask him what was going on? he said oh she a manager over food and bev/we are just friends at work.bull s*** i said we went back inside and hear she comes and grab his arm and said i got us a table. well i grab this b*****. and told her that I would stomp her a** like a mud hole told to stay away from my husband if she wanted to live,well believe me she went her way, he told me i was wrong for doing that. and was ready to leave. i feel like he they did this in front of me what do they do behind my back, he said nothing .i say he having a affair

2006-10-29 14:43:56 · 23 answers · asked by gucci 1 in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

23 answers

thats what it sounds like to me...she just wanted it to be known that they are cause he wasnt gonna say anything thats why she did that she knows u mean business now so she might stay away but stomp her a$$ if she comes back!!

2006-10-29 15:00:03 · answer #1 · answered by garfld_2006 3 · 1 0

I don't think he's necessarily having an affair, but he definitely disrespected you at the wedding. If they are co-workers, then both of their behaviors were inappropriate. I might have handled it a little differently, because it's more your husband's fault for not acting like your husband and keeping this woman in check. But, you do what you have to do.

Before you do anything else, calm down and talk to your husband. Explain to him how it made you feel when that woman was being so familiar with him. Ask him if he would have been OK with you acting that way with your co-workers. And if you really think he's having an affair, ask him.

Unless you confronted this woman in a way that drew the attention away from the bride and groom and created a Jerry Springer moment for them, then I you did the best you could under the circumstances.

2006-10-29 15:14:59 · answer #2 · answered by Le_Roche 6 · 0 0

Not to say I am right, but I would have reacted the same way (and have in the past to be honest). It doesn't mean he is having an affair - some people are more touchy-feely than others and they don't think they are doing anything wrong. I would say to quit worrying about the situation. You stood your ground, maybe even embarassed yourself and your husband, but it is over with. Unless you find more proof besides this to think your husband is having an affair, just go about your life and enjoy being married. Don't use this to start fights and cause more stress, just be a good wife unless you have to pull your claws out.

2006-10-29 14:51:32 · answer #3 · answered by Michaela 4120 3 · 1 0

I would have done the same thing, then went off on him for disrespecting me like that! How dare he allow some woman to do that in your face...at a public function!! That is out right disrespectful....and she needed to be told something. It is sad that you had to be the one to do it, because he should have put her in her place. Even if they WERE having an affair....you can not let your side woman disrespect your wife.

I think I would still have to pay her a visit at work....you are BETTER THAN ME!!

2006-10-29 15:22:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

You did he right thing. Heck i would probably have stomped her into the ground myself. With him telling you that you where wrong i would definitely say there was something going on even if it was just heavy flirting. It is best that you confronted her now maybe it will stop, but i would keep a watch full eye out if i where you. She may just try even harder now if there wasn't anything going on before.

2006-10-29 14:51:58 · answer #5 · answered by happy_cute_mom 3 · 1 0

well if they was just friends and only worked together why would she be all over him....??? i would be just as mad as you are.. I don't think it was wrong of you to tell her.. because after all that is your husband it was wrong of her to go grabbing on him like that if they are just friends... I would have done the same thing

2006-10-29 14:47:54 · answer #6 · answered by Sami 2 · 1 0

i hear you girl!!!!! i would have done the same thing you did. but your husband should have known better than that and he should have respected your feelings. i mean come on how does that make you look to everyone else you letting some b**** hang on your man like that. he wouldn't have liked it if it was flipped around now would he??? that's something i would most definitely check into!!!!

2006-10-30 06:19:21 · answer #7 · answered by sweetpeansuperman 1 · 0 0

Been There-Done That!!!! Get to the bottom of this mess,PRONTO!! Even if that means going to a good therapist for YOURSELF!! You need to take care of YOU before you can deal with your lyin',cheatin',dis-respectin', husband!! Don't lower yourself again with the "SLUT"- it's what she wants-to make YOU look BAD!
(espec. in public or in front of your "dearest one" ) Stay cool and get professional advice. Good luck!

2006-10-29 15:49:00 · answer #8 · answered by Bijous 3 · 0 0

it has happenned to me..my sons dad when i used to like him she got a fist in the face he got a knee to the groin and i walked behind the bar and continued to bartend .the owner my uncle was too stunned to say a word and every one else was doubled over laughing yea id say you kept your cool your husband is a jackass who is probaly having an affair you deserve better then him next time u see the bitcch smile and ask her if shes enjoying your left overs.....

2006-10-29 15:08:26 · answer #9 · answered by little_outlaw_angel 3 · 0 0

Good for you for taking a stand. This whole thing sounds extremely questionable to me. Why would you act like that with a co-worker? And why would he blatantly disrespect you like that? Listen to your intuition, you know the truth. Stay strong!

2006-10-29 14:49:32 · answer #10 · answered by Carey L 3 · 2 0

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