I have been "living with" my duaghter's father for 4 months now. WAIT!!! we are not in a relationship. However, we have a child in common and I take care of us; including another child he has had after my daughter, for the entire time that we have lived here. I need to find an apt, and move on in terms of relationships, and whenever it smentioned, he kind of makes me feel as though he has no issues with the way things are. 1 week after moving in we stared having sex somewhat regularly, but we still slepp in separate quarters. is is wrong to date while living here even though we have since stopped having sex? is this something work talking tohim about considering this is NOT a relationship? how do i just move when I am carrying the weight of the household on my shoulders?
2006-10-29 14:42:43 · 7 answers · asked by kcrobinson03 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
his name is on the lease. this is his apt, but i am taking care of things; better job and more organized etc.
2006-10-29 14:48:24 · update #1
when i say we are not in a relationship i mean we are not boyfriend and girlfriend or anything like that. our daughter is 4. we had something previously but not now. Friends i guess?
2006-10-29 14:49:57 · update #2
If you are carrying most of the weight, sounds like to me you will be okay on your own. Why are you holding yourself back for this guy...that has had a child on you? AND YOU ARE TAKING CARE OF THIS OTHER CHILD?? How do you move? You just do!! This other child is NOT your responsibility. I can understand you wanting the two kids to be in one another's life because they are siblings, and it isn't this other childs fault. But in all honesty, he is taking advantage of you. He has in house p@ssy, and still out getting his, and you are footing the bill!! Why subject yourself to that? WHen it is all said and done, when you look back, you will resent what you are doing now. Why take away from your child so you can be there for him and his?? This makes absolutely NO SENSE. Why should you care what he thinks? You are paying the bills, so you have every right to run things the way you want anyway. If he dont like it, he can move on!!
2006-10-29 14:51:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs to take responsbility for supporting himself. This is not your responsibility.
If you want to start dating, you should move out, as living with the father of your baby could complicate a new relationship. Geez, I know if I were a guy, I'd feel uncomfortable dating a lady who still lived with a guy she'd had a child with. That's just way too complicated.
You should give this guy notice that you are moving out and he needs to make other arrangements for paying the rent and expenses. Be strong. You'll be so glad you did once you are in your new place and have a new guy.
Good luck.
2006-10-29 14:53:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-01 04:33:45 · answer #3 · answered by yarrington 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this does not seem like a healthy relationship because you guys sleep in different rooms yet you are having sex. its obvious he or both of you just want a sex buddy. this will onlylead to years of frustration and guilt. I would advice you to get out of this situation as it is also a bad example for your daughter as well as the other child.
2006-10-29 14:49:48 · answer #4 · answered by ShellyBelly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move out
2006-10-29 14:46:55 · answer #5 · answered by us citizen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what do you mean you have a child with him but you are not in a relationship. Do you mean her father or your husband. Or your daughters father inlaw.
2006-10-29 14:47:37 · answer #6 · answered by Tera W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whose name is on the lease?
2006-10-29 14:46:32 · answer #7 · answered by stonedpigeon1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋