Family & Relationships - 26 October 2006

been together for a year and a half. lived together. after a year he proposed. six months later he broke up with me (done, over, wouldn't talk, see or face me)due to different factors on both parties. (no cheating involved) he said he got cold feet and needed a little space. we got back together four days later and decided to take it solw and not live together. i see him everyday but go home at night and on the weekend i stay with him. how do you go from having it all with all your dreams coming true to having nothing to having a little. How do you transition to just dating when you are use to having him there all the time and being yourself again instead of feeling like you are on egg shells all the time scared of irritating him or making him mad, etc. any advice on how to deal with this and get things back to the way it use to be. its great between us but its very different gosh i just want to wear my ring again & have OUR life back...tell me how you JUST date someone after that

2006-10-26 09:38:09 · 19 answers · asked by badgebabys65 1 in Weddings

have you ever wanted to ask a girl or guy out but you were afraid of rejection?if so tell me how you dealt with it

because I like this guy and I asked him out like a month ago and he said no bc he had a girlfriend but now they broke up like right after I asked him and now I don't If I should ask him out again

2006-10-26 09:37:58 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He is in the 6th grade while i am in the 7th.He actually flunked a year so hes my age .One problem.I don't really know him and i tried writing hima note he hasn't responded yet what do i do?

2006-10-26 09:37:51 · 7 answers · asked by understandteddy 1 in Singles & Dating

i go with this boy that always says he loves me and stuff but we only been going out for about a month and i barley know him. My ex and me are really close. we always see each other and talk to each other and more. his friends say that he wants me back but im not sure. He didnt say it to me so im not leaving my new bf. but i dont like my new bf that much.I really miss my ex. i know he misses me too. Oh yea and one of my friends likes my ex. i hate her for that cuz he dumb self called me asking for his # and stuff. now i feel like i cant trust anybody! i was going to fight her but its not all that serious; exspecially over a boy. which i should be worried about my edu. but last week i got papers in the mail for a scholor ship. help!

2006-10-26 09:37:42 · 1 answers · asked by ♥la chica♥ 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I dated a guy for 2 years after a messy divorce. We had an awesome relationship, but my xhusband and i were fighting over custody of my children. I moved away from the town i was in and left my boyfriend. Friends told me he was depressed and sad, but I thought putting my kids ahead of everything else was the right thing to do. This was 8 years ago. I recently looked up old boyfriend on net & found him. Called him -he's still basically the same as he was 8 years ago. He said i broke his heart and he's been waiting for me all these years. I now live 11 hours away and he's wanting me to move back. I have since been married & divorced & had another child & i'm single & old boyfriend is single. Should i take a risk to move back for a what if things worked out or if they could now or is that just plain ol silly to think i can rekindle an 8 year ago romance? He's willing, he's even agreed to pay my relocation expenses for me & my 6 year old who live with me. Nothing forcing me to stay here.

2006-10-26 09:36:15 · 4 answers · asked by princessb 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I feel like I have wasted money. I hope you use it wisely.

2006-10-26 09:36:13 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-26 09:36:11 · 4 answers · asked by Toadbaboad 2 in Singles & Dating

A lady at church asked my help. A friend is marrying into a Korean family. The wedding party theme is a tea party. She want ideas for decorating that would honor the brides Korean family. Any ideas, especially inexpensive ones?

2006-10-26 09:36:00 · 3 answers · asked by wpb30635 2 in Weddings

My ex i wrote him on his myspace page and ever since i wrote him he checks his page every day now but before i wrote him he only checked it once a month. And i wrote him and he didn't even write me back what doe's this all mean? and everytime i see him he stairs at me. and he writes everyone on his page but me why because he did stuff like this when we were going out also plus our reletaionship is a huge screat so no one can know. Plus he followed me home one day when i was walking home from school. and he was smiling at my a## and after that a few months leter i seen him and he just looked at me like he was suprise 2 see me. The Only reason were not together is beacuse we don't hardly see eachother that much what should i do. I Kind of still like him

2006-10-26 09:35:38 · 5 answers · asked by Terry l 1 in Singles & Dating

i can see some people are not going to answer nicly to things here what i was getting around to saying moreless the question is why would my husband say i was a lil bit bigger thgen we set rules to have sex twice a week which he came up with to do and i hvae been working on my weight

2006-10-26 09:34:58 · 9 answers · asked by randi p 2 in Marriage & Divorce

boyfriend of 4 yrs,two kids he is on meth, i luv him but he cheats beats and doesnt work says he luvs me 2 death but he is bringing me down i want al-anon meetings where 2 go.

2006-10-26 09:34:54 · 1 answers · asked by lukijes 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

when my boyfriend and I are having sex, he asks me if i get off or not and tell him yes, but im not sure if i do or not. How do i know?

2006-10-26 09:34:20 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I asked toni why she was so mean, guess what she said...You have no right to call me "extremely bitter" as you do not know me or my character and that is a judgement of my character. If you ever, ever refer to me or anyone else in DCMM as such again, I will ban you IMMEDIATELY.

Frankly, in the past two years this group has grown from having 300 members to over 800; surely I must be doing something right.

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2006-10-26 09:33:57 · 1 answers · asked by sami 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

sweet and sassy or dominant?
nice or cocky?
what kind?

2006-10-26 09:33:01 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Man, it must be a toothbrush!!

2006-10-26 09:32:58 · 6 answers · asked by ♣fo' by fo'♠ 3 in Singles & Dating

Why do some women tease you if you don't pay enough attention to them? I think it's childish.

2006-10-26 09:32:33 · 4 answers · asked by str8trisor 2 in Singles & Dating

how do you if your current boyfriend is thinking about proposing to you? is there signs or anything?

2006-10-26 09:32:32 · 1 answers · asked by shortcrazychic 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

hello,im 54 year old guy and im always horny around noon...looking for a nice lady who feels the same.

2006-10-26 09:32:04 · 1 answers · asked by in_your_snatch_or_down_the_hatch 1 in Singles & Dating

On this Thursday evening ? Anyone have anything out standing going on ?

2006-10-26 09:31:54 · 1 answers · asked by Geedebb 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

legally and without looking too vindictive?
because i just found out my boyfriend was cheating on me. he pressured me into an abortion then i found out from one of his mates he was seeing someone else and had been for months. so i'm very angry and want revenge on him-i don't care about her as apparantly she didn't know

2006-10-26 09:31:46 · 12 answers · asked by strigoi12003 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i went out wit this guy for like months and then pplz started saying i was cheating on him wich i didnt and then one nite he broke up wit me and since then its been like a rollercoaster with us he has a new girl but i he even said that he still have feelings for me and i love him still i juss wanna be with him. what do i do if he does still have feelings for me...why wont he try to be wit me??

2006-10-26 09:30:46 · 1 answers · asked by bOoTyLiCoUs(XoxXo) 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok my boyfriend and i have been dating for 6 going on 7 months and last nite when we were talking he told me that he wanted me to have his kids only except he knows that i want to be married b4 or when i have kids.

2006-10-26 09:30:34 · 5 answers · asked by gurl_balla14 2 in Singles & Dating

When me & my husband got married we were broke and got reasonable rings. Now I want to get him a nice ring but I dont know if I should get his with diamonds or a gold band or something different.

2006-10-26 09:30:17 · 8 answers · asked by ♥ to ...... 5 in Marriage & Divorce

my ex is telling me that he misses me and that he wants me back and i mean he is a sweet heart but he broke up with me because we went to different schools and he was going to be 17. I miss him at times because even if we sat outside in the cold on the steps talking about nothing we still had tons of fun. I like Matt though and i talked to Matt about it like people told me to do on here and I asked if he wanted to hang out since we hanve no school today or tomarrow and he said he didnt know what he had planed. So I mean does that give me a clue that he doesn't like me? Well should I keep going for Matt or just talk to Danny and tell him that maybe we could work it out this time? I am caught between the two what should I do about them? I don't want to lose any of them as firends though.

2006-10-26 09:29:50 · 1 answers · asked by Haley Candace 2 in Singles & Dating

who was about 50 lbs overweight, one night greeted you in a room with cinnamon scented candles, dim lights, soft music, a hot meal, and a sexy negligee and bedroom eyes, would you be like, "she looks SO fat in that negligee!!" ????

2006-10-26 09:29:08 · 16 answers · asked by Ade 6 in Marriage & Divorce

i met her when i came to india to write my exams and after few months we became so close, she is not my real sister but I didnt had any sister and we became so close that we were like real bro n sis, but oneday i wrote everything bad about her in my dairy that she was just talking with me cause her mother said so and she thinks she is the valuved person around everyone and she got to know about it and I am very much ashmed but now right now I am missing her so much and dont know what to do, I love her so much as a sister and when I had a sisters love after 15 years, I destroyed it with my negetive thoughts, I want to aplogize to her but she is hurt and she wont be the same with me again and its my fault cause I didnt had a sister so I coudnt understand her, I tried to talk to her but she cuts off real harsh on me and I get upset as I have a ego problem too. I want her to relaize that I made a big mistake about her and I want her to become my sister again, its been 2 monts now, pls help

2006-10-26 09:29:06 · 15 answers · asked by Rizwan 3 in Family

2006-10-26 09:28:30 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I try too add them back.....but it says they are there...yet they are not om my list??

2006-10-26 09:28:20 · 1 answers · asked by ? 1 in Friends

I like a guy, i've known him for 5 weeks, and we are friends, but i think i want more than that. I don't know how he feels, but, i know he considers me a friend, and trusts me, and if things don't work out, we'll remain good friends. I've posted a question last week about this topic, and i've decided (based on the answers i got) to let things come naturally, but now, i think mayby he likes another girl better than me, and i feel a little jealous, maybe it's nothing maybe it is, i don't know. The thing is, that i know this girl, and she's very sweet, and i can honestly say, she's a better person than i am(she's kind and clever, but she's not prettyer than me :-), so i couldn't blame him, if he chooses her. that's the painfull part. What should i do? If it's nothing and i rush things, i might ruin all the chances i had, if it is something how should i let him know there's someone else who likes him? How can i know if she likes her better for sure? btw i meet this guy almost every day.

2006-10-26 09:26:57 · 8 answers · asked by wendy 3 in Singles & Dating

I work in an office alone with my much older boss.I am married and he knows this.But,he will rub my back under my shirt when I go near his desk and he grabs me and hugs me all the time.And he'll say can you hear your heartbeat and put his hand on my breast.I can't quit I need my job.Help what do I do my husband has no idea this thing goes on.

2006-10-26 09:26:00 · 8 answers · asked by katzgto67 2 in Other - Family & Relationships