ok my boyfriend and i have been dating for 6 going on 7 months and last nite when we were talking he told me that he wanted me to have his kids only except he knows that i want to be married b4 or when i have kids.
2006-10-26 09:30:34 · 5 answers · asked by gurl_balla14 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't see anything wrong with him saying what he said. He just told you how he felt for you and what he's looking foward to having with you if you want it with him also. I think it's great that he wants to get married before having kids. There are so many guys that do it the other way around. He sounds like a good man. Go ahead and do what your heart is telling you to do. If you see yourself with this man in the future then what he's saying shouldn't be a problem. If your having doubts about being with him then let him know your not thinking of marriage and kids right now. It's a simple as that. Take care!!!
2006-10-26 09:35:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to ask him his thoughts on marriage, and tell him yours. If he's not interested in marrying you at anypoint and you need to be married, then cut it off now before it gets into a serious relationship
2006-10-26 16:33:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He didn't say when he wanted you to have his kids did he? Well that could be years from now. You should have ask him if that was a proposal?
2006-10-26 16:35:09 · answer #3 · answered by Gerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you want kids when you are married and if he loves you he will respect that.
2006-10-26 16:34:14 · answer #4 · answered by Marcus. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the same thing I think,, I dont belive in pre-marrage sex... if he realy loves you then he can wait,,, remember that you are worth alot and he need to wait,,,
2006-10-26 16:36:33 · answer #5 · answered by Airforcepink 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋