i can see some people are not going to answer nicly to things here what i was getting around to saying moreless the question is why would my husband say i was a lil bit bigger thgen we set rules to have sex twice a week which he came up with to do and i hvae been working on my weight
2006-10-26 09:34:58 · 9 answers · asked by randi p 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
In my opinion, what he meant was u gained a little weight and he's not as attracted to u as he once was. As far as scheduling sex is concerned, I think it's very insensitive for him to treat sex as if it were a chore but I guess he's doing this to motivate u into losing weight. Still, I think it's a stupid way to go about it.
2006-10-26 09:52:49 · answer #1 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
None of us are the same as when we got married. The question is better or worse. As long as you maintain good attitude He should be able to look by a lot. As for setting sex appointments, its really not a bad idea. It is far to easy to forget to make time. Twice a week is not a big deal. When we had kids in the house and life was hectic appointments helped greatly.
2006-10-26 16:58:37 · answer #2 · answered by Flagger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess that will make you work harder on your weight. Not to be mean but you have gain a lot. I have been there before when I was younger, but I got it off. It was real hard.
2006-10-26 16:42:44 · answer #3 · answered by **What??** 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i gain weight i am not going to wait for my man to tell me. because i have tow eyes and i can see an lase it is OK with me to be heavy but you have to remember marriage is between tow people, it is not only about you.
2006-10-26 17:15:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he loved you he would love you thick or thin, thats real love. real love doesnt judge weight. becides, whats with all the rules? Love doesnt live by rules.
2006-10-26 16:42:27 · answer #5 · answered by magickitty0621 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
size does not matter,,, he should love the way you are and I think the one with the problem is him not you ,,,,
2006-10-26 16:45:57 · answer #6 · answered by Airforcepink 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry, but I do not understand what you have written.
2006-10-26 16:47:28 · answer #7 · answered by Simply Lovely 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he is very judgemental tell him he is not so perfect.
2006-10-26 16:40:47 · answer #8 · answered by Thumbs down me now 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good luck with that.
2006-10-26 16:37:41 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋