legally and without looking too vindictive?
because i just found out my boyfriend was cheating on me. he pressured me into an abortion then i found out from one of his mates he was seeing someone else and had been for months. so i'm very angry and want revenge on him-i don't care about her as apparantly she didn't know
2006-10-26 09:31:46 · 12 answers · asked by strigoi12003 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
btw don't feel sorry for me about the abortion thing because i know now it was the right thing
2006-10-26 09:33:00 · update #1
i'm not sorry about the abortion because i don't think it's fair a child should b brought up in a war zone
2006-10-26 10:01:58 · update #2
revenge is a very bitter reaction...you must get on with your life and ignore him..he's no use to you or anyone else.
with regard to the abortion that has nothing to do with anyone else and they should not judge.
2006-10-26 10:04:46 · answer #1 · answered by Sunseaandair 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Does he have a brother or a housemate? When I found out my lass has been cheating on me I slept with her sister about a month later. They lived together and the first thing she knew about it was that I was in her kitchen eating breakfast.
As for the 'abortion is a sin' crap, boll*cks its just allowing someone to get on with their life. I'm sure you more than anyone know if what you did was right or wrong for you. The 'being happy is the best revenge' is also crap, you do that after you've had your revenge!!
Good luck, he'll soon know he mess with the wrong girl
2006-10-26 19:13:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When i saw you question I thought hard and long before answering it. Firstly you feel hurt and wounded which is understandable. I have provided a link to get back on track and also to hopefully over come your pain. As for revenage im not sure its wise as it wont reslove anything. However if you really feel the need to do something then hold a memorail service for the unborn child and perhaps invite his parents to it as it would have been their grandchild. The best thing in my opinion is to forget about him and move on with your life the sooner you get him out of your system the better your life will be. Be free and dont hold onto to bitter emotions.
You become like those you do not forgive. The mind, through transacting, invariably becomes more like the things that it concentrates on. When one is concentrating on a perpetrator, trying hard to resolve the problem or expressing angry thoughts, one becomes like that person. You become like those you hate.
2006-10-26 10:27:09 · answer #3 · answered by wandera1970 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's really sad. I'm sorry to hear he did that to you and I'm sorry about the abortion, although you don't want my pity. Don't bother getting revenge, concentrate on building your own life happy in the knowledge you are free of someone who could treat you with so little respect. He'll get what's coming to him, don't waste any more of your energy on him, he isn't worth it and didn't deserve you. Don't give him the satisfaction of thinking he still matters enough for you to spend time on him, even if it is to get back at him. I bet one day you keep him up at night long after you have forgotten about him. You will meet someone who appreciates you and deserves you.
Goodluck!!
2006-10-26 10:24:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i were you, i would try and speak to his new partner in confidence, about the abortion, and how she should keep an eye out for the same thing happening to her. Also, say something like: how do you know that he wont ever cheat on you, when he gets bored again, or he faces another crisis.
2006-10-26 10:39:27 · answer #5 · answered by bradleyxwright 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it was the right thing then why do You want revenge? Move on He was just a coward.He`ll no doubt get His Karma anyway and she`ll get an abortion when He wants to keep it .
2006-10-26 10:06:41 · answer #6 · answered by JULIA E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think revenge will really make you feel any better
about this, Maybe you should just thank God that you found
out what a rotten S.O.B this guy is, before you wasted any
more of your time with him! I'm sorry he did you like that.........
2006-10-26 09:52:53 · answer #7 · answered by RodMaster 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best form of revenge is to forget about him and move on with your life. put it all behind u and start over. get out there and find happiness. have nothing more to do with him.
best wishes.
2006-10-26 10:20:27 · answer #8 · answered by crophilia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
best form of revenge is to be very happy. Get on with your life and have a great time...
2006-10-26 09:51:56 · answer #9 · answered by Jackie 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
abortion is a sin. for all u no u killed a very important person.......owell i would get a lot of guys to kick his ***..i would do it for u.. good luck
2006-10-26 09:36:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋