I dated a guy for 2 years after a messy divorce. We had an awesome relationship, but my xhusband and i were fighting over custody of my children. I moved away from the town i was in and left my boyfriend. Friends told me he was depressed and sad, but I thought putting my kids ahead of everything else was the right thing to do. This was 8 years ago. I recently looked up old boyfriend on net & found him. Called him -he's still basically the same as he was 8 years ago. He said i broke his heart and he's been waiting for me all these years. I now live 11 hours away and he's wanting me to move back. I have since been married & divorced & had another child & i'm single & old boyfriend is single. Should i take a risk to move back for a what if things worked out or if they could now or is that just plain ol silly to think i can rekindle an 8 year ago romance? He's willing, he's even agreed to pay my relocation expenses for me & my 6 year old who live with me. Nothing forcing me to stay here.
2006-10-26 09:36:15 · 4 answers · asked by princessb 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
he's dated women - but always compares them to me, i still have friends in his city - there's nothing wrong with me except loving me that's kept him single all this time
2006-10-26 09:54:32 · update #1
Test out the waters first and jump in and go for it. You only live once and if it does'nt work out itleast you will know and thats better then the what if's in your life. He sounds like a good guy to wait for you all this time. And maybe you should believe in fate and soul mates if you don't already, Don't rush into marriage but it seems like you have a good guy on your hands that we all women wish we had. Good luck and he's willing to accept your kids what more can you ask for? The answer's right ther in front of your face girl friend. It's not silly to rekindle old flames if he waited all this long for you. Be happy and now I know miracles do come true so maybe there's someone out there for me. Take care.
2006-10-26 09:47:12 · answer #1 · answered by teena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-07 15:56:41 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not, you aren't forcing him or anything. If he is willing, then why not. Though you might ask yourself why he is still single after 8 years?! There may be some issue there!
2006-10-26 09:39:35 · answer #3 · answered by xorosho 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You only live once. Listen to your gut instinct.
2006-10-26 09:40:07 · answer #4 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋