I like a guy, i've known him for 5 weeks, and we are friends, but i think i want more than that. I don't know how he feels, but, i know he considers me a friend, and trusts me, and if things don't work out, we'll remain good friends. I've posted a question last week about this topic, and i've decided (based on the answers i got) to let things come naturally, but now, i think mayby he likes another girl better than me, and i feel a little jealous, maybe it's nothing maybe it is, i don't know. The thing is, that i know this girl, and she's very sweet, and i can honestly say, she's a better person than i am(she's kind and clever, but she's not prettyer than me :-), so i couldn't blame him, if he chooses her. that's the painfull part. What should i do? If it's nothing and i rush things, i might ruin all the chances i had, if it is something how should i let him know there's someone else who likes him? How can i know if she likes her better for sure? btw i meet this guy almost every day.
2006-10-26 09:26:57 · 8 answers · asked by wendy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you do something now and rush things it could be ruined you're right. But if there is something between the two of you and it's "meant to be" so to speak. It will be. Whether it happens now or some time down the road. If it's suppose to happen, it will.
2006-10-26 09:31:12 · answer #1 · answered by roo_arlo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This might be a situation where you just need to go ahead and say something, if not..you might indeed let the opportunity pass you by. Maybe he's feeling the same way. But the only way you will ever know is if you tell him. But be prepared to hear the answer..whatever it is. It might be the end of the relationship..or perhaps the start of something wonderful.
If not, you will always wonder, and personally I'd rather know.
2006-10-26 09:34:07 · answer #2 · answered by Wendy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have already told him that you like him, let him choose what he wants, otherwise YOU will end up not being happy in the end. i really don't know what else to say, its hard when you start to like a good friend. you just have to put yourself aside. that's corny and sooo not what anyone wants to do, but that's the reality of it. you never know, it might not work out with the kind an klever girl. but if he doesn't know that you like him, you should definately tell him, if your a really bold type of person.
2006-10-26 09:34:11 · answer #3 · answered by jitwitit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah i understand you stated adult men in hardship-free words, lol yet i will no longer help it to inform you this. From my journey as a woman, wit a similar situation(have self belief me im a jealous form too) and sticking with a similar guy for 2 years(he's not any longer as jealous, yet he's flirty). JEALOUSY, each and every man or woman has it, that's a count number of ways a lot they enable it hardship them. For you as a woman, in case you want being a pretend or wana be one then bypass for it. Be some different person, initiate giggling even as your guy compliments and flirts with yet another female. I propose hi you're his, why imagine he will unload you for her, authentic? incorrect, you favor to exhibit him that you don't love it, that's a count number of him accepting you approaches you're, to approaches to appreciate your thoughts and comprehend you. i do not understand why you may want to elect to "hide" it, rather attempt to regulate it women people. ultimate wish.
2016-10-16 06:34:36 · answer #4 · answered by costarakis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be patient, if the guy likes you more then the other girl, he will want to be with you instead of her. Sure it hurts, but there are worse things in life! Life can be cruel at times, but we survive!
2006-10-26 09:31:47 · answer #5 · answered by Gerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well just go around life doing nothing then... if your scared to ruin things... but what you should do is just tell him already!! you never know what could happen if you do but we all know whats gonna happen if you dont tell him.... "NOTHING!!" dont wait for it .
2006-10-26 09:29:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is there ANY word you didn't leave out of your novel
for GS who cares
2006-10-26 09:29:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
even if another person is better that you if a person loves you then he is not goingto care about the other person
2006-10-26 09:28:38 · answer #8 · answered by Airforcepink 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋