Family & Relationships - 26 October 2006

It seems that the more attractive a woman is the more f.i.n.e. (Freaked-Out, Insecure, Neurotic and Emotional) she is. I would love to meat a beautiful, intelligent and interesting women that is fun to be around and isn't f.i.n.e. or a drama queen. Do women really like that exist? If so were are they hiding? I am happily single and enjoying my life and have dated some of the most desirable women in my area who all turned out to be a disappointment or a pain in the ***. I haven't lost hope and would eventually like to find someone to share my life with.

2006-10-26 10:09:29 · 13 answers · asked by DarkWolf 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-26 10:09:27 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have had my car stolen by Gorillas and I hate It mean I hate*******, I just can't say it.

2006-10-26 10:09:09 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Lived together first?

2006-10-26 10:09:07 · 48 answers · asked by LibraT 4 in Marriage & Divorce

For example, if your fiance wants kids & you don't, would you tell him/her that you did want them (or remain ambiguous) b/c you want to marry him/her? This happened to a friend of mine. Would you do it? Or have you? Or do you know someone who has?

2006-10-26 10:08:29 · 1 answers · asked by J.Z. 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-26 10:07:27 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He has been going over to spend time with their son around 6pm but has been coming home at 12am or 1 am. Usually his son is with us every other weekend. But this month has been busy. I have a gut feeling about it but trying to ignore it.

2006-10-26 10:07:00 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I read about this in the Oct. 25th Dear Abby.

Personally, I would never send such a letter b/c I know someone serving in a war would have enough to worry about already.

2006-10-26 10:06:51 · 18 answers · asked by J.Z. 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-26 10:06:32 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

If you fulfilled it,was it better or worse than you expected?

2006-10-26 10:06:17 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

grl friend is cheatting on me if she hiddes her email address and found nsome sex play emails of ex coeds

2006-10-26 10:06:13 · 4 answers · asked by Cabb 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We have come to a compromise where to live. Going to live where my boyfriend's from for a year or so, then we are settling down my way. Around 120 miles between us. We've discussed marriage, and I'm worried. My bf's mother has ME, and is quite ill. He has expressed concern that if we get married in my home town, his mother won't be able to make it. The truth is, she is so ill at the moment, I don't think she could make it anyway. Am I right to stick to my guns here. I really do not want to get married anywhere else. The ratio of guests would also be 70 on my side to 30 on his. My bf's mother's illness is very unpredictable, and we will do whatever we can to help, but am I right in saying that a wedding ahould normally take place where the bride's from ?

2006-10-26 10:05:35 · 37 answers · asked by Linda 6 in Weddings

what postion gives you A TOTAL, MIND BLOWING ORGASM?

2006-10-26 10:05:07 · 16 answers · asked by MOLLY G 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I never met my real father and I don't know his ss#. but I know his first and last name! Any suggestons on how to find him or what to do? PLEASE HELP

2006-10-26 10:04:58 · 2 answers · asked by CHRISSY K 2 in Family

Okay i'm a girl and i have this guy friend and he's been dating this one girl for a little over a year, and today he broke up with her, i was just talking to him on mesanger and this is basically what are convo was:

why does your name thing not say (his name LOVES her name)
and he was like i broke up with her and i was like omg then he went yea..
and then i went, when did this happen?
he went: at the end of today
I went: omg i guess it was for the better because of what you said she did to you
He went: yea.....i guess so



*****
this is really sad and i think i said the wrong words to him by the way he was acting or was it just because he is still sad over it????
***any other help????????????/is appreciated


THANKS!

2006-10-26 10:04:48 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

where would i find smart, loving women, i thinking book stores, but i think that iam wrong. Any smart, loving beautiful women wanna tell me where you hide?

2006-10-26 10:04:28 · 8 answers · asked by And i heard as it were a thunder 6 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have been married for almost 10 years. We have had a great sex life until this year. He would tell our friends that I was the one that always wanted to have sex. So I slowed way down to where we would do it once a week. On my times of the month I would give him a BJ knowing that I could not have sex just to try to please him. I have always been open, I have had a threesome for HIM and even done a Threesome with all women in front of him for HIM. So I am not afraid of Porn we have even watched it together. But here recently he has been looking at porn online and masterbating to it. Then he trys to cover it up, the other day I found 3 different masterbating lotions hidden. Our sex life sucks now too we only do it like 1time a month because I start it. He always says he trys but only when the kids are around knowing nothing will happen. He says looking at porn is my fault because he is horney and we never do it. I am ready to leave him tired of lies and I over reacting?

2006-10-26 10:04:17 · 22 answers · asked by LAW 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-26 10:03:35 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

...from a LONG time ago. Don't worry, I'm over it (the fact that he was a jerk and that 7 years has passed has more than given me time to get over him, so don't even accuse me!)! I just have a question on what your opinion is. He used to talk about his ex to me all the time and about how she hurt him. I was young and dumb and I guess I didn't care cause if a guy did that now, I'd be super pissed. So what is your opinion about a guy that talks about his ex all the time to his current gf?? Rebound??

2006-10-26 10:03:09 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how do know whicho one to follow? my heart says one thing, my head another...please help!!

2006-10-26 10:02:29 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My wife gave birth 3 months ago, and after the 40 days we have only have sex once every two weeks and if lucky a week and a half. she says she is tire even though i help her. I love my wife don't think I will live her because of this. but I feel depressed I love telling my wife how pretty she is and you know when you get all romantic you expect that, we do have a chance to be together when the baby is asleep, maybe I am not understanding my wife you tell me! will this change? is it normal?

2006-10-26 10:02:28 · 46 answers · asked by FRIEND 1 in Marriage & Divorce

theres this person in my class but for some reason i get the feeling they dont like me the thing is they dont even know me

2006-10-26 10:02:09 · 12 answers · asked by tiff_tiffani 2 in Friends

2006-10-26 10:02:02 · 7 answers · asked by Raine 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-26 10:01:37 · 47 answers · asked by theresajstephens 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-26 10:01:17 · 12 answers · asked by yttiksnikwah 1 in Singles & Dating

I need help from the adult ladies out there, it would be greatly appreciated. I need to know how to read this situation so I don’t make an a** of myself tomorrow (I’m 30, and this girl is 34, neither of us have ever been married). I went out with this girl twice, the last time was a year and a half ago. The first time we went out things went ok and we made plans to go out again. Then one of her longtime friends got in the way and they began seeing each other. She lives one hour away from me so it would have been a long distance relationship. She broke up with him a few months later. We went out again shortly thereafter. I went to see her. At the end of the date, she said that she would have to come down to see me next time. she had indicated previously that the distance turns her off because she has to drive 45 minutes everyday to work and that was what was precluding her from starting a relationship with me.. It’s really complicated, but like an idiot I never asked her down because I kept coming back to the “she doesn’t like the distance thing so she isn’t really interested”. I didn’t want to have to deal with the rejection because she is an awesome girl and I could have seen myself falling hard for her and then end up hurt. If I missed my chance with her I’ll never forgive myself. Here’s the thing. We’ve kept in touch consistently for the last year and a half and email nearly daily (sometimes to the point of excessive since we are both at work!). Sometimes about absolutely nothing at all, but other times about life and what’s happening in each of our lives. Over this time I’ve begun to realize that I have some serious feelings for her, like she might be THE ONE. Back in January I realized this and I asked her out to lunch but she said that she had started seeing someone and “didn’t think it would be fair for all of us involved” to get together. So we went on like usual. I casually mentioned to her about a month ago that I had started seeing somebody (I’m not anymore but she doesn’t know that), and she immediately responded by suggesting that we needed to get together sometime. She is planning on coming down to my town to do some shopping and wanted to get together with me afterwards. Today, she mentioned that she’d like to switch up the schedule though, that she wants to see me first then do the shopping later. Can you give me your interpretation of the situation? Am I in the dreaded “friend zone” or is there a chance she is waiting to see my reaction and if I still have interest? I need the female perspective. Thanks in advance for your help, I am an absolutely pathetic mess.

2006-10-26 10:00:57 · 11 answers · asked by kjhenkel 2 in Singles & Dating

i no it's lame but we're always flirting and he helps me when ever i have a problem but im always second. what should i do?? and please don't tell me to 'forget about it its a hopeless task and that i should just stay friends with him' do you think i would be asking the question if i hadn't already tried that? hes sweet funny kind and is always good for a laugh but he's as ignorant as a ..... i dont even know what. but i absolutely love him for it so help me please!!!

2006-10-26 10:00:35 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I had my daughter out of marriage. It didn't work out with me and her dad. He lives an hour away but we our in town at least once a week. I am remarried now and also have a 14 year old step son. My daughter and husband love each other very much and are extremely close. He has been in her life since she turned 1. She knows her dad is someone important and often cries for him. She doesnt see him very much because he doesnt ask for her. I have to prompt him and call him often so he stays involved. Lately shes been having a hard time with the whole mommy/ daddy issue. She has called my husband daddy several times and play calls her daddy several times a day. I want to better help her understand because she is often emotionally upset by not having her daddy. Ive explained that our family is special because she has so many ppl who love her but i dont think its enough. can someone please help. Im worried.

2006-10-26 10:00:02 · 9 answers · asked by justyn890 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 13 (don't anyone dare give me the whole "you're too young" thing) and really like a boy that I've known scince grade two. We used to be BFFs but we've kind of seperated now that we go to different schoools, though he still lives in my neighbourhood. I want to ask him to a dance, but don't know how without making it awkward. We've always danced at the dances together before, but now my school is doing dances by themselves and so he doesn;t come. Help me! I repeat, NO "your too young" stuff.

2006-10-26 09:59:03 · 15 answers · asked by getshorty 3 in Singles & Dating

I like a girl i have seen her hundreds of times but only like twice a month. she is a year younger than me and im a teenager. how do i tell her i like her and more info than "just tell her" plz. her parents are divorced and her twin bro is my friend. there is this bonfire this sunday night and i would like her to come but i can't risk her dad seeing me for some reason he creaps me out. anywho i wan't to invite her and this bonfire is in the woods so i thought pulling her behind a couple of trees and telling her would be nice. i can't date till im 18 but there is this thing every friday that i want her to come to so i figure thats as close to a date as my parents will let me. they already know i like her cuz i told em'. they were pretty ok with me liking her as long as i don't date her. she is pretty, funny, imaginative, likes to talk. understands people and i just feel great around her so plz help. i kno this is kinda long but if u want all the details it has to be long. ok so plz help

2006-10-26 09:57:36 · 3 answers · asked by pistoluser 3 in Singles & Dating