He has been going over to spend time with their son around 6pm but has been coming home at 12am or 1 am. Usually his son is with us every other weekend. But this month has been busy. I have a gut feeling about it but trying to ignore it.
2006-10-26 10:07:00 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Women's intuition is a powerful thing, if he has changed his behavior he probably is cheating, that's were men make their mistakes, but you can also ask him or ask her.
2006-10-26 10:10:21 · answer #1 · answered by Teaza19 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant confirm that unless you have proof. But i would have to say that the gut feeling is always right. Coming home that late is a little much considering im sure his son is not up that late. You need to find some proof on this one. Kinda hard to say anything when he has an excuse to go over and see his son anytime he wants. How long have you been with your husband??
2006-10-26 17:10:55 · answer #2 · answered by michelle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does sound suspicious. Wouldn't his son be in bed by 12 or 1 am?? That said, don't jump the gun on this one. There could be an explaination. Have u tried asking ur husband why he arrives home so late or why his son no longer comes to visit? His reaction should give u some indication.
2006-10-26 17:10:46 · answer #3 · answered by Katie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah I agree with you...you might just have to come out and ask him directly...I think it is great that he sees his son (don't know how old he is but I am assuming he is in school so he should be asleep around 9pm or so)...so there is no reason at all by he would be coming home around 12 or 1am...Sadly, I would say go with your gut feeling on this one :(
2006-10-26 17:10:04 · answer #4 · answered by poker_fan_in_nyc 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont ignore it. think about it, how many kids stay up til 12 or 1. There is no reason that he cant tuck that child into bed and come home to you. as much as i hate to say it, it doesnt look good. I would go over there one night, maybe 10ish or so and just walk in if the door aint locked. if it is locked, and you know the house, look in the windows, preferably bedroom window if you can get to it. if you cant see inside, just listen real good. if you really think hes sleeping with her, bringing it to his attention is only going to make him sneakier.
2006-10-26 19:24:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call Joey Greco
http://www.cheaters.com/
Why are you trying to ignore it? If you've been married less than 2 years and his son is under the age of 10, he's probably missing his family.
2006-10-26 17:10:10 · answer #6 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't sound like you really trust him. You could hire a PI to scope it out. If he finds nothing, your hubby never has to know. If he does, you'll have picures to prove it.
However you should go ahead and file for divorce if you do this. It's too much strain on the marriage.
2006-10-26 17:14:57 · answer #7 · answered by Dr. Kat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you wanted to be absolutely sure you could hire a private investigator or sign up for one of those shows like Cheaters. Otherwise, there is no way to know for sure unless you catch him in the act or he (or she) admits it. Maybe you could ask her.
2006-10-26 17:10:03 · answer #8 · answered by J.Z. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you said it your self. you are ignoring whats going on.even if hes not cheating he is wrong to be going there. i don't mean to be harsh but you are playing the fool. put your foot down and tell him no more. no one is visiting there child at midnight. you can bet him and the ex wife is laughing at you for being so gulable.
2006-10-26 17:28:42 · answer #9 · answered by BLOODHOUND 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would ask her sometimes the wife is more likely to admit it than the husband i haven't met a many who don't go back and sleep with the sex they already know
i would gladly tell my ex's new woman i was sleeping with him if i was -- crappy answer but honest
2006-10-26 17:12:50 · answer #10 · answered by Lisa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋