i no it's lame but we're always flirting and he helps me when ever i have a problem but im always second. what should i do?? and please don't tell me to 'forget about it its a hopeless task and that i should just stay friends with him' do you think i would be asking the question if i hadn't already tried that? hes sweet funny kind and is always good for a laugh but he's as ignorant as a ..... i dont even know what. but i absolutely love him for it so help me please!!!
2006-10-26 10:00:35 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
well you should talk to him tell him how you feel,if he is flirting,and you are flirting back then he knows that you like him,if he has not done anything ,then he is not worth it.you may love him but maybe his feelings are not as strong for you.if he felt te same way he would of done something.
i really hope i help you.
2006-10-26 23:19:51 · answer #1 · answered by LiL_mZ_Sa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say that you are "always flirting".. so if I were you then I would keep that going and gradually build up the flirtatious behaviour and then wait until things aren't going so good between him and his girlfriend. Take that opportunity to comfort him and to get A LOT closer with him, making your feelings clear at a time like that could be effective. On the other hand, being so forward could scare him off,and offend him, so you will have to be careful about how you approach the situation if that time comes. Choose your timing carefully. Heres something for you to think about:
"To play it safe, is not to play at all."
Go for it.
2006-10-26 17:52:30 · answer #2 · answered by bradleyxwright 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there is a god chance that he will not fancy you back guys like to have girls as friends because it makes it easier to talk to other girls if you aslready know what interests them. thats not to say that hes not feeling the same. the worst that will happen is that he wont feel the same way. so if i was you id just go for it and try to kiss him. it worked on me with my girlfriend if he pulls away then tell him your sorry and you didnt knowwhat you were doing and it should all be fine, if he doesnt then you get your man and every1 is happy. good luck!!!
2006-10-26 17:08:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best I think to back off a little n cool down. Ask yourself do you value his freindship so little that you want to risk losing it by making a play for him? If you really want him stick around, not so close as to scare him off, but close enough to be on hand IF he busts up with his present GF. Thats the time to let him know how you feel.
GOOD LUCK
2006-10-26 17:27:58 · answer #4 · answered by scrambulls 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think the best thing you can do is tell him and talk to him about it,ask him if there is a chance of the two of you giving it ago,say you dont want to come between him and his girlfriend but you cant hide your feelings anymore so you needed to tell him, if he says he wants to stay with his girlfriend then say thats ok and you hope you can still be friends.good luck hun.
2006-10-26 17:04:27 · answer #5 · answered by vicki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are mistaking a "friend" for something more, simply because YOU want more ,he obviously doesnt,! Hes not stupid,you say hes ignorant,i think youre mistaking that for something else too, .Bless your heart if you want him, wait,cos if he wants you he will come,trust me i waited 8 years for my man,we been together 10 yrs and it feels like we only just met ,he was worth the wait, be patient hun,..Good luck x
2006-10-26 17:11:32 · answer #6 · answered by Raine 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he is your best friend,you can talk about everything right?
So,tell him how you feel and ask him how he feels.Whats the worst that can happen?At least then you will both know about the feelings and you can deal with them somehow.
2006-10-26 17:22:09 · answer #7 · answered by josephine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was in a similar situation i really liked my best friend but then i found out he liked me to but i only found that out after i spoke to him about it i know it's hard but tell him how you feel but make it clear that you would like to remain friends even if nothing happens as you value your friendship
good luck
2006-10-26 17:42:13 · answer #8 · answered by angel eyes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
could you trust him, he is flirting with you and has a girlfriend , so do want to be always second best i would not and that's what you would be second best because he would cheat on you,
2006-10-26 17:45:34 · answer #9 · answered by twinsters 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try telling him how you feel but be prepared he may choose his girlfriend good luck
2006-10-26 17:10:47 · answer #10 · answered by kitten6444 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋