I work in an office alone with my much older boss.I am married and he knows this.But,he will rub my back under my shirt when I go near his desk and he grabs me and hugs me all the time.And he'll say can you hear your heartbeat and put his hand on my breast.I can't quit I need my job.Help what do I do my husband has no idea this thing goes on.
2006-10-26 09:26:00 · 8 answers · asked by katzgto67 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You need to tell your husband what is going on. Before long if you don't tell him, it could affect your marriage. I would go and report your boss. If you work for a corporation or anything, you need to tell the. He is sexually harassing you. That is what he is doing. You need to report him asap or it can and will get worse. He could take it farther sometime in the near future if you don't take care of it now. You may not be interested in him, but if you two are alone in an office, then he might do other things to you. I don't think you want that. You need to sit down, tell your husband, and then report him to someone and get help with this. Sexual harassment is against the law!! Remember that!!
2006-10-26 09:31:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my mom said you should enquire 4 another job and pity the fool that he hires for the next time. I myself say that is a tough one i've been in that situation but yours is much worse. It's hard because if you say something he might find any way to fire you. If you don't say something your going to dread going to work every day. Do you work in an open environment that some one can see the two of you? Because then you can say your husband walk by and seen you.The only thing you can do is say your not really a touchy feely person and that makes you very uncomfortable. You can email me if you want to tell me more and I'll tell you exactly what I did.
2006-10-26 09:37:18 · answer #2 · answered by teena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, this will not be what you want to hear, but I think it needs to be said. 1) What your boss is doing IS wrong, and it is called sexual harassment. Since he is the boss, can you complain to the better business bureau, talk to a lawyer, etc? 2) Diapers and baby care come before beer. 3) Your boyfriend should be busting his butt doing ANYTHING he can to support you and not be drinking beer. You have 2 jobs and you are pregnant, while your boyfriend is drinking beer. Not appropriate. 4) You bf tells you to do special favors for the boss. In otherwords, he would rather have you be a PROSTITUTE than get off his rear end and get a job to support you and his children. Because based on what you told us here, I think most people would assume that the next step is your boss wanting sexual favors from you. 5) Your boyfriend "kind of hit you" which means he did hit you, which is domestic violence and rarely goes away on its own, and is rarely a one time situation, it typically escalates and gets worse. 6) "He loves me so much" You referring to your BF. Never once do you say you love him. If his way of loving you is to make you do all the work while he: drinks, wants you to have sex with other people for money, and he is physically abusive, you can do so much better than him. My advice: Get a new job and a new boyfriend.
2016-05-21 22:55:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't take that crap. You push his hand away and tell him you don't appreciate it. Tell him you're tape recording everything he does now and you'd appreciate him keeping his thoughts and hands to himself or you're going to turn him in for sexual harassment. That is just what you tell him. If I were you I'd go ahead and get the ball rolling on telling someone in charge of the company about it. I know it's got to be uncomfortable and scary. You think if you react at all he'll fire you. Also, please tell your husband about this. Ensure him that you can take care of the problem and that he needs to trust that. Good luck to you
Try not to kick that geezers booty.
2006-10-26 09:36:52 · answer #4 · answered by odessa2469 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a victim of sexual harassment and it is illegal. Report him to the police and change jobs immediately. It will only get worse if you let it go on and you could even wind up raped or worse. He needs to be locked in jail. Do it now!!
2006-10-26 09:30:34 · answer #5 · answered by Captain Cupcake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your husband, have husband talk to him. Quit and find other job.
2006-10-26 09:29:46 · answer #6 · answered by stick man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to stop,he has no right to fire you if you'll tell him to stop doing it... if he won't then tell him that you'll sue him and the entire company for sexual harrasment...
2006-10-26 09:32:47 · answer #7 · answered by ILuvMe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is bs i would tell him that ur going to su him
2006-10-26 09:30:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋