Hello ye awesome person who will help me,
Here's the situation: My best friend is gay, and I'm a straight girl. We see each other everyday. At times I sleep at his place for weeks at a time. We sleep in the same bed. We cuddle, we spoon. We give each other massages. He likes butt massages. He likes to tickle the area where my butt meets my thigh. We've split up household duties including chores and dinner. We hold hands on ocassion. But he's gay. What's weird is that when start to get close (like after staying in bed all morning and all that), he'll get all weird and repeat: I'm gay. You know I'm gay, right. I like boys. He says this in a sing-song kind of way. He has a ton of gay porn, but has been known to watch straight ones. Oh, and he plays with my breasts with his feet, and likes to place his feet in my crotch. Ya, I know...
He's had some gay relationships in the past and he really wants a boyfriend. His most serious relationship was with a boy he met in the city, who actually lives 500 miles away. That guy spent the weekend with him, then he went up to see him and spent a week with him there. After that, the guy moved to Japan for 2 years and they broke up.
I've known him for 2 years and the longer we're together, the more intense/abnormal our friendship is getting...with the physical stuff that is.
I guess my question is:
What would a "normal", or typical gay man/straight girl relationship be like?
Is the stuff we're doing ok, or am I just reading into things?
Can someone be bisexual when he has a greater physical attraction to men, but a strong emotional attraction to women?
I'm a bit confused as to where we stand. We both love each other, and we've both said in the past that if things were...different, we probably wouldn't have to look any further. I don't know. I guess I just need help sorting things out.
2006-10-24
12:35:58
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