how do i get this one guy who i really like to kiss me??? i really like him and we are going to the dance together but he is really shy, and so i dont know how to get him to kiss me, please hurry the dance is in a few days and i am desperate to have him kiss me so please hurry!
2006-10-24 12:31:07 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
lol, i was in a situation like this,except im a guy so it was kinda opposite. i remeber my biggest worry was: does she want to kiss me?
so to make it simple, heres a list of things i would try:
-spend a lot of time with him during the dance, but give him some time to talk to his friends (maybe they will see that you like him and might help to talk him into kissing you)
-try that whole "laugh at every joke" thing, i mean dont abuse it, but if you laugh at his jokes he'll feel more comfortable around you, and thats what you want
-when you dance with him try to keep your lips near his, not like super close to where he might feel pressured, but about 6inches away, so if he decided he wanted to, ur lips arent to far away
and last, im not sure if this applies to every guy, but for myself its always really hard for me to just kiss a girl i really care about. im so afraid i'll mess up er somehin, or maybe she wont like it. just try to make him feel comfortable around you and who knows! you might just get taht kiss!!
good luck!
2006-10-24 12:43:10 · answer #1 · answered by aceofhearts0004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One word EGO Feed his ego. The boy is shy, he needs his ego stroke. Males have a tremendous fragile ego. All it takes is one girl to pump up his ego and he is invincible. But then again the one girl can rip out the ego too. You want to be close to him, but not too close. Smile, it always is a good signal to the boy.
The actual technique you are looking for is luring him to a semi private area... but not too private. You want a romantic kiss...be happy with a first kiss. You need to be close, whisper to him... so he has to lean close. When he is leaning close hold on to his shirt or tie or anything that prevents him from pulling back. If you feel bold enough, put your arms around his neck. The closeness factor always work, providing you worked his ego. He should lean forward and attempt a kiss.
He probably wants to kiss you too. Holding on to his shirt is giving him permission in a coy way. If you feel the boy isn't taking a hint...remember he is a boy...not the most social of animals... Ask him.." are you going to kiss me?." That should make him jump and lean over to kiss you.
Kissing is a learned activity. Give the boy as much practice as you like. But take it slow, you have your entire life in front of you.
2006-10-24 19:43:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you guys are dancing to a slow song, look at him in his eyes and then part your lips very slightly and tilt your chin up just a tad, and give him the "kiss me" look. That should work. If not...well then I'm stumped...
2006-10-24 19:34:52 · answer #3 · answered by Lolo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
lol i wouldnt know because i have the same problem since i'm your friend and i'm going to the dance with you. i also want the guy who asked me to go to the dance to kiss me so i guess we will take all the edvice and see what happens........ Thank you all for the great edvice by the way!
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2006-10-25 21:19:13 · answer #4 · answered by peaches n cream 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't be desperate. When the timing is right, he will. Offer you cheek, by pointing your finger to it. Just enjoy your time with him and don't worry about the kiss or you will not enjoy your dances.
2006-10-24 19:34:39 · answer #5 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Give him the chance to move at his own pace. Shy guys may be shy but it doesnt mean they want the woman controlling everything. Let him kiss you when he is ready, not when you orchestrate it. You're gonna scare him off if you act so aggressive.
2006-10-24 19:33:35 · answer #6 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i would ask the guy to dance, then in the middle of dancing kiss him
2006-10-24 19:33:14 · answer #7 · answered by Nali13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be all you can be and look good 4 the dance.then after the dance ask him if he would like a good night kiss.
2006-10-24 19:35:07 · answer #8 · answered by sassy4show 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you are slow dancing, put your arms around his neck and ask him if he is ever going to kiss you. ( be flirty) It normally works.
2006-10-24 19:34:27 · answer #9 · answered by Ladythang 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
push him up against a wall in a dark corner during the dance and look him in the eyes and kiss him.
2006-10-24 19:38:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋