I've been with my boyfriend for 7 years and we have a nice town house. We never really got along to well but we care for one another very much. We love eachother and eachothers family's.
We dont have sex hardly any more and that sucks! I started a new job and I'm attracted to the maintenance guy and I know he's attracted to me also. I keep having fantasy's about him. I know it's wrong but I cant help it. I certainly dont want to hurt my boyfriend. But I need affection and a touch. I'm 36 in my prime and missing out on great sex. What should I do? Remember I dont want to hurt my guy.
2006-10-24 12:39:10 · 5 answers · asked by tinalovesmusic 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
try talking to him and find out what the problem is in your relationship and if he is not willing to give you the affection you want and need then i think you should end it you said you don't want to hurt him but he is hurting you buy not giving you affection you need
2006-10-24 12:56:58 · answer #1 · answered by angel eyes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have set up a no winner here. You want sex, but won't let yourself have it. The best you can do is.....nothing. Just live out the rest of your sexless live with the guy you love, and dream about sex with other guys(and watch soap operas).
You could secretly have a tiny affair....or you could even ask your guy if it would be OK(you could even let him watch).
2006-10-24 19:43:09 · answer #2 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
stay with your guy or break it off then go fishing for affection....you'll sleep better, have less stress in your life, and will be able to look at your self in the mirror.....and.........you'll have no regrets....
A maintenance man???????? sounds like a porn movie
2006-10-24 19:43:59 · answer #3 · answered by Patrick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd stick with the guy you're with and try to just be friends with the other guy.
2006-10-24 19:43:00 · answer #4 · answered by Hottie24 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
call me or email....i will help you with the sex thing...where you live?
2006-10-24 19:41:54 · answer #5 · answered by stone cold 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋