It seems every guy i get involved with there's always some twist, he either treats me like ****, has weird mood swings he likes me then he doesn't....am i just picking the wrong guys or are all uys like this?
2006-10-24 12:40:40 · 15 answers · asked by emma s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Twists, weird mood stings... Are you sure you're not dating women?
Guys aren't complicated. We are easy to understand.
Food + beer + sex = happy man.
That's it, right there.
2006-10-24 12:43:36 · answer #1 · answered by S h ä r k G û m b ò 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not all guys will treat you badly. i think part of it has to do with the kind of guy your attracted to. if you have neer been treated respectfully by a guy, or have been abused in the past, you will gravitate towards guys that have a lot of problems and treat you badly. my husband treats me like a queen, and i love it. but it took me a long time to be ready for a guy that would treat me like that. i spent a lot of time with guys that were bad. you have to believe that you deserve better, take time to get to know a guy before you jump into anything. if you start seeing "red flags" (he treats you bad, acts weird, your uncomfortable with some things he says/does) then see those as signs that he isnt going to be a good bf. then move on. if you let someone treat you a certain way, they will always treat you that way. you have to make sure you assert your needs and have standards for how you want to be treated. and you need to work on the issues you have inside that are holding you back. i did it, and i know you can!
2006-10-24 19:47:45 · answer #2 · answered by faiths13 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
We aren't really. Most of us are just confused by what the women in the relationship are feeling / want. And yes, if the guy treats you like **** then he's not the right man and, IMHO, he should have the S H I T beaten out of him.
Dont give up on us so soon, not all of us are jackasses.
2006-10-24 19:52:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ur just picking the wrong guys-I'm the same way-I like bad boys and for that I never can find a guy that will treat me right. Just try to go out with different kinds of guys maybe you'll find one that will treat you good one day!!!! :)
2006-10-24 19:46:20 · answer #4 · answered by ღ|l°Coltrane°l|ღ 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
They are not all like that some are actually nice u just had to becareful for who you pick ok Good Luck!!
2006-10-26 01:05:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We only think the other person is complicated when they are not doing what we want them to do, or being the way we think they should be.
2006-10-24 19:50:35 · answer #6 · answered by ToLiveIsToExplore 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
BOYS HAVE DiFFERENT ATTiTUDES. iF UR FEELiNG LiKE U CANT TAKE iT WHEN HE HAS MOOD SWiNGS, FORGET ABOUT HiM. THERE ARE A LOT OF GUYS OUT THERE WHO ARE NiCE AND ALWAYS STAYS NiCE. BUT THEN AGAiN iTS UP TO YOU...
2006-10-24 19:44:05 · answer #7 · answered by maureen a 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Funny....I was just thinking the same thing about gurlz.
2006-10-24 19:43:14 · answer #8 · answered by timc_fla 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
mm it happens all the time! but we are complicated too.
2006-10-24 19:44:58 · answer #9 · answered by mrs. cookie 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i could treat you like a lady ...email me
2006-10-24 19:42:57 · answer #10 · answered by stone cold 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋