my friend just recently found out that her boyfriend was dishonest.. first he told her he was on drugs and would not be with her anymore becauase of that... then he changed his story and said he didnt want her to find out that he owed 35,000.00 worth of back child support ... and that is why he lied to her .... about being on drugs..... what do you think bout that ... would you give him another chance> i told her yes if he got 2 jobs and a paper route...
2006-10-24 12:32:01 · 13 answers · asked by lisa h 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Either way it's a bad deal - run like the devil baby!
2006-10-24 12:34:08 · answer #1 · answered by Tiger by the Tail 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think I'd have to do alot more questioning. If he has lied about the above, what else, has he not been honest with. She could be in for alot of baggage, trying to make him honest, and out of debt. There would have to be alot of factors discussed, and it would be a while before they should tie the not. And if it were true about the drugs, I would have to say NO WAY!!
2006-10-24 19:37:32 · answer #2 · answered by Speedbuggy43 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If it was me in this situation, i'd say no, if your dishonest once you will be dishonest again.. but thats just my opinion.. however i do not know how this girl may feel about the guy and i personally don't know them.. but i say.. ditch the guy, get on with her own life and forget about him, find someone new.. there are better guys out there!! lol.. Good Luck!! X :D
2006-10-24 19:36:09 · answer #3 · answered by Jemma P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OH NO!!!! She needs to find another dude. This guy is a big LOSER!! If he can't be upfront about some money owed, what else is he willing to lie about? I wouldn't give him another chance. He lies and he can't take care of his responsibilities.
2006-10-24 19:35:59 · answer #4 · answered by JB 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't. He never should have lied in the first place and obviously there is something going on with him, if he wasn't man enough to pay the support in the first place.
2006-10-24 19:36:31 · answer #5 · answered by shootingstar0212 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on the relationship before he started lying. I mean if she really loves him, then thats a choice she would have to make on her own, because she is the only one who has to deals with it and worry about him lying again and again.. But I wouldn't dare but up with it....
2006-10-24 19:35:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO NO NO don't give him the time of day 1 lie leads to another don't get mad at mebut he's playing he will never change.
2006-10-24 19:34:40 · answer #7 · answered by Dianna S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With that sort of dishonesty and obvious history that she didn't know about, I'd say "you can do better than that, honey" and kick him out.
2006-10-24 19:34:11 · answer #8 · answered by daisyprincess78 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he still hasn't told her the truth.he is hiding something.I bet another woman is pregnant.keep us informed.
2006-10-24 19:38:32 · answer #9 · answered by miraclehand2020 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are giving a third hand account of someone elses relationship. Why?
2006-10-24 19:33:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋