Family & Relationships - 13 October 2006

2006-10-13 07:48:22 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

even when their wrong they try and sound right.and even worse when they are right they make you feel like an idiot!

2006-10-13 07:48:21 · 36 answers · asked by peace1love04 1 in Singles & Dating

READ THIS PLZ!!!!!!!!!!!

i have a friend that i like, but i don't know if he likes me, i think he just thinks of me as a friend. he might even already have a girl friend. im having a birthday party soon, and im inviting him to go ice skating with me, what should i do?

2006-10-13 07:47:52 · 2 answers · asked by Samantha T 1 in Singles & Dating

Why can't a man just straight out say what he wants, and why can't a woman straight out say what she wants? The truth is, guys want 'tang, and girls want a house, family, and kids, so we have to do this dance of lies in order to tolerate eachother and pretend like we want the same thing, when we don't. Why is this?

2006-10-13 07:47:24 · 13 answers · asked by martin h 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

My step daughter doesn't have anything to do with her father or I, but will only call to ask for money. We don't want to be check book parents. What can we say to her?

2006-10-13 07:46:24 · 39 answers · asked by dlahey0924 2 in Family

i have a 13 year old son, and at the beginning of the school year he said that he wanted to join football. that was fine with me. well he plays both offense and defense. he mist a couple of practices and we thought for sure he would have lost his position, well he didnt. as a matter of fact he just made captain! well, now he is asking if he can miss practice, { he has a girl friend now } was i wrong to tell him that he cant miss? he is really good otherwise he would not be captain. and i dont want him to be a quiter. am i wrong?

2006-10-13 07:46:14 · 13 answers · asked by here to help 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

Me and my off again on again bf live together now for past 2 months. He does not hang out iwth me much, jsut plays sbox or goes to his friends to watch games or poker. Before we had a good sex life. We did things , just laying in bed talking was good enough for me. Now, nothing. We did break up months ago and he dated someone else. He swears he does not want to be with her and Im trying to believe him. It jsut seems like him dating someone else screwed us up real bad. He used to be more dominant in sex and now he just tells me if I ever want it to let him know. After years of him initiating sex - I have no clue. And when I try he tells me hes tired or if we do hes not that into it.
Id like some advice thoughts whatever, and trust me nothings going to hurt my feelings worse than they already have been hurt by him. I think about leaving him.... no sex no relationship but I love him so much. How do i get over go on or fix this?

2006-10-13 07:45:07 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I cheated on my boyfriend with his roommate..I love my boyfriend but I'm not sure if Im In Love with him=/..its complicated..the guy I cheated on him with is 23..and I Love him to death and I always have since the day I met him..hes cool to hang with and hes great im 17 years old..I know this guy cares about me ALOT hes told me the other night..but I know my boyfriend Loves me but hes loved alot of girls and sometimes I think the love he has for me is fake=/ or its just lust or obsessed pretty much..Im so torn apart and confused I just dont know what to do anymore=/..I cant leave someone I can trust not to hurt me..the 23 yr old has a bad past of hurting people matter of fact hes engaged to my friend..its killin me and I know im hurting my boyfriend with these weird feelings I have..I just need some help..I need to know what I should do..I cant understand what my hearts telling me to do..help

2006-10-13 07:44:27 · 9 answers · asked by Still Inlove 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

(A guy you happen to be friends with)
Whats your take on this? Affair and betrayal?? What???

2006-10-13 07:44:08 · 42 answers · asked by libby 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Sorry in advance that this is long...please bear w/ me. I met a guy who, for the most part is wonderful. There are a few things that nag at me, though. He has made comments like "I'm not good enough for you...I don't deserve you..." things like that. He is not used to being in a relationship with a woman like me, and I do get the sense that he is sometimes intimidated b/c I don't "need" him in the sense that others before me have; and yes, I have accomplished a lot with my life. Anyway, just recently, he had a serious injury and I offered to do everything for him. He flatly denied, saying he didn't want me to rearrange my life for him. I gave in w/ asking, because I knew I wouldn't win. So the other day, after trying to contact him several x's, turns out, he had to go back to the doctor. I don't know why he didn't answer my calls. Now, I'm being made to look like I wasn't there for him, and he's questioning my feelings for him just because I didn't call him every hour on the hour...

2006-10-13 07:43:53 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was home one day just messing around when my wife was out. I was thinking about her pantys and opened her draw pulled a pair out and put them on. Well Her and My motherinlaw just came in and saw ME OMG !!!!. Well she was mad at me and her mother started LOL. Now My motherinlaw treets me not as one of the men anymore. She will say small things to me like Get up and let the men sit down etc....

2006-10-13 07:43:06 · 22 answers · asked by skillwithtools 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My cousin Patty and I are close. Her husband was caught cheating on her. I offered her a place with me in my guest room. I’m not worried about her paying me or anything it’s family. However with in 24 hours she goes back to him? I am so mad at her, but I can’t yell at her incase she leaves him again.

But what is going on with her? She’s been cheated on before and knows the hurt, but her husband was caught with someone else and she returns to him within 24 hours? Were so close and i wish she seen it like everyone else does. Why did she do that?

2006-10-13 07:42:53 · 12 answers · asked by Juleette 6 in Marriage & Divorce

Hey I wanted to see how everybody feels about shaving their area. Im a man and I have been shaving down there for abotu 3 yrs now. Nothign turns me on more than a female who shaves it straight clean until its just pretty pink and skin. Personally I just cant get my face into all the hair and it gets all in my teeth.

What do you think? Shaved or not-shaved

2006-10-13 07:42:46 · 47 answers · asked by Mister Tee 1 in Singles & Dating

If you said "no" because you were already taken, what if you weren't and it had been awhile?

2006-10-13 07:42:39 · 12 answers · asked by henri r 2 in Singles & Dating

LOL. I know of a situation like this & I'm curious!

In two of the marriages, he was married to the same woman, so in essence, while he has been divorced three times, he only has two ex-wives.. but like it makes much of a difference?

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This is my second post of this question, because I think it may have a better home here in the Weddings category than in the Etiquette category. Otherwise, I apologize for the duplication.

2006-10-13 07:42:12 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

A friend of my wifes and I asked me to babysit but I was in for a big surprise. She seduced me, should I tell my wife??
They have been friend for 20 years. My wife would never know but I was given an ultimatum, keep it cumming or the wife finds out.
What would you do in this situation?

2006-10-13 07:42:09 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

If a man's money is low or he has alot of things he needs to do, does it make them not want to have shared intimacy with their girl.

2006-10-13 07:42:04 · 12 answers · asked by stella 2 in Singles & Dating

Hi, Situation: Very good friends, things ARE going to develop as we are spending a weekend away together........ wot to wear, wot not to wear....... Don't want to go to OTT so he thinks i'm gagging 4 it, wan2 be quite cool and casual about it all, no wrong impressions etc so.... A)Wot would you take as nightware....supposing i "mite" need it???? B) Underwear - nice & simple, black or white, quite plain or a little bit more??? Your opinions would be very much apreciated - Thanx!

2006-10-13 07:41:31 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband of 13 years left me for one of his co-workers who of course is ten years younger than I am. He cheated on me with her for months. Two months before their relationship began we were making long term plans for the future and then all of a sudden he is "not happy". We have a 9 year old son who lives with me primarily - he visits his Dad every other weekend. He is very hurt by all of this and I am doing my best to get him through this. I do not bad mouth his Dad or the other woman. All of this happened in six months! We are divorced now. I do my best not to contact my ex because he is like a stranger. How do I get through all this without becoming bitter. He made such a fool of me. I feel like an idiot. Plus it hurts to see him move on so quickly while I am taking things one day at a time. That makes me angry at myself. Do you ever get over this feeling of disappointment? How do you not let all of this change you in a negative way? I do not want to be bitter but it is hard?

2006-10-13 07:41:13 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Every month i cant wait to check it, however there is a number on there from a girl he use to mess wit. There is numerous calls and long time periods ranging from 1 to 50 minutes every day. He says now there just freinds and i am invading his personal life. Help(should i just throw away the key to my heart) and say f*ck it. Now this was last month i wonder if i will still see the same thing this month.

2006-10-13 07:40:47 · 43 answers · asked by CHEEETERS 1 in Singles & Dating

She says she's joining because she just wants to pay off her student loans. She doesn't owe that much! She want's adventure. She's taught overseas! She wants to get married & maybe even have a baby! I just told her that I want to marry her and take care of her! But she just tells me that I'm just being negative and that I'm treating her as if she was a little girl!? What!? I don't want to lose her! So what do I do?

2006-10-13 07:40:43 · 12 answers · asked by benoutnabout 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

do most chicks wear thongs, panites, both or none? and those that wear both, which one do they wear more often? and on what occasions?

2006-10-13 07:40:08 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I was thinking of this, how about calling the girl i love at exactly midnight and tell her how i feel.. Good idea or she will hang up the phone ?? help...

2006-10-13 07:39:19 · 23 answers · asked by Bassem 3 in Singles & Dating

How many peopel have ever been stood up? I met someone who I really want to go out with. She texts me all day long. All of a suddent today (our date day) she has not responded. Im expectign her to stand me up.

Anyway, how do you people feel about being stood up? Personally I would rather someone say they dont want me.

2006-10-13 07:39:12 · 7 answers · asked by Mister Tee 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-13 07:38:46 · 7 answers · asked by porcupine 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-13 07:37:38 · 11 answers · asked by forbidnfruit_420 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-13 07:37:30 · 17 answers · asked by netwalker01 3 in Singles & Dating

I met this really great, amazingly good looking and well-to-do guy who wore really nice clothes but it was too good to be true. He is gay. :'(

2006-10-13 07:37:17 · 21 answers · asked by ♡Choose Me♡ 1 in Singles & Dating

i was about to give my bf an amazing suprise it got delayed a day because it got too late. well yesterday night i had everything planned and the only way it could happen was if we went in the basement. NOTE my basement is nice and finished. well he simply refused to go down there knowing the suprise could only happen down there. "i dont want to go down there" he was tired from work and school and i accepted that he didnt want to go down so i figured..fine next time.

well i tried cuddling with him and he didnt pay any attention to me..usually he will still cuddle with me when he is tired/falling asleep but didnt. what is the deal? he knows ive been planning this suprise for about a week now.

2006-10-13 07:37:05 · 12 answers · asked by Lisa 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

like you know how typical women want the roman jaw and dark tall hansome, i dont fit into any of them, is that why i cant get a g/f

2006-10-13 07:36:55 · 16 answers · asked by inthesummertime888 1 in Singles & Dating