Me and my off again on again bf live together now for past 2 months. He does not hang out iwth me much, jsut plays sbox or goes to his friends to watch games or poker. Before we had a good sex life. We did things , just laying in bed talking was good enough for me. Now, nothing. We did break up months ago and he dated someone else. He swears he does not want to be with her and Im trying to believe him. It jsut seems like him dating someone else screwed us up real bad. He used to be more dominant in sex and now he just tells me if I ever want it to let him know. After years of him initiating sex - I have no clue. And when I try he tells me hes tired or if we do hes not that into it.
Id like some advice thoughts whatever, and trust me nothings going to hurt my feelings worse than they already have been hurt by him. I think about leaving him.... no sex no relationship but I love him so much. How do i get over go on or fix this?
2006-10-13 07:45:07 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh my god, are you talking about my relationship? This is the same situation as mine. I have tried talking about it, and he says that he loves me more than anyone in the world, and that when I am not with him, his heart hurts, but I don't really see much change no matter how much time I give him. I love him very much as well, and I am going to just be by his side and see what happens, I know that we love each other, and his work load is just too much right now, but I did think at first that maybe he is into someone else, and my friends even thought he might be gay, which I know isn't true. My advice to you and me, give him some time, if he truly loves you, he will come around, and if he doesn't, at least you gave it your best.
2006-10-13 07:51:15 · answer #1 · answered by wantstoknow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a homosexual. He goes over to his friends house strictly for "bl()wjob poker". Thats right, you can imagine what that is. He is a salad tosser. His friend, Matt, has been making out with him for years. They like to jump in the shower and shake their asses to spice girl tunes from the 90s. They also like to rub dickheads together and go to PIER 1. Turns out he's just not that into XBOX or your box. He loves c<>ck. The thought of Matt naked makes his peter tingle, and who could blame him. You've been f+cking his cousin for 4 years now. The reason you have to ask him to get it is because he's not gonna offer to taste his own cousins *** by going down on you. You should have known he was an *** clown the first time he just laid in bed and talked to you. There are only two things a bed is made for and talking isn't one of them. You wanna talk, go to T-Mobile or buy a CB radio. IF you wanna fuuck or sleep, get in bed. Maybe if you shaved your cooter, try something new. But I doubt it, he's a butt burglar. Hope I was of some help.
2006-10-13 07:58:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Simple answer, but it's not what you want to hear. He has found someone else, but wants to string you along too...if you want to "give him some", he'll come over; otherwise he's not interested. Move on with your life and find someone who cares about you. Continuing to play this game with him will get you nowhere. He doesn't want you, except for some casual sex, and only if he doesn't have anything (or anyone) better to do.
2006-10-13 07:50:54 · answer #3 · answered by answerman63 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe sex with someone else made him see that it's fun for the girl to initiate it once in a while. Try doing this, don't ask him, just make the move. It might work!
2006-10-13 07:47:32 · answer #4 · answered by claire 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think the relationship was over months ago. I think after a few on agains off agains, the person doesn't want to be with you, and just doesn't know how to tell you.
2006-10-13 08:24:14 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this isn't your situation, that's his. that's no longer a sex mission, you're there if he needs sex, that's PORN he's addicted to. you favor to inform him that he has to deal including his porn habit or you'll divorce him. both of you do not elect marriage counseling jointly, he desires to bypass to some Addicts nameless conferences. and do not basically substitute the password on your pc, both get some form of blockading software (call your information superhighway service so as that that's finished on the source and he won't be able to get round it) or cancel your information superhighway. He would attempt another avenues after that, notwithstanding that's going to likely be plenty harder for him to get his "restoration". If he desires to play video games at abode because he's bored, get him a recreation Boy. i imagine you'll get a used one for better or less $15.00 lately.
2016-10-16 04:49:08 · answer #6 · answered by mohammed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound unhappy... you should leave. The only way you are going to find someone good is to get rid of this guy.
2006-10-13 07:47:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems like he has another agenda and probably wants out of the relationship.
2006-10-13 07:47:16 · answer #8 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's time to move on. You won't be fully open to a new relationship until you let go of this one. And, sad to say, this one is over.
Sorry.
2006-10-13 07:47:59 · answer #9 · answered by Dave 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds to me like he's cheating on you. Pulling away is a definite sign. You need to move on.
2006-10-13 07:47:04 · answer #10 · answered by Hot Pants 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋