I cheated on my boyfriend with his roommate..I love my boyfriend but I'm not sure if Im In Love with him=/..its complicated..the guy I cheated on him with is 23..and I Love him to death and I always have since the day I met him..hes cool to hang with and hes great im 17 years old..I know this guy cares about me ALOT hes told me the other night..but I know my boyfriend Loves me but hes loved alot of girls and sometimes I think the love he has for me is fake=/ or its just lust or obsessed pretty much..Im so torn apart and confused I just dont know what to do anymore=/..I cant leave someone I can trust not to hurt me..the 23 yr old has a bad past of hurting people matter of fact hes engaged to my friend..its killin me and I know im hurting my boyfriend with these weird feelings I have..I just need some help..I need to know what I should do..I cant understand what my hearts telling me to do..help
2006-10-13 07:44:27 · 9 answers · asked by Still Inlove 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
just make sure you graduate. don't get pregnant. stop cheating and everything will begin to iron themselves out so your life won't suck.
2006-10-13 07:50:07 · answer #1 · answered by carlaerickson 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come on you said you are in love with your man, if was so much in love with him how could you cheat on him. You are complicated. Why don't you just get out of the relationship if you feel it is fake and just be single and just explore. You are just confused. You are only 17 think about school and trying to go to college and wait a little for a relationship. Just hang out with your best friends and enjoy the single life.
2006-10-13 14:53:57 · answer #2 · answered by BabyGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, so your boyfriend is fake, lustful, and obsessed. So how is that different than you when you have sex with another guy that you've loved since the day you met him? You need to do your boyfriend a favor and leave him.
By the way, a 23 yo having sex with a 17 yo is a crime in most states.
2006-10-13 14:50:36 · answer #3 · answered by John 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cheated on your boyfriend with you friends fiance? Good lord child, get a hold of those hormones. Honey, think before you act, is it really your heart or your hormones? You can trust him not to hurt you, but he cannot trust you. If and when he finds out, not only will you probabaly loose him, but he looses his friend, and your girl friend will probably dump both you and the other guy.
2006-10-13 14:53:11 · answer #4 · answered by Judy W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably just need a break from relationships to do some emotional work for yourself. I see nothing good out of sleeping with your boyfriend's engaged friend.
2006-10-13 14:47:59 · answer #5 · answered by stella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
During this age relationship is about being happy. U're still young go on as long as u're happy. Don't tell me that u're ready to settle down.
2006-10-13 14:48:20 · answer #6 · answered by Sob Sob 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pick neither you are young enjoy your life. Yes we have all been there but believe me it will be okay. Move forward never back.
2006-10-13 14:51:05 · answer #7 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who do you love the most? Who do you feel is real? When you can answer these questions you have your answer.
2006-10-13 14:50:00 · answer #8 · answered by kourtnyi r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on, you are young, dont settle down so young
2006-10-13 14:46:07 · answer #9 · answered by rich2481 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋