Family & Relationships - 13 October 2006

I'm 27 and have been with my bf for 5 years, currently I have no plans to marry him. But in my state if your with some one more then 8yrs your married, its called the common law marriage. I dont want to be married to anyone. How does this law effect me? To be honest it scares me. I just dont see why people feel they have to get married. I know you want to prove your love but why do u need to have a party and a peiece of paper to prove it. 3 years ago my bf asked me to marry him,i explained why I dont want to be married, he excepted that. Truth be told when I was growing up all my friends parents were divorced or seperated. My parents split when I was 9. In 95 my dad died but i know if he would have lived they would have divorced to. Before he died my mom was so bidder and angry, she used to say she wished she never got married. I've heard lots of other people say the same. So my ? again is why get married.

2006-10-13 15:57:11 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-13 15:57:10 · 5 answers · asked by Huguenot 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

of any sex

2006-10-13 15:57:08 · 10 answers · asked by Echo 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

i've been noticing that if someone has sex with a step-sibling it's incest but if someone's having sex with an in-law(ie sister inlaw,brother inlaw, etc.) it isn't. why the difference? why can't having sex with an inlaw be called incest too?

2006-10-13 15:57:04 · 2 answers · asked by taxman_ll 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-13 15:56:49 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok she called me lesbian because i hang out with this girl named gloria who's supposely a whore from what everyone says but anyway the girl who was saying this stuff was like right infront of me in gym and she was saying this stuff to gloria and some other girls and when they looked at me they said "you have such pretty eyes" and then they laughed and when they were done saying that stuff gloria like pulled me and said that this girl said that i was lesbian and i said whatever and then i went to my friend and she said well your new to this school and they will make up things just to make u mad and i was like ok and then after that we had to run 2 miles without stopping and i'm usually in the front so i went in the back of the line to run and when i saw that girl who said that stuff about me i pretended i tripped and pushed her over when she started to run and i said oh i'm sorry i didn't see you and laughed and ran to the front and i heard her say ***** and i was like whatever.

2006-10-13 15:56:20 · 25 answers · asked by diamonds_are_love 2 in Friends

2006-10-13 15:55:54 · 2 answers · asked by gardenia33_99 3 in Friends

I really like him alot

2006-10-13 15:55:52 · 4 answers · asked by Sexy chick 1 in Singles & Dating

sometimes i look around at my friends most of them being in relationships and wonder if i am ever gunna find someone or am i going to continue falling for unavaible people or people i just have no chance in hell with or am i just going to end up one of those sad old women with only 12 cats to keep me company.

2006-10-13 15:55:13 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I think I'm ready to tell my mom, and just my mom about my little addiction, cutting. Next weekend I will be home alone with her, minus the hours I work, so I'm thinking it would be the perfect time. I dont have to tell her, but i can only wear bracelets and sweatbands for so long, and i can never lie and say the scars are from something ealse, b/c they are to deep and obvious. Its been a couple years now and I'm really ready to actaully stop...at leaste i think... so I'm thinking if she knows she'll be able to whatch out for me and just keep a close on on me, and scicne I'll know that it'll be easier to not do it. So heres my question... how should i tell her and will it be worth it, I realllly don't know how she will react. And I'm scared to death.

2006-10-13 15:54:48 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I'm the VP of a club at school. & ppl r starting to come up to me & saying they don't like the president...she's too bossy & isn't "fit" 4 the position...some wanna have re-elections of the president. Is that a gud thing if they want 2 re-elect the pres.? Wouldn't that make them lose faith in the other leaders as well? Would it be right? I know itz gonna hurt the president's feelingz...& i don't know how 2 break it 2 her either. Plz advise me on wht I shud do.

2006-10-13 15:54:31 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-10-13 15:54:16 · 23 answers · asked by butterfly13 1 in Singles & Dating

So for the pasy few yrs my mother has became an alcoholic.
about two hours after she gets home from work she pours herself a class of coke mixed with liquor.
She is a functioning alcoholic because she gets up and goes to work everyday and everything.
There is no use talking to her because sober or not she denies having a problem.
So yes i hvae tried having serious talks with her she is hard headed and there is no use talking to her about it.
I have an alcoholic dad as well but i am used to it for he has been that way for all my life and he just like my mother is a functioning alcoholic.
I cant our her liquor out i dont know where she hides it and i cant show her research or anything .
I cant get to any meeting because i have no car and i cant tell my mom " o your an alcoholic so take me to meetings for teens with alcoholic parents" .
I am basically asking on tips on dealing with this problem

2006-10-13 15:53:16 · 14 answers · asked by nilleh 3 in Family

I'm a single mother to a beautiful (almost) three year old little girl and I'm trying to start some new Holiday traditions that we can look forward to year after year. It doesn't matter what religious denomination the holiday is for, I just need ideas. Most of the ideas I would like are without spending a lot of money (although not completely fundless) and also not focused around gift giving (to each other). Thanks!

2006-10-13 15:53:13 · 6 answers · asked by wheat1304 2 in Family

2006-10-13 15:52:53 · 1 answers · asked by gardenia33_99 3 in Singles & Dating

ok so theres this guy and a bunch of us are going to the movies tonight. i like him and he likes me. i broke up with my boyfriend like a week ago and they were friends and he said he was going to ask me out but he said he was going to wait a little because i just broke up with someone. well im going to see him again tonight......sould a make a move???

2006-10-13 15:52:06 · 16 answers · asked by RASTAAAA 1 in Singles & Dating

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2006-10-13 15:51:33 · 9 answers · asked by da main man 1 in Singles & Dating

hey ppl... I'm trying to be more creative for my husband.. i don't have that much exp. ..i've been advised by a previous question i posted to try new things and have fun but i dunno i guess I'm not as creative as others.. can you please tell me or guide me to a website..thanks..i realllly care to please him but i don't know how..

2006-10-13 15:49:41 · 9 answers · asked by for the heck of it 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

peoples e-mail addresses?

2006-10-13 15:49:11 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

she has been seeing someone for about 2 months.thay only see eatch other on weekends but during the week she ask's me to come over. she tells me one thing and tells other people somthing defernt .why does she leade me on. she said to give her time to think but i don't know how she can think when she is seeing someone. should i just give up on her .I don't know why I let her do this to me

2006-10-13 15:49:08 · 19 answers · asked by big o 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Curious females or few "happily married couples" with or without kids. MY fiancee and I are looking for a fw genuine people cuople so hang out with on occcassion...Bowling, skating, movies, dinner, BBQ, ect...serious answers please!!!

2006-10-13 15:48:17 · 1 answers · asked by heandI 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Do I look better with or without my glasses? Look at my new current pic of me without my glasses on. What do you think?

2006-10-13 15:48:08 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well this is continued from my latest quiestion about my girlfriend well other girls like me they always keep asking me out i say no but i dont want her to break up with me because of the girls liking me.and the guy that flirts with her she might date him and think i wont be sad because so many girls like me i always tell her that i love her i take her to best resterants we make out . i am worried what should i do with the girls.

2006-10-13 15:47:19 · 1 answers · asked by bloo b 3 in Singles & Dating

He is a friend we have laughs together and we dont fight. i like him but i dont no if he likes me and if he doesnt than i dont want to ruin a friendship

2006-10-13 15:47:14 · 2 answers · asked by jesald15 1 in Singles & Dating

Well I did tell him that I was sorry and he accepted but not until after i called his cell and started bawling on the phone. I cant call him bc im deaf and i can leave him a voice mail. I didnt really know what to say. He dont live alone and he always has to give his grandma 400 bucks for rent which is bull bc thats almost all of his money. Ive never had a relationship where i was so sad bc i couldnt see my bf but i love this guy to death. He means a lot to me. I need a way to not get so angry with him bc im gonna screw up. He always says im the ONLY one for him n i believe him til i get pissed off at him. For those of u who are wonderin what this is about check out I need major advice/help!?
I need someone to tell me how to keep my cool when im talkin to him on here bc its not easy i get angry so easy and sometimes want to harm myself.

2006-10-13 15:46:26 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Just trying to get opinions here of what people think about internet dating sites like Match, eHarmony, Yahoo Personals, etc. Any success stories? Any nightmare stories? Think they are a good idea?

2006-10-13 15:46:15 · 6 answers · asked by amanda_loo_hoo 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-13 15:45:34 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My probable fiance` has a best friend that is a woman. He lets her stay at his home anytime she wants to. She gets homeless often. She is like a sister to him. I know he doesn't think of her "that way" , It just bothers me her being there.

2006-10-13 15:44:33 · 23 answers · asked by Tarpaulin 4 in Singles & Dating

I meet this guy a month ago, he calls me every other day we´ve kissed twice, he talks to his friends about me , he´s really nice BUT he never asks me out!! I know he´s not married, shy or trying to hide anything but I´m getting a bit frustrated, I don´t want to ask him out I´m shy. What do you think, I really like him but it makes me wonder if he´s just not that into me .What do u think?

2006-10-13 15:43:34 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

expect a major change in your life this coming year?
This can be anything from a new baby, ,job, location, spouse, to a new dress( if it is really important to you), let me know?

2006-10-13 15:43:25 · 10 answers · asked by cking_pOise... 4 in Other - Family & Relationships