2006-10-13 15:54:16 · 23 answers · asked by butterfly13 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He doesn't want to....PISS YOU OFF.
2006-10-13 15:56:27 · answer #1 · answered by xxx 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Either he is doing something he shouldn't be there or he just doesn't want to hurt her feelings. The latter is more likely. A lot of men go to strip clubs and it's nothing more than watching the girls. Men are visual creatures. Just because they go to a strip club doesn't mean they're committing infidelity. A lot of married women have insecurities about this issue. They don't want to be compared to these women. A lot of wives think If they don't look like those women or do what those women do, then their husbands won't think they're enough for him. Most times that's not the case at all. Many women think their husbands must have some sick problem if they go to strip clubs. But it's really simple....men just like to look at women...especially naked women. It doesn't usually have any bearing on the way he feels about his wife. The wives, however, don't see it that way. So the men have to lie.
2006-10-13 23:03:53 · answer #2 · answered by ammellisa 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My Boyfriend told me he was going to the strip club cuz his friends wanna go. He said that even tho he looks at the girls he said going to strip club was like going to get burger and fries when u got steak and potato at home.
It was just a lie to make me feel better about him watching woman get naked.When he died I found out he had even taken pictures of the women. It hurt, cuz it was an attack of my self esteem. The man who told me I was the most beautiful woman in the world is going out to PAY to 'look' at other women.
I asked myself this, at the strip clubs they are watching other women dance, looking as they take off their clothes.
Would u want ur man to look at a lady get naked for him?
Then I thought despite the rules strip clubs do get wild. There is a lot of touching going on.
Even tho some women say their man is coming home to them, this is just another form of cheating. If it isn't then would a woman allow him to do all the things those strippers do in front of her. Would u allow another woman to grind ur man, and get naked in front of you?
Why did he lie? CUz he knows deep down that visiting strip clubs are just a house of cheating. It's soft core prostitution and if he went he lied cuz he knew this was true. He's gonna tell u that he lie cuz he knew u wouldn't understand, but he lied cuz he knows all in all it's cheating.
2006-10-13 23:04:59 · answer #3 · answered by Gifted and Gracious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because the wife would get jealous...
I don't think anyone would want their husband to be in a club where other women gives them lap dances...hehe.
2006-10-13 22:56:18 · answer #4 · answered by Brooke 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the wife has to ask then the husband should probably lie.
2006-10-13 22:58:34 · answer #5 · answered by katie l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cuz he has something to hid. He feels guilty and wants to keep his strip club trip a secret...
2006-10-13 22:57:12 · answer #6 · answered by bluechick 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Doesnt want to hurt your feelings!
Did he just recently go? ANd lie about it? Maybe he felt pressured by "the guys" to go...but doesnt want ot hurt you by letting you know he went. So he lies.
OR he did something there and guilt keeps him lieing. But lets think happy that he just is trying to not hurt you.
2006-10-13 22:55:13 · answer #7 · answered by Miz_Kassandra 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The real question is how would you. . . . . i know my advice is not Dr.Phil Solid but maybe you're not giving him alot . . . ask him why would he go? . . . . i used to love to go to the strip clubs but now that i look back it's kinda sad women dancing for dollars. .
2006-10-13 22:57:27 · answer #8 · answered by josbel_07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BECAUSE HE KNOWS IT WILL UPSET YOU JUST LIKE SOME WOMEN'S DON'T WANT THEIR MAN TO HAVE A BACHELOR PARTY CAUSE OF THE STRIPPERS THEY GET AND IF YOU LIKE THE STRIP CLUB TELL YOUR SPOUSE AND MAYBE YOU COULD GO TOGETHER
2006-10-13 22:59:08 · answer #9 · answered by poda 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well..lets go with the obvious...maybe the wife might get upset....for starters. Not every wife is ok and cool with their spouse going to a strip club. and vice versa...so he might go...but will not tell his wife.
2006-10-13 22:56:00 · answer #10 · answered by bald_guy69 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
GRRRRRRRRRR
Because men are DOGS and the stuff that goes on in those places is beyond words. Keep ur good eye on him gf!!!
2006-10-13 22:57:22 · answer #11 · answered by Kim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋