2006-10-13 15:45:34 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It doesn't matter what he wants. The question that you need to ask yourself is: "Are you going to give it to him"?
2006-10-13 15:50:50 · answer #1 · answered by No More 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I can sum it up pretty easy, he is having his cake and eating it too! The question you should be asking is why I am still having sex with him? You know he is cheating and you are sending the message that it is ok with you by still sleeping with him. You need to consider the risks to you and not just the emtional ones. STDs are real and you are in danger of them with a cheater. Condoms( if you are using them ) are not 100%.
2006-10-13 15:54:42 · answer #2 · answered by melissa31011 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes not really having sex with you hes having sex with her... while he's humping you shes on his mind.... an he has to keep up his marital promise to you by humping you so you won't know if he is cheating... when ppl cheat they still sleep with there partner... so stop sleeping with him cut off the sex cus next thing you know u may get a STD from him sooner or later if not now they aren't using condoms 24/7 when they are humping...
2006-10-13 15:51:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good question. You'd need to share your thoughts, feelings and experiences to date for anyone to be more helpful to you though.
Some people cheat outside of the relationship 'cause IN the relationship they find one or more things lacking. He could still be with you, 'cause so much else is exciting and wonderful.
Maybe you should communicate more, be a postive and active listener and do more to be supportive of what he wants.
2006-10-13 15:48:42 · answer #4 · answered by megettingbetter 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Because he wants the best of both worlds.He could have more than the 2 of you for all you know.(not being sarcastic)It could be true.
Why do you want to continue having sex with someone like that?Start to love yourself more and find someone that "really" cares for you only. Get rid of him now and I really hope you have been using condoms to protect yourself from STD's. If not ,go get checked out now.This really isn't worth your health and emotional state when it finally hits you as to what's going on.
2006-10-13 15:57:30 · answer #5 · answered by tea cup 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because men will get it wherever and when ever they can ,i say u flip the script and let him know 2 can play his game. i know u probally dont wanna be with anyone else but pretend to have been asked on a date or u found out at work that some nice guy has a crush on you be very subtle of course
2006-10-13 15:51:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please don't take this the wrong way, but if you are willing to give it out even though you know he is cheating he is going to take what he can get. put your foot down and tell him you are not going to give it if he continues to cheat and if he continues to cheat that you are going to leave. tell him that you have a life and you are not going to wait around for him to give you what you need. don't let him play you us women are better than that. let the men know that. good luck
2006-10-13 15:49:26 · answer #7 · answered by Boo G 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Does he know you know? Do you act like you care? The majority of guys (especially immature guys), are gonna take as much as they can get, as often as they can get it. As long as there's a chance he can still get it from you, he's gonna try. If you are trying to be in a relationship with this guy, RUN AWAY AND DON'T LOOK BACK!
2006-10-13 15:55:46 · answer #8 · answered by justme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Better question is, "why wouldn't he"? He seems to want his cake and eat it too. You are likely close to his heart and a great lover to boot. He sounds like a tom cat and likes to get the most knotches on his bed post. Dump him before you get a disease you cannot get rid of. Do yourself a favor.
2006-10-13 15:50:41 · answer #9 · answered by elanabutcher 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ever hear of the phrase, they want their cake and eat it too? Why wouldn't he if you let him? No man will turn down sex most likely. You should think more of yourself and say no.
2006-10-13 15:57:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For some who cheat it is a turn on and makes them hornier. Dont know why but it does.
2006-10-13 15:48:01 · answer #11 · answered by Sassy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋