I meet this guy a month ago, he calls me every other day we´ve kissed twice, he talks to his friends about me , he´s really nice BUT he never asks me out!! I know he´s not married, shy or trying to hide anything but I´m getting a bit frustrated, I don´t want to ask him out I´m shy. What do you think, I really like him but it makes me wonder if he´s just not that into me .What do u think?
2006-10-13 15:43:34 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think that he like you to and if he talks to his friends about you is because he might want to be in a relationship with you . But if he hasn't ask you out maybe because he wants to know you better or maybe is because he doesn't know how you feel for him. he might think that you want him as a fling you know what i mean. if he doesn't ask you out then i think you should show him that you have confidences.
2006-10-13 15:52:11 · answer #1 · answered by *Cherrytop* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should make the first move, and ask him, he might be the type who like it when girls make the first move, i don't know, but thats for you to find out. Or you just get a real serious conversation started with him, and then ask him how do he feel about you, and then mayb he'll ask the question, and if he don't then you should. Good luck, i hope i help u a lil bit.
2006-10-13 15:51:20 · answer #2 · answered by xxMiizzCxx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is truly the way you say he is then he probably really likes you. Maybe he's just not ready for committment right now. You should really ask him where you guys are headed to. Or how he feels about you. That way, you would know how he feels and you don't have to ask him to be in a relationship! =) hope it helps
2006-10-13 15:46:19 · answer #3 · answered by craz34jason 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you be shy if you've already kissed him? In between kisses ask him what he's doing for dinner the next night?
2006-10-13 15:46:05 · answer #4 · answered by cbay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course he is into you.and you say you know he is not shy, well it appears to me that he is. if you like this guy, you need to over come being shy and ask him out. it don't have to be anything major, catch a movie, or invite him out for coffee. {depending on how old you are?} time to come out of your shell, and begin life before it passes you by.
2006-10-13 15:49:31 · answer #5 · answered by here to help 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably wants to take it slow and really get to know you better first and there is nothing wrong with that. And if you really want to go out with him, get the nerve to ask him out and see what happens. Nothing ventured, nothing gained.
2006-10-13 15:51:13 · answer #6 · answered by mpicky2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be nonchalant about it. Like “I saw previews for (movie) I think it looks good. Do you want to see it with me”? No preasure just movies right?
2006-10-13 15:48:32 · answer #7 · answered by Gypsy Cat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him straight up!! The only way to know is to ask him!!
2006-10-13 16:01:23 · answer #8 · answered by tod 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who knows....men are hard to figure out sometimes.
2006-10-13 15:48:14 · answer #9 · answered by xxx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is waiting.... he will ask but he is keeping u in suspense which makes u want him more
2006-10-13 15:46:02 · answer #10 · answered by jimmy h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋