Family & Relationships - 10 October 2006

If is mom hates me bc of sumthing that happened between me and her godson. he raped me and he is in jail so thats y she hates me. but i love dylan 2 death and we had sex so i wanna think he loves me but theres this girl down in Florida that is supost 2 be Dylans gf. but i want 2 ask him out but i'm scared 2 cuz of his mom. i've loved him since 5th grade. he says he loves me back. but theres a lil bit of doubt in him still but i love him so much can anyone plz help me?

2006-10-10 14:41:43 · 5 answers · asked by blah blah 1 in Singles & Dating

she kicks me, punches me, pinches me...alas, she's even started to bite me now (weep)....how do I control this RAVING LUNATIC OF A WIFE OF MINE...?

2006-10-10 14:41:35 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Does anyone know what it involves to get married in zimbabwe if you only want a civil ceremony - quickie wedding, do you need a marriage license and how long does that take to issue if it is needed?
Do you need to produce anything to prove status?
Any help would be great.

2006-10-10 14:41:29 · 5 answers · asked by Jennifer W 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-10 14:41:06 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-10 14:39:39 · 23 answers · asked by ashley l 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm still in highschool but I've had a few boyfriends and I know what type of guy I like. This guy however is not what I usually go for. He's not that smart, he's not interested in marriage, and he's not interested in kids.
At first I didn't even know why I was friends with him. He's blunt, he's unpredictable, he's simple minded, and he's always talking about how hot some girl is. It makes him amusing to talk to though. And I'm finding it hard not to fall for him...even though sometimes it seems like he just sees me as one of the guys there's an attraction between us that is hard to ignore.
I can even picture us together in the future... which is something I've never been able to do with any other guy. What should I do? Should I move on... or let myself fall for him?

2006-10-10 14:38:58 · 7 answers · asked by politeplayer12 1 in Singles & Dating

Can I have female friends, wife know the name but don't know the women and we have phone conversations on a regular?

2006-10-10 14:38:08 · 18 answers · asked by No Love 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i've only had 1 GF, my best friend. that came natural. my new friend says she wants 2 go out w/ me, but ive asked twice this past week. she seems receptive, but then something comes up. i just dont know how to realy ask a girl out. please help. what are somethings i can do 2 win her over???

2006-10-10 14:36:36 · 13 answers · asked by shane1 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-10 14:36:12 · 27 answers · asked by love-a 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Just wanting to know!!

2006-10-10 14:35:47 · 9 answers · asked by peachtree_21915 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

A friend of mine has recently "redefined" our relationship, saying I wasn't giving the friendship enough value or respect (which was untrue--she accused me of these things w/o even asking me) ...so now she wants us to just be "casual" friends...ok, so we both have a mutual friend who I'm pretty close to. Well now that the first friend and I are not close anymore, all of a sudden she's telling the mutual friend "how thankful she is for their friendship" and sending her all these nice emails and stuff...and giving me the cold shoulder, not even answering my email. Now I feel that she's just being catty with our mutual friend, being so "appreciative" of that friendship...as if to say MY friendship was not a blessing to her or whatever. But I want to try to keep pursuing at least a casual friendship with her because I don't hate her. I just wasn't expecting a total rebuff. My question now is, should I keep trying to pursue this friendship or should I just let it go and stop trying??

2006-10-10 14:35:08 · 7 answers · asked by peachy78 5 in Friends

I like this guy in my school but I don't know what to do. I tell him everything that's going on in my life. Should i ask him out or should I have him for a BFF? I really do have feelings for him but I don't know what to do.

2006-10-10 14:35:00 · 12 answers · asked by Lola 1 in Singles & Dating

as an 11th guy should i date

a) senior girl
b) junior girl (last choice)
c) freshman girl
d) 8th grade girl

none of us go to the same school but kno each other

2006-10-10 14:34:44 · 12 answers · asked by The King of Games 3 in Singles & Dating

does it matter if there is grass on the field?

2006-10-10 14:34:26 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well i had this bf that i think really liked me and we slow danced at a dance and were going out but then all the sudden he just broke up with me 3 days later I didnt do anything wrong and i dont know whats going on but i still really like him what should i do i have already asked him back out and he has to give me answer should i go back out with him if he broke up with me 4 no reason or not cause i feel like im in love with him.......! What do I do?

2006-10-10 14:34:15 · 23 answers · asked by happy_go_lucky 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-10 14:33:59 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

when a guy is married, don't he usually have his ring on his left hand? so what does it mean when he has a ring on the ring finger on his right hand? and how does this work for women?

2006-10-10 14:33:51 · 12 answers · asked by starlove2 6 in Marriage & Divorce

This is just something I have been wondering about for a while since this guy asked me to make love to him!! I just met this guy about a month and 1/2 ago!!I told him that he didn't love me so why did he say make love!! He said that we didnt have to be in love to make love so I want to know your opinions about this!!! Keep in mind that I have not done anything with him!!!

2006-10-10 14:33:03 · 26 answers · asked by ♥♥Mommy to 2 Divas♥♥ 7 in Singles & Dating

How can you tell if you wife is lying to you are there any signs of it and what can be said when i catch her doing it? I love her with all my heart an soul but I think she has been hiding things

2006-10-10 14:32:41 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

What if it was a van?
I take showers at the gym, so I am clean.
And I do have a job.
Would you?

2006-10-10 14:30:38 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this week i am going to a sorta sleepover thing w/ my frends, but the thing is like 4 guys are gonna be there but not sleeping over, only for the beginning. we're just friends, none of us are going out or anything...btw i'm 14 nearly...but i know my parents get all mad. b4 when i was w/ my friend and tried to meet this guy and his friends, my mom found out and was really questioning it and didn't really want me to go with that friend anmore. this friend who is hosting this day is really nice and i'm great friends with her. and my parents think i'm like..gonna make out with them and get really nervous. how do i tell them that i'm just friends with guys? like, they don't get that i have guyfriends...they think its boyfriends or no boys at all..how do i tell? becuase guys are good friends of mine too!

2006-10-10 14:29:07 · 7 answers · asked by heyy i'm retarded 1 in Friends

2006-10-10 14:28:08 · 16 answers · asked by Bubbles 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok my bf is really nice and I like him very much but he and my so--called best friend is flirting with him like crazy I really think she likes him but I don't know....I have already asked her but she said she didn't like him.what do I do.....she flipped her her hair in his face 5 times (I counted) but he's flirting bacvk how should I handle this I don't want to lose my boy friend or my best friend.But I don't know how too confront her or him about .please help me

2006-10-10 14:27:28 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

me and this guy from my school have been talking for about 1 1/2 week! and i dont think its going to work out... i see us as just friends but he likes me alot...as people say...how do i break it to him i want to be just friends?

2006-10-10 14:27:06 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

All In The Title question

2006-10-10 14:25:54 · 12 answers · asked by mx_chic_4_life 1 in Friends

its semi formal
how should i ask a girl that ive had a crush on for a while
i havent spoken to her except a few hi's and hello's

2006-10-10 14:25:44 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am trying to get a gf at school, but I am afraid that she will obligingly go out with me for a bit just to make it seem like a joke to everybody else.


This sort of thing has happened to me before.

Suggestions?

2006-10-10 14:25:14 · 4 answers · asked by needhelp_guy 1 in Singles & Dating

i dont know how to cook and i dont want to learn .will that be a problem when i do get marry one day??

2006-10-10 14:24:50 · 43 answers · asked by can u ♥ moi? 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I want to start planning to get pregnant in a year or so, but my husband won't even listen to me. He's all about "planning" and "being ready", which I know is impossible. He wants to wait about 5 years till we are older. We are both 22. We have been happily married for 2 1/2 years and we both have full time jobs and a house.....everything! He just can't stand when I bring up the "baby" thing. He goes crazy and thinks I'm ridiculous. I'm starting to think this man doesn't want to have children with me, and I know it bothers me more than he wants to believe. He's assured me tons of times that he wants us to have kids in the future....But WAY in the future. He doesn't even like to be around my friends who have kids. What can I do? I love this man, and it seems like most other men are excited about kids and almost want it more than the woman. But my husband is the opposite! HELP!

2006-10-10 14:24:39 · 16 answers · asked by Mel 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I would like to hear anyone's opinion on this, it is very important. The girl met the guy through very close girlfriends, who had known him for about 3 years. And she herself has known him for about a year. And they have her parents's concent.

2006-10-10 14:23:45 · 18 answers · asked by punk_rocker_chick09 1 in Singles & Dating