this week i am going to a sorta sleepover thing w/ my frends, but the thing is like 4 guys are gonna be there but not sleeping over, only for the beginning. we're just friends, none of us are going out or anything...btw i'm 14 nearly...but i know my parents get all mad. b4 when i was w/ my friend and tried to meet this guy and his friends, my mom found out and was really questioning it and didn't really want me to go with that friend anmore. this friend who is hosting this day is really nice and i'm great friends with her. and my parents think i'm like..gonna make out with them and get really nervous. how do i tell them that i'm just friends with guys? like, they don't get that i have guyfriends...they think its boyfriends or no boys at all..how do i tell? becuase guys are good friends of mine too!
2006-10-10 14:29:07 · 7 answers · asked by heyy i'm retarded 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
ALSO yes, her parents will be at the sleepover. the guys aren't sleeping over..again..they're just going to be there at the beginning cuz we're going to see a movie or something...AS FRIENDS!
2006-10-10 15:00:09 · update #1
The only thing that might help is if there are going to be adults at this sleepover. If there are have one of them call and talk to your parents maybe if they know there will be adult suppervision there they will be willing to let you go. But if there is not going to be any adults there I am sorry there is nothing that can be done to change your parents minds they hear about too many young girld getting pregnaunt and they just do not want you to be another statistic.. They are only the way they are because they love you and do not want to see anything bad happen to you. That is the only reason...
2006-10-10 14:35:58 · answer #1 · answered by melthule 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm, maybe if you hang out at the mall and have a coke with them and allow your parents to sit a few feet away (but dont tell your friends that are guys that your parents are there) and they see it's cool and nobody's gonna make out and stuff then they'll chill and relax.
Also have them talk to the parents of this girl (I'm assuming that the parents of the girl will be there) and see if they can assure your parents before and after the sleepover.
If they tell you no still, don't sweat it. Take it maturely. If you do, they will see how mature you are and will be able to give you more freedom in the future. You're only fourteen-you've still got some more years ahead of you.
2006-10-10 21:45:22 · answer #2 · answered by sweetdollツ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're at the age when teenagers test the limits with their parents in order to establish independence. It's usually a long struggle. Out of respect to your parents I would defer to them over an issue like this, at least until you are a little older (like 16 or 17). You can tell them you resisted temptation and get brownie points (good for rewards).
2006-10-10 21:34:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Above all be honest with your parents, maybe have the boys come over beforehand and meet your parents. Tell them about the time when the boys will be leaving and then wait for their decision. I hope it all works out for ya.
2006-10-10 21:33:27 · answer #4 · answered by snoop_dougie_doug04 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol its becuz ur a girl of course there gonna be over protective of you and ppl seem to see young girls as a gullible curious group.You should tell them what you feel and think about this situation.Sit them down and present your proposal Haha be a Negotiator!
2006-10-10 21:37:02 · answer #5 · answered by ray_kay15 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just keep telling them over and over that their just friends and have nothing to worry about.keep reassuring them about it.that way they start to think that you are a responsible daughter.
2006-10-10 21:58:58 · answer #6 · answered by ~Bubblii~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look them in the eye and tell them that they already have steady girlfriends, or that they are gay.
2006-10-10 21:35:31 · answer #7 · answered by Alec with a C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋