Well i had this bf that i think really liked me and we slow danced at a dance and were going out but then all the sudden he just broke up with me 3 days later I didnt do anything wrong and i dont know whats going on but i still really like him what should i do i have already asked him back out and he has to give me answer should i go back out with him if he broke up with me 4 no reason or not cause i feel like im in love with him.......! What do I do?
2006-10-10 14:34:15 · 23 answers · asked by happy_go_lucky 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
More details sry didnt explain enough the thing is i think he was using me but i fell 4 him ahould i still like him or should i think hes slime? I really like him cause i fell 4 him but please just dont say no i need an explanation or it wont help
2006-10-10 14:44:27 · update #1
it is life. ignore and move away.
2006-10-10 14:36:40 · answer #1 · answered by prince47 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I do understand how you feel, but please don't take it personally that he "left". Obviously, he is not into making any kind of comittment. You don't say how old you are, but I'm guessing you still have lots of time to find "the right guy". Don't ask him out, or follow him, or even think about him. You aren't IN LOVE with him after a slow dance and a few days...no way!! Just chalk it up to a bad experience for you and remember..you WILL find someone else who isn't going to play games, will treat you wonderfully, and will be willing to make a comittment. OKAY?
Best of luck my dear.
2006-10-10 14:41:08 · answer #2 · answered by Goddess Kitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boys / men mature much more slowly than girls / women. So if you are about the same age you're probably a decade ahead emotionally. Advice: a. confront him gently to see if he has an explanation (unlikely he has one; still less likely he will tell you if he does); b. find somebody more mature. It doesn't matter how long it takes to find the right guy. Its' worth it when you do.
2006-10-10 14:38:22 · answer #3 · answered by camdenjohn2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, ill tell you right now, you dont love him and he isnt in love with you. You are both too young to even be in love. You can chalk this up to experience, and learn from it. Ask him out, why not, and while you are at it ask out a couple other guys. Soon enough that wont be possible for you to do, and you wont want to, you'll be married with children.
2006-10-10 14:37:51 · answer #4 · answered by rand a 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well for me what you must do is not to talk to him first, maybe there is a problem that he need t solve only by him self, and even if he may not be talking or even reaching you these times, there will be a time that he will get to know the importance of a girl like you and besides if that man is really meant for you, it would ultimately be you and him no matter what may happen,
And i think it is not good if you will just regard this, because in this time, only you must understand what is happening, between you and him,....well that's all,...hope it helps
2006-10-10 14:41:15 · answer #5 · answered by Rolando Jr. E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont bother him....sounds like he isnt interested in you.. If u feel u want to know why he broke up with you. Ask him. But be prepared..some guys can really hurt a girl
2006-10-10 14:37:34 · answer #6 · answered by ghettoco 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sadly, some people are immature and are unable to sustain a relationship. Find out what his reason for breaking up with you was. If he can't tell you, he doesn't know himself very well. If it was for a very trivial reason (like you sneezed while he was watching a football game), hang it up. Find somebody better for you, someone who enjoys being with you. And don't beg guys to go out with you - it's bad for your sense of dignity.
2006-10-10 14:38:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is not any excuse for the two considered one of you behaving violently. you mustn't be together in case you inspire that style of reaction in one yet another. i'm sorry to declare that in spite of the fact that it is genuine. some all human beings is poisonous to one yet another and you 2 are it. This combat has in fact opened the door for the two considered one of you to be bodily abusive to eachother and it will purely worsen. Take it from somebody who knows for particular.
2016-10-19 04:26:09 · answer #8 · answered by oleyar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he ask you back out then say no because he said no to you and find another guy that makes you even more happy! Because now you have to play hard to get!
2006-10-10 14:37:10 · answer #9 · answered by hannahnichole1012 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with you? Do you want to love someone who doesn't love you? If you answered no to either one of these, then let it go. Don't try to get back together with him. Your feelings for him will go away in time. Don't worry.
2006-10-10 14:38:10 · answer #10 · answered by Billys girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about him he's just not worth falling for.
Try going out with some1 else, 'cause you can wait forever for his answer and he'll nevr give it to you.
2006-10-10 14:37:17 · answer #11 · answered by cass 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋