Family & Relationships - 7 October 2006

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2006-10-07 12:37:09 · 2 answers · asked by theodoros k 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm in love with one of my best friends and he knows it. And like he has a girl friend and I wish she would fall off the face of the Earth. I think I'm being a bad friend but he says I'm not. So am I?? And what should I do about being in love with him?????? Thank You for awsering.

2006-10-07 12:36:34 · 9 answers · asked by Catbutt 1 in Friends

About six months ago I found out my husband was having an affair. We were having problems - not communicating, not spending enough quality time together. Problems I thought were pretty normal for a couple married for ten years. That changed when I found out about the other woman. Even though I have known they are together I saw them together for the first time last night. It hurt like he$$. Why is that?

2006-10-07 12:36:24 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am not naive. If a guy doesn't want to take things further that is fine. But why do they go to the bother of taking my number and not calling? It is not like I am high maintenance or a bunny boiler. In fact, I am not the type to be crying into my pillow about it - if I like a guy I will call him myself... but why go through the whole charade? I ask, only because it happens a lot. And I don't want to say to them "Yeah, you can have my number but will you REALLY call me?" because that sounds horrible... I have loads of male friends (and a lovely big brother) who all insist that they always call a girl when they say they will. So what is going on?

2006-10-07 12:36:05 · 12 answers · asked by Insydr 1 in Singles & Dating

Let's say you've seen a girl with makeup on at work. And you've known her for like 10 months. Kind of a semi friend or acquaintance. Kind of flirted back and forth have checked the girl out. Then one day you see her with hardly any makeup and tired. Because this is what happened to me with this one guy. He smiled at me but then his smile went to just a serious look really fast. Obviously he thought I looked hidious or something. If you really liked the girl would this matter? Or would you always remember how she looked this one day. And if you did care would this mean you never really liked her that much to begin with. Because he so hot and cold with me anyway. But now I'm really upset that he looked at me this way. Guys have you ever done this to a girl you know. Did you just forget about that one time she looked bad or did you always see it in your head. Because this was out in the sunlight also, where usually I'm in a building with lighting.

2006-10-07 12:35:56 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

thus keeping other men from wanting to look at their wife? (if that made any sense) housewife with kids I mean

2006-10-07 12:34:50 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

they come from work with kisses hugs go to the store and comes back 4hrs. later with nothing in his hand. We go out to eat he drinks so that we have to leave because he's druck

2006-10-07 12:34:48 · 11 answers · asked by smitty 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my boyfriend went to prison.he wont be out until may 2008.he insist we get married so he can come back home and not his mothers .he said that since we are not married when he is out on parole,they wont let him come home but to a family members house instead.i dont want to marry anyone in prison.but how can i asure him that i love him,but want to wait.he insist that we get married there and re marry when he gets out.but i just dont want to do that,and dont know how to put him down without sounding all harsh.how can i make a no,sound nice?advice please

2006-10-07 12:34:17 · 12 answers · asked by super girl 3 in Marriage & Divorce

if you were married to a man that only came home on the weekend only what wolud you do or say

2006-10-07 12:33:56 · 8 answers · asked by bmtaylo 2 in Marriage & Divorce

they come from work with kisses hugs go to the store and comes back 4hrs. later with nothing in his hand. We go out to eat he drinks so that we have to leave because he's druck

2006-10-07 12:33:01 · 5 answers · asked by smitty 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-07 12:32:54 · 18 answers · asked by mikey wifey 1 in Singles & Dating

how 2 b outgoing

2006-10-07 12:32:47 · 1 answers · asked by Amy Hakey 1 in Family

we never did it..but im always the one that has to tell him yes...not just once like 5 times... like if he can touch me..i had to tell him he can and other things...he also laughs about ... i think hes just nervous..or something im not sure..and it seems that im more aggressive than him sometimes..well all the time and he tells me he loves me..and when i try to touch his down there...hes like no or that tickles..i dont get it..he touches me..so whats the deal? i laught to but im the girl..idk...

2006-10-07 12:30:32 · 12 answers · asked by Angelika 2 in Singles & Dating

Wedding is April 7, 2007
I like Lilac but cannot choose a color to go with it.
We are getting married on a softball field.
Please Help!!!!

2006-10-07 12:29:20 · 24 answers · asked by Krysta M 2 in Weddings

My lease will be up by April if I can find Filipino girl and fall in love I will move to Philippines and never come back.I am 64 and retired.

2006-10-07 12:29:14 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've had this crush on an author of one of my fav. books. I've read good things about him. But when I when I told my friends of him, they I thought I was weird because I have a crush on someone that I've never met. Is it weird?

2006-10-07 12:29:14 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My girlfriends coming home from Spain so I wanted to plan something special.

2006-10-07 12:29:08 · 4 answers · asked by milrenkb 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-07 12:28:43 · 3 answers · asked by walks with goats 2 in Singles & Dating

he is a bad drinker, he has a violent temper and we have a 2yr old son, we have been off and on for 4 1/2 yrs.

2006-10-07 12:27:33 · 12 answers · asked by Lil :) 3 in Family

what do you think of this boy??
this guy i like always tells me personal stuff like his weiner is burning and he joins a group a school that im in for like a project and he makes me laugh alot ,he looks me in the evy alot and on friday our ss class was in a dark room watching a movie sitting on the floor and of course we were all cramped and he was leaning on my friend looking at me then looking at her then me and slyly scrathing his private.and in science he takes this machine and told me the button was a wewe and the hole was a girls thing and he was pushing them together fast then he scooted really close to me (he sits behind me in this class)and was makeing nasty sounds if you know what i mean.my friend asked him out for me the week before so is this his way of flirting or what do you think?

2006-10-07 12:27:17 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

what do you think of this boy??
this guy i like always tells me personal stuff like his weiner is burning and he joins a group a school that im in for like a project and he makes me laugh alot ,he looks me in the evy alot and on friday our ss class was in a dark room watching a movie sitting on the floor and of course we were all cramped and he was leaning on my friend looking at me then looking at her then me and slyly scrathing his private.and in science he takes this machine and told me the button was a wewe and the hole was a girls thing and he was pushing them together fast then he scooted really close to me (he sits behind me in this class)and was makeing nasty sounds if you know what i mean.my friend asked him out for me the week before so is this his way of flirting or what do you think?

2006-10-07 12:25:55 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I just moved in the uk and i don't know how teens greet each other here. Yeah, sounds weird, but i really don't want to make a fool of myself. I'm meeting this boy tomorrow, it's not really a date, we're just going to hang out, but i'm sure he fancys me and a like him a little. Should i just say "Hy" or kiss him on the cheek (or on both?) or what else? Please help, i don't want him to think i'm a freak.. I know i should be natural, but if i would be natural i may make everibody think i'm a weirdow and i don't want that:D

2006-10-07 12:25:51 · 9 answers · asked by mareea 1 in Singles & Dating

HELP!!!!plz?
Oh please help?
I like this boy i talk to him alot and he talks back so were like friends but i dont know if he likes me.How can i tell he likes me?Should i ask him?Or should i say i like him?And if i do tell him he might not want to talk to me or hang out.

He talks to me and we hang out alot.We talk a whole lot too.I think thats called flirting.I REALLY REALLY LIKE HIM!!!!! Im also afraid if i tell him then he wont talk to me anymore.We've been friends for quite awhile

2006-10-07 12:23:19 · 8 answers · asked by LilMissPriss 1 in Singles & Dating

I would just like to know where i could find a nice lady to take out and the age is from twenty six and up. Now i know this is not a dating service but it is a question. I don't want to go to a place where i don't understand what they are saying or the music is too loud. Remeber i am i smooth brother just trying to feed a young woman so a nice place to eat would be nice also, Thankyou for answering my question and please ladies be serious about this.

2006-10-07 12:22:33 · 3 answers · asked by untouchablesexy 1 in Singles & Dating

My Husbands ex-girlfriend has been calling both of us and showing up at his work place and my moms. She also sends emails and texts to both our phones and it has been a year. She yells and cries. It has gotten worse the last few days after someone told her we had just had a baby. Last night we had to change all our emails and phone numbers. Then today My mom called me from work and told me that Mandy had been at her store again and that they had to have the security remove her from the store. I don't know what to do. I have 5 kids total and she will send messages to me saying the newest baby sould of been hers. I worry she will try to take the kids or hurt us. She already busted up my husbands car. Befor we met she tried killing herself saying that she had a miscarrige because they broke up. Latter we found out she had a cyst on her ovary and was using the doctor visits and symptoms to say she was having a miscarrige. We all think she is nuts. What should we do?

2006-10-07 12:21:38 · 10 answers · asked by boston_babe888 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My wife is extremely jealous of any and every other woman that shows me any attention whatsoever. I love her with all of my heart and I make sure that I tell her and show her everyday, but it still isn't enough. I go to work and come home to her everyday,same time five days a week. I spend every weekend with her and I enjoy being with her, but her jealousy has been a major problem throughout our relationship. She believes that jealousy equals love. She thinks that since I'm not as jealous as she is, then I don't care about her as much as she cares about me. Does that even make sense? I don't think so! I don't know what else to do to show her that I love and want her. I've told her that her jealousy is pushing me away and she needs to do something about it. Is it my fault?

2006-10-07 12:21:34 · 12 answers · asked by wtf24 1 in Marriage & Divorce

So I have been having feelings for this guy for the last 3 months, and they have been building, but I saw him yesterday at a concert with a girlfriend whom he was very affectionate with. I no longer feel safe allowing my feelings for him to build, nor do I understand why he didn't tell about his GF before. I think he is partially a private person, but also, it is obvious that he has gone out of the way to leave her out of the picture. Also, I think that he has been flirting with me quite a bit. So, should I try to open up to him and tell him what has been going on so I can fold on the game; should I back away from him altogether, or should I confront him on the trust issues in a friendship around why he didn't tell us that he had a girlfriend? Should I ask him directly if he has a girlfreind, so that I can find out if he would be honest about that or not? I am not sure whether he is trustworthy or not.

2006-10-07 12:20:58 · 11 answers · asked by calliope 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and i have dated for 11 months. he says he doesn't love me and by now he thinks he should, and to be hones ti really wish he did. so we were gonna break up and then decided to just take a month break. i know he cares a lot about me... but i need more than that right now. i am 24... and starting to look to the future (please i dont want to hear i am to young to think about the future).

2006-10-07 12:20:45 · 8 answers · asked by confused 1 in Singles & Dating

relationships meeting eachother and times refuses to call me says not to worry and take care of myself when i know the way things are going were drifting apart even tho he says we,ll still meet and im tired of calling not getting any calls back , i guess worse thing that can happen we stay friends which is how it started out yrs ago but i love him

2006-10-07 12:20:25 · 2 answers · asked by cooneyes2003 1 in Singles & Dating

i've liked him for three years now and we hardly ever got to talking at school..he's said hi a couple of times last year and we've talking a LITTLE more this year.. but we talk pretty much everyday online and we laugh a lot.. he found out i like him 2 years ago and he probably still thinks i like him, which i do. sometimes i catch him staring at me or he catches me staring at him. my friend said she saw him staring at me in class the other day.. we have 3 classes together and i think we're afraid to talk to each other.. this might be my last year i get to be at the same school with him. should i take my chances and just start talking to him? =( help?

2006-10-07 12:20:21 · 2 answers · asked by indecisive 6 in Singles & Dating