he is a bad drinker, he has a violent temper and we have a 2yr old son, we have been off and on for 4 1/2 yrs.
2006-10-07 12:27:33 · 12 answers · asked by Lil :) 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
TAKE UR SON AND LEAVE NOW!
soon he will start taking his anger out on you and maybe your son!
2006-10-07 12:33:40 · answer #1 · answered by clacey9 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would never go back. The most important thing to think about is your child. There are no benefits to staying in that situation. I know, I was that child about 25 yrs ago. You will do more damage to your child by going back. You should move on with your life and try not to look back anymore than you have to. If you don't your child will resent the fact that you didn't protect them. Children can't pick who their parents are but the parents can choose to put the well being of there child first. I promise you will never regret it.
2006-10-07 19:37:19 · answer #2 · answered by Julie J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For being and live all that years with your husbant means that you really love him besides all the difficulties.you know very well that life sometimes is too strange.you decided to have a child with him but try to do your best for your son whatever means that.If he also really loves you he will try to stop drinking with your help and with the help of a psychologist perhaps.But ih he wont do something try to go away from him to live your lives.because from now and after you son's life is the most important think and goal in your life.i wish you the best.
2006-10-07 19:37:03 · answer #3 · answered by anemos 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave immediately and don't tell him where you are going. Leave him a note telling him about his drinking problem and his violence. Tell him you will get in touch with him in 30 days to set up a time that you can meet together in a public place. Tell him to get serious help with his drinking and anger problem immediately and stick with it during that 30 period. Tell him to give you a report about the counseling when you meet. Get in touch with him in writing to tell him where you will meet. Make sure it's a very public place where you can have a serious discussion. If he doesn't meet with you, hasn't gotten serious counseling, or expresses anger, tell him that you will give hm one more opportunity to go through the process and tell him that this time you will see him in 60 days.
2006-10-07 19:53:32 · answer #4 · answered by asperens 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, thats a decision only you can make. You know how bad he is when he drinks and if you're scared about your son, or have any inclination that something bad might happen, you need to distance yourself.
2006-10-07 19:30:20 · answer #5 · answered by Mightymo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not! You do more harm to your child by staying in a bad relationship. You need to have more self-esteem and respect for yourself and find a better guy.
Good Luck.
2006-10-07 19:29:51 · answer #6 · answered by crazz_32 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run and run fast. Drinking + Violent temper = abuse, emotional for sure and potentially physical abuse
2006-10-07 19:30:28 · answer #7 · answered by Val C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him he seems like a bad influence for your son don't let your son be like your husband.
2006-10-07 19:30:11 · answer #8 · answered by sexygrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a pass on the relationship. Take it from me.
2006-10-07 19:28:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know it is better to let him be and be with you enjoy life because childhood without one of the parents is very difficult so have patience and trust in god
2006-10-07 19:34:35 · answer #10 · answered by pooja o 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋