Family & Relationships - 7 October 2006

my boyfriend is great, but we've only been dating a couple weeks, my birthday's coming up, and i don't want to tell him, because that feels really self-centered, but i'll be crushed if he doesnt get me something...what should i do? does a 'good' girlfriend let it slide?

2006-10-07 12:49:47 · 11 answers · asked by j.k. k 2 in Singles & Dating

Feel free to express your opinions!!!

A best friend, sex ,and a child can be obtain from a relationship .And Isn't a relationship a commitment too???

With the divorde rate being more than 50% .It's not guaranteed.Its more of a gamble.

2006-10-07 12:49:23 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I like both, but I need one. Can't decide.
They both love me give me answers please.

2006-10-07 12:48:56 · 9 answers · asked by ♥Sunset♥ 2 in Friends

why do women give out wrong numbers to guys...it seems like they are interested, but they still give out wrong numbers..i think its better not to give the number at all, let alone talk to them at all....if a lady seems interested, then gives out the wrong number at the very beginning, is it most likely because they are just not interested or dont like the way someone looks? is this a trick or they are liars or just insecure? this does not make sense....thanks for your answers

2006-10-07 12:48:47 · 12 answers · asked by Dan S. White 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-07 12:48:28 · 21 answers · asked by robert d 1 in Friends

If the vote were on the ballot, would you vote yes or no for gay marriage?

2006-10-07 12:48:18 · 24 answers · asked by angels02_2006 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i like this guy who probabally has no idea that i like him. two of my friends know about it but nobody other that that. i dont want him to know because i am afraid of being hurt. am i doing myself a favor by not telling him so that i dont get hurt?

2006-10-07 12:47:46 · 9 answers · asked by shannybell9328 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been seeing a bloke for about 3months now. At first we took thing really slowly and everything was perfect...now everything still is pretty perfect. I can't fault him at all he's kind, generous, respectful...I just feel like he's not my ideal partner and I want to try being single because I came out of a 4year relationship and went straight into one with him. The only trouble is I have absolute no idea how to phrase what I would say to him when I do break it off. Please help! I need some ideas as to how I can put it to him gently.

2006-10-07 12:47:19 · 38 answers · asked by binauk2002 1 in Singles & Dating

Also this guy has personal problems and wants to marry that girl however these problems dont let him to marry soon.but he doesnt like talking about the problems,serous subjects.so girl is worried if he loves her or is it just a passion.how to understand this?

2006-10-07 12:47:11 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

,my husband never think that what is he doing to our relationship he fights and he never even think i have been with through his thik and thin.We is a addict and was into brown and i sood by him in his useing days. But life does not seem to in his clean days also he still does not care about me insults me hits me what am i suppose to do as i have a daughter and i can not spoil this relation

2006-10-07 12:46:52 · 13 answers · asked by pooja o 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-07 12:46:19 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

he keeps asking me who I like and I want to tell him especially cuz he says if I tell him who he likes he will tell me who he likes and I really want to date him, he is my best guy friend and we sit together in everyclass I mean he acts like he likes me, my friends say it is a given what should I do. and I know he doesnt like like any of the other girls in the school (small school) cuz I asked him but he wont tell me who he likes, there is another girl and we r pretty good friends he says he kinda likes her, but he says there is a girl who he likes in OUR school, but he wont tell me and this girl who it is (we r trying to figure it out) we no it aint any of the other girls I mean I guess it must be me and this other girl maybe he likes both of us and cant decide, but he says shes is okay and I am with him like all the time in school (we r in the same grade all the same classes to) and he says the other girl is ok but he dont like any other girls in our school , could it be me

2006-10-07 12:45:34 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We just broke up last night. While I'm a total mess trying to get over him, he seems to be doing fine without me. It really hurts b/c I care about him so much and I don't want to get over him. I've tried to get him out of my mind, but I can't...what am I supposed to do? Act like everything's fine when it isn't...

2006-10-07 12:45:33 · 5 answers · asked by j_lyn316 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm 17 and I really love my bf and he really loves me but ppl say that i'm too young to be in love and I don't kno what love is. so im askin how old do u have to be for u to actually be inlove or kno what it is.

2006-10-07 12:45:07 · 15 answers · asked by Baby Gurl 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-07 12:44:43 · 10 answers · asked by phillipblinkho@btinternet.com 1 in Singles & Dating

what do you think of this boy??
this guy i like always tells me personal stuff like his weiner is burning and he joins a group a school that im in for like a project and he makes me laugh alot ,he looks me in the eye alot and on friday our ss class was in a dark room watching a movie sitting on the floor and of course we were all cramped and he was leaning on my friend looking at me then looking at her then me and slyly scrathing his private.and in science he takes this machine and told me the button was a weiner and the hole was a girls thing and he was pushing them together fast then he scooted really close to me (he sits behind me in this class)and was makeing nasty sounds if you know what i mean.my friend asked him out for me the week before so is this his way of flirting or what do you think?

2006-10-07 12:44:03 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

she's so fat she's 5"3" and 100 pounds she's like so chibby I just can't stand it but I love her brittany (my gf) is so pretty and nice but I don't know how to get over it. What to do, and do u think I'm being to shallow?

2006-10-07 12:43:57 · 25 answers · asked by eric.gothicgod666 1 in Singles & Dating

she msg me back wednesday that she will call me later and busy with her friends who came form her country to visit her, but still did not called me, should i call her to see why is she not calling i havent seen her for 2 weeks or should i wait and obey her wish?

2006-10-07 12:43:08 · 14 answers · asked by plusa457 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

what do you think of this boy??
this guy i like always tells me personal stuff like his weiner is burning and he joins a group a school that im in for like a project and he makes me laugh alot ,he looks me in the evy alot and on friday our ss class was in a dark room watching a movie sitting on the floor and of course we were all cramped and he was leaning on my friend looking at me then looking at her then me and slyly scrathing his private.and in science he takes this machine and told me the button was a wewe and the hole was a girls thing and he was pushing them together fast then he scooted really close to me (he sits behind me in this class)and was makeing nasty sounds if you know what i mean.my friend asked him out for me the week before so is this his way of flirting or what do you think?

2006-10-07 12:43:00 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my sister in law called me up and was telling me about one of her friends.also saying to me,that my husband had knew her b4 he met me.but my sister in law,keeps telling me that shes a nice girl,and had liked her for my husband.And that they were friends for a long time.Why after all thses yrs would she come to tell me this,after i'm married to her brother and also have 2 kids with him.My husband said that he didn't even know that his sister was trying to hook him up with that girlfriend of hers.And that shouldn't bother me.my ? is,why will my sister in law wants to tell me this?

2006-10-07 12:42:19 · 2 answers · asked by lovegirl 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

went out with this guy last summer, once. We exchanged phone #'s and email addresses. He's emailed a couple times over the last couple of months to see how i was. All of a sudden he wants to get together. Why after 3 months. ?

2006-10-07 12:41:31 · 11 answers · asked by principessa 1 in Singles & Dating

Our children are at the same school. Every morning we see each other. The chemistry is frightening. I've been married for 11 years and I'm a complete mess. I can't sleep or get him out of my head. I'm tearful one day then over the moon. As time goes on the feelings are so strong - I'm dreaming of going off with him for ever! I wish I was single with no kids.

2006-10-07 12:41:10 · 23 answers · asked by Isabelle 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I dont know whats up with me, i have a realy hard time getting along with people..and the only person in my life thas really close to me right now is my dear bF, who is my best friend..and of course theres my family but other than that i have like no freinds and i dont knw why i just have pushed everyone away by finding some faults in them and getting angry at them and..well i feel they should treat me beter but i guess i handled it wrong and was mean to them..now im left with nothing and i feel so sad..i dont go nehwere..i have few friends i could go out with but just no mood..and to make it worse..this guy that i kind of started to like..he is moving to another state..which is really puting the whipped cream on my depression rite now...all i do is sit at home n feel so sad n cry....what do i do..and why am i like this...how do i turn myself around...

2006-10-07 12:40:39 · 12 answers · asked by sneha 1 in Friends

or at least after a few more chats on a chat room, even though u may have already known them to say hi to, for a few months.
or is just me that i have been on my own again for 2 many months lol.

2006-10-07 12:39:35 · 8 answers · asked by samantha s 2 in Singles & Dating

I have always been taught as a kid that people who aren't married shouldn't be having sex. But I've always wondered if I'm the only 28 yr old guy in the world that is a virgin.

2006-10-07 12:39:33 · 20 answers · asked by osunumberonefan 5 in Singles & Dating

like my question says... how can i tell if this girl i like likes me... and how can i give hints that i like her.

here is some info(info always helps)
-We are both 15
-in grade 10
-Talk little at school
-Talk on 15 minute buss ride
-get off at different stops
-we live in a small town
-we mostly hang in differnt crouds
-im shy when it comes to asking girls out
-i realy like this girl


any questions add bearcub511@hotmail.com to msn or email me

tanks alot

2006-10-07 12:39:20 · 4 answers · asked by Dark-soul 1 in Singles & Dating

he keeps asking me who I like and I want to tell him especially cuz he says if I tell him who he likes he will tell me who he likes and I really want to date him, he is my best guy friend and we sit together in everyclass I mean he acts like he likes me, my friends say it is a given what should I do. and I know he doesnt like like any of the other girls in the school (small school) cuz I asked him but he wont tell me who he likes, there is another girl and we r pretty good friends he says he kinda likes her, but he says there is a girl who he likes in OUR school, but he wont tell me and this girl who it is (we r trying to figure it out) we no it aint any of the other girls I mean I guess it must be me and this other girl maybe he likes both of us and cant decide, but he says shes is okay and I am with him like all the time in school (we r in the same grade all the same classes to) and he says the other girl is ok but he dont like any other girls in our school , could it be me

2006-10-07 12:39:09 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She is obsessed with him now and is getting really big headed. I want to tell her to just shut up but I don't know.

2006-10-07 12:38:22 · 10 answers · asked by annonomus 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I like to get noticed by the fellas but just once it would be nice to get eye contact first!

2006-10-07 12:37:57 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Not looking for perfection and happy to compromise, but interested to know if "we all want what we cant have "then how do I want what I can have? What if "what I can have" involves too much compromise to the point that I have not felt really in love enough with any of my girlfriends cos this is how I feel. Any ideas

2006-10-07 12:37:23 · 9 answers · asked by Charlie N 1 in Singles & Dating