I dont know whats up with me, i have a realy hard time getting along with people..and the only person in my life thas really close to me right now is my dear bF, who is my best friend..and of course theres my family but other than that i have like no freinds and i dont knw why i just have pushed everyone away by finding some faults in them and getting angry at them and..well i feel they should treat me beter but i guess i handled it wrong and was mean to them..now im left with nothing and i feel so sad..i dont go nehwere..i have few friends i could go out with but just no mood..and to make it worse..this guy that i kind of started to like..he is moving to another state..which is really puting the whipped cream on my depression rite now...all i do is sit at home n feel so sad n cry....what do i do..and why am i like this...how do i turn myself around...
2006-10-07 12:40:39 · 12 answers · asked by sneha 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Find something to do that makes you happy. You can think better about what to do about your situation if you are in a better frame of mind. Put on your favorite music, movie, tv show..... Just try to perk yourself up & think more clearly rather than in a depressed state of mind. You may find that you can make amends for what you've done to push people away.
2006-10-07 12:45:17 · answer #1 · answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try eating right and excercising. You don't want to at first, but if you push yourself for the first little bit, you'll start to feel better about yourself. You sound like you have a high standard for what people in your life should be, and you're not finding the kind of companionship that you crave. Try a hobby or something that interests you can and go from there. If you surround yourself with people who share the same passions as you do, you might find friends that are worth being around.
2006-10-07 20:17:01 · answer #2 · answered by 1/6,833,020,409 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i think you should apologize 2 ur friends, explain to them how u feel mayb sumthing happen to u and it change the way u been acting, u should go back and figure it out. You shouldn't have a few friends that y u feel the way u do, so i think u should tell ur friends sorry, and tell them ur problems if they listen if they don't tell them ur sorry again, and again, and if they don't take that then go find new friends, and make sure you don't do the same thing dat u did wit ur last set of friends. N for the guy u really like, come up with an schedueld where yall can see eachother, basiclly come up with an agreement, or maybe yall should end it, and become friends. GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-07 19:54:05 · answer #3 · answered by xxMiizzCxx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this feeling well having felt it many times in my life. Everyone has to come to the answer of how to "turn themselves around" on their own, but here's what worked for me. I began by evaluating the people in my life and cutting out the ones that were "fair weather" or didn't make me feel good to be around. Then it was time for self-evaluation. Thinking about the qualities I liked in others I tried to see if I found those qualities in myself. I didn't...not many. It's not an easy process or short I'm sorry to say, but once you know what draws you to others you can start to possess those qualities. Confide in your best friend or better yet the family member you trust and respect most. I wish you luck and success in this...
2006-10-07 19:46:04 · answer #4 · answered by Sarah G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you've identified your own problem. So get up, stop feeling sorry for yourself and go out and make some new friends.
I am a little worried that you have a "dear bf" and a guy that you like. You sound really F'ed up now and may benefit from some counseling. start at school with a counselor and see what he/she has to say.
2006-10-07 19:47:55 · answer #5 · answered by michaelsmaniacal 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give people a chance. give them a month or two. if you dont like them them after that them dont be friends with them. and i guess it is ok to feel a little guilty sometimes. its kind of like me. i made this friend a few years ago and she has some faults but we are still together. i can never get mad at her. besides,no one is perfect. your friend will come around soon. good luck =)
2006-10-07 19:45:36 · answer #6 · answered by sillygrl1996 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should make an appointment with a doctor, and tell them all of this. You may have a personality disorder and you need help. I'm not being mean sweetie, just my opinion. I sincerely hope you feel better!! ;-)
2006-10-07 19:47:39 · answer #7 · answered by Julia F 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are having some symptoms of depression, I would go to my family Dr and tell him how I have been feeling, he will either recommend counseling or medications either way things are not likely to get better on their own. Please get help before it gets worse.
2006-10-07 19:44:38 · answer #8 · answered by snoop_dougie_doug04 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find yourself a good endocrinologist and have your 'T' cell levels checked. Depression and not going out could be nothing more than a 'T' cell imbalance.
2006-10-07 19:49:19 · answer #9 · answered by noice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to many men in your life ,you want both men and don't have time for your friends.
Make up your mind and everything will be much better
2006-10-07 19:49:02 · answer #10 · answered by smitty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋