Also this guy has personal problems and wants to marry that girl however these problems dont let him to marry soon.but he doesnt like talking about the problems,serous subjects.so girl is worried if he loves her or is it just a passion.how to understand this?
2006-10-07 12:47:11 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why are you hanging around with this psycho? He wants to marry someone else and some how it's your problem? This guy is in serious need of mental help. You are NOT equipped to help him.
2006-10-07 12:51:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is no "love" here and it sounds like your friend and this guy both have too many problems to talk about anything serious. You don't get involved with someone who has "personal problems" because they become yours. You can help by connecting someone up with a resource but we are not capable of doing therapy, etc. If your friend's only concern is if he "loves" her then she is missing the bigger picture here. Why don't people like this go to some older adult who they know to have a common sense, realistic approach?
I know what KC (?) above is saying, but love is not enough and never has been. Love only comes after two people have liked each other and grown into it. Love does not pay bills, raise children, put food on the table, save money and be with and learn from other people. Love is the least important factor in a relationship because it can't show it's face until after all the "like" has taken place. That is usually 18 months - 3 years down the line.
2006-10-07 19:57:32 · answer #2 · answered by ALWAYS GOTTA KNOW 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a lot of guys! Probably someone who is used to making all the decisions...a perfectionist maybe. He needs to learn to open up and allow his partner in on his thoughts. Maybe he's afraid of scaring her off...could have some insecurities also. Tell your friend to tackle one serious subject at a time with her instead of feeling he needs all of the responsibility only on his shoulders. Two need to work as a team. There's plenty of time for tons of kisses! ;) Good Luck!
2006-10-07 19:54:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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your life. Don't need to be shy, be straight forward and allways say what
you want and expect from the others.
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2006-10-07 19:49:35 · answer #4 · answered by kl k 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why is it that people always want to hang around where trouble and problems are obvious?Just walk in a different direction.
2006-10-07 19:51:32 · answer #5 · answered by gil 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The serious subjects probably consist of fingernails and shoes and such nonsense. Maybe he just want's to kiss her so she'll shut up?
2006-10-07 19:55:09 · answer #6 · answered by DMaximus 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He just wants to fool around.
2006-10-07 19:49:25 · answer #7 · answered by Mightymo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋