Not looking for perfection and happy to compromise, but interested to know if "we all want what we cant have "then how do I want what I can have? What if "what I can have" involves too much compromise to the point that I have not felt really in love enough with any of my girlfriends cos this is how I feel. Any ideas
2006-10-07 12:37:23 · 9 answers · asked by Charlie N 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well buddy, you won't find her sitting in front of the computer. Get off walk away get dressed go outside and talk to REAL people.
2006-10-07 12:39:24 · answer #1 · answered by Trollhair 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
firstly you are an excuser
secondly you are an excuser.
thirdly dont excuse yourself and accept anything less that what you want, ok!! OK
basically you can have any chick you want even that super hot babe you dream about.
everything relate to your bodylanguage, your projection, your frame (nlp term)
the basic formulae is
step one open
step two demonstrate higher value (than the girl an the other 50 loser guys that chat her up the same day) basically here you are stimulating her emotions
step 3 validate her (qualify her) and slightly disqulify her
step 4 demo your personality (fun guy to be around)
step 5 create wide rapport (connect on 4/5 subjects and talk about them)
step 6 deep raport (talk deeper about wide raport subjects profoundly)
step 7 create emotional connection.
those are the basic 7 steps.
for more info check www.realsocialdynamics.com
www.mysterymethod.com and badboylifestyle.com
just dont waste ur life and compromise.. go for what you want and deserve!
2006-10-07 19:47:59 · answer #2 · answered by Modus Operandi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep looking? And look in places with family values
2006-10-07 19:41:04 · answer #3 · answered by Everona97 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to answer platitudes with platitudes, but remember what Mick and the boys said:
"You can't always get what you want. But if you try sometimes, you'll find - You get what you need."
2006-10-07 19:43:44 · answer #4 · answered by Christina D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've got a plan for you. It's crazy but it just might work.
Start wanting what you don't think you can have. Then what you can't have becomes what you can have.
Good luck!
2006-10-07 19:40:14 · answer #5 · answered by *babydoll* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The "right" girl for you probably isn't what you actually want. She's probably a b*tch who'll spend all your money and speak sh*t, but make you unfeasibly happy.
2006-10-07 19:40:48 · answer #6 · answered by Neil the Hat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i concentrate myself on being as much of a good guy as i can then perhaps one day i might get lucky & if i do, perhaps i'll have a better chance of keeping her...
2006-10-07 22:04:44 · answer #7 · answered by Can I Be Your Pet? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want it bad enough... you'll find a way to get it
2006-10-07 19:56:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dun know........
2006-10-07 19:40:54 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋