I'm in love with one of my best friends and he knows it. And like he has a girl friend and I wish she would fall off the face of the Earth. I think I'm being a bad friend but he says I'm not. So am I?? And what should I do about being in love with him?????? Thank You for awsering.
2006-10-07 12:36:34 · 9 answers · asked by Catbutt 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
First off, I want to congradulate you on falling in love, its wonderful isnt it? Well I guess not on your part, I know hwow you feel. Well i guess not but I think I can get an understanding on how it feels to love someone that really cant love you back right now because he is already involved with someone. Just keep loving him and if he doesnt know already, maybe you should tell him , maybe he feels the same way and you guys could be together because he could dumb that girl of his. If he already knows and dosnt feel the same or doesnt want to dump his girlfriend then all you can do is leave them be and wait until maybe he breaks up, never stop loving him , NEVER and never stop being his friend. If you really really want him to dump that girl of his, say so.. take action!! Good luck Girl!!
2006-10-07 12:44:56 · answer #1 · answered by girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to act like a friend.
This means staying out of it and not trying to poison the relationship the person you love has with his girlfriend.
Learn how to do this well and you'll be glad for the rest of your life that you gained this skill. Fail to learn this, and, eventually, you'll turn into a hard-drinking, bitter old bag (which is what happens eventually to Scarlett O'Hara about 15 years after "Gone With The Wind" ends).
2006-10-07 19:40:23 · answer #2 · answered by urbancoyote 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know that this is a stable relation I think that you should stay away and keep confusing emotions away from both of you. To put it in other words: How would you feel that someone was trying to take you half behind your back. I think it would really hurt.
2006-10-07 19:40:20 · answer #3 · answered by gil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what you can do about it but I think he is flattered but not a bad friend. You'll live and you will get over him ....give it time and stop wishing bad things about his gf. Be nice to her.
2006-10-08 02:47:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
SWEETS...You are infatuated with him at best. Have you even been WITH him? Have you dated and done different things together. Have you been through difficult times with hiM? You really must re-consider what love is.... Remember too. Since you never have been with him...There is the ALLUR of something that you cannot have....Lots of luck!!!!!
2006-10-07 19:58:02 · answer #5 · answered by bart4play 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rule: never tell your best friend you love him..if it doesnt work out with the both of you then you have lost a best friend.
2006-10-07 19:38:47 · answer #6 · answered by susan l 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't wish ill will on that girl. If you really liked that guy you'd want him to be happy, right? It's bad karma. And...you can't help who you are attracted to, you can only manage your reaction to that attraction.
2006-10-07 19:39:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's TAKEN, he says it 's OK because he like to cheat and he's using you for poontang on the side. He's cheating on your best friend, and telling you it's OK. Of course it is, he's winning.
I'm glad I don't have a backstabbing friend like you or a cheating SOB for a friend either.
2006-10-07 19:41:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
www.myspace.com/tynishakeli
click on her song "I wish you love me"
2006-10-07 19:38:37 · answer #9 · answered by clacey9 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋