My boyfriend and i have dated for 11 months. he says he doesn't love me and by now he thinks he should, and to be hones ti really wish he did. so we were gonna break up and then decided to just take a month break. i know he cares a lot about me... but i need more than that right now. i am 24... and starting to look to the future (please i dont want to hear i am to young to think about the future).
2006-10-07 12:20:45 · 8 answers · asked by confused 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think that if a break is necessary after only 11 months than there is little hope of a long future together.
2006-10-07 12:22:33 · answer #1 · answered by Roger 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not going to say your to young for the future I'm 16 and I know what I want I want to have kids oneday and get married and have agood job so no I don't think your too young to look to the future. I think its agood idea to take a month break my ex bf and I were taking a break but now its apermanent break.
2006-10-07 12:27:30 · answer #2 · answered by Steph1490 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if he doesn't live u i think u need more than a BREAK! but in a normal instance i would say a break can b a good thing, allows a person(s) time to rethink a situation and decide" IF" this is what they want to do... its not always a end to all ends its like a reflection time... i had to take one from my fiance and he moved out and got his own place... needless to say after a few months i moved in W/ him... we if not more ME NEEDED that time to reflect on our relationship and where it was going!
2006-10-07 12:27:33 · answer #3 · answered by ~Niecee~ âË» âË» ♂ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did you even read this q before posting it?..he says he doesn't love you..what more do you need to know?..he can not possibly care too much for you if he doesn't love you..now can he?whay are woman so desprate now days..please don't waste your time..btw 24 is not that young..get out there and give your time and effort to some one who actually gives a damn.
2006-10-07 12:25:48 · answer #4 · answered by Roxy 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
so the guy cares about you, but he doesn't love you. that's sad. maybe a break can help. just leave him for a while as you suggested, and you'll see, if something changes. the problem might be that he takes you for granted and he loves you, but didn't realize.
2006-10-07 12:24:15 · answer #5 · answered by Katja 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes i think it is a good idea to break apart for awhile....and absence sometimes makes the heart grow fonder....but either way you do not need to waste your years on someone that says they do not love you after almost a whole year with him...
2006-10-07 12:24:17 · answer #6 · answered by sanangel 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes I think it is always good to take a breather to see if it's really there.
2006-10-07 12:24:44 · answer #7 · answered by kalapius 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sometimes even in a marriage we need "space" and I think it is always good, then you will both know if you are meant to be together.
2006-10-07 12:24:23 · answer #8 · answered by ladynamedjane 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋