My Husbands ex-girlfriend has been calling both of us and showing up at his work place and my moms. She also sends emails and texts to both our phones and it has been a year. She yells and cries. It has gotten worse the last few days after someone told her we had just had a baby. Last night we had to change all our emails and phone numbers. Then today My mom called me from work and told me that Mandy had been at her store again and that they had to have the security remove her from the store. I don't know what to do. I have 5 kids total and she will send messages to me saying the newest baby sould of been hers. I worry she will try to take the kids or hurt us. She already busted up my husbands car. Befor we met she tried killing herself saying that she had a miscarrige because they broke up. Latter we found out she had a cyst on her ovary and was using the doctor visits and symptoms to say she was having a miscarrige. We all think she is nuts. What should we do?
2006-10-07 12:21:38 · 10 answers · asked by boston_babe888 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Change numbers,and everything she knows.Get a restraining order to keep your family safe from this lunatic.These situations can potentially get dangerous ,so you need to stop it now before it escalates.
2006-10-07 16:27:44 · answer #1 · answered by mommyofsix 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One thing you should do is make a police report for harrassment and get a restraining order. It would be smart to have all this documented with the authorities. Does she have any family members you or your husband can talk to because it sounds like she needs some serious mental help. Also make sure it is clearly stated at your childrens' schools who can and cannot pick them up after school. Other than moving to a different town and changing all your numbers and locks Im not too sure what else can be done but I would go the legal route if I was you. Good luck with that!!
2006-10-07 19:26:24 · answer #2 · answered by SittinPretty! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try getting a restraining order placed on her. Save all the texted messages and emails she has sent, giving proof that she is harassing you all. make police reports of each event. stay positive and strong for yourself and family. Talk with your husband to see if he's is or has done all that he can to stop the situation. If his talking to her is not enough, then by all means, he should not approach her. make the reports with the police and get a restraining order.
2006-10-07 19:47:34 · answer #3 · answered by WOODSAK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, get a restraining order against this woman!
Make note of EV ERY incident, and report anything that is at all threatening, to build a case for a restraining order. If you don't get one first time, keep track of all she does and try again.
Call the police whenever neccessary. Have everyone else do the same.
I am assuming that you and/or husband have told her firmly to stop all of this .....
when she calls .. don't answer. record and messages she leaves and keep them.
2006-10-07 19:26:46 · answer #4 · answered by Pichi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey get a restraining order....you have kids to protect...your safety and your family's safety is at risk...she is stalking your family dont wait any longer...file a report with the police...dont let this go on any longer...it is a VERY DANGEROUS situation. It sounds like she is very unstable...please do something to stop this before you or someone in your family gets hurt.
2006-10-07 19:30:08 · answer #5 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh dear!
Red signs all over for something real bad to happen. If you value your and your kids lives, take action and don't sit back for bad to befall you. Time to talk to the police, and get a restraining order.
2006-10-07 19:25:54 · answer #6 · answered by doggoneit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you have to think there must be a reason why she is still crawling back after him is it something he is doing? just think about that but if you really trust your husband tell her nicely to leave you and your husband alone. or call the police and put a restraining order on her its easy as that
2006-10-07 19:30:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell the police and get a restraining order. She scares me to death and I have nothing to do with it. I feel for you and she sounds dangerous and out of control. Law Enforcement has to be involved and fast.
2006-10-07 19:25:42 · answer #8 · answered by Mightymo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to your magistrate judge and have a restaring order put on her. If she breaks the restraining order she will go to jail.Good luck!
2006-10-07 19:24:48 · answer #9 · answered by wondering247 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
restaining order! or simply smack the *****!
2006-10-07 19:36:56 · answer #10 · answered by DJ H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋