Family & Relationships - 6 October 2006

I´ve benn seeing this guy for about three weeks and I really like him. He is really nice to me he makes me laugh and he told a friend we have in common that he really likes me but that he wants to take things slow. He calls me almost every day but when he have seen each other it has been because we run to each other , he almost never asks me out. And the real problem is that whenever we talk he starts talking about how he´s never going to settle down, how he´s runs from marriage and he tries to be like "cool" , itá almost like he´s trying to impress me by coming of as relaxed and cool. My friends say I should wait a little bit more and give things more time but I´m confused and I don´t know what to do I don´t want him to play with me or to use me just for the moment. What do u think I should do?

2006-10-06 14:39:41 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We are in a dry spell & need to know how to bring back the spark. Not just physically. But on an emotional & mental level as well. We also have a 2 month old baby. So it's a little difficult to spend alone time together.

2006-10-06 14:39:15 · 10 answers · asked by twinkle toes 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a great husband and I want to do something really special for him. What is the best way your wife shows you that she loves you?

2006-10-06 14:38:21 · 24 answers · asked by nicky 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Are the any side-effects or long run health defect that could be caused if one cried too much , like everyday? I am 25 and i've got a bf who is 41, he makes me cry almost everyday and night by making me feel so low and bringin down my self esteem.when i cry, he stops and he continues to torture me the next day.Is crying everyday harmful for the body and the eyes?Sometimes, I usd to cry the whole night till morning.

2006-10-06 14:37:49 · 12 answers · asked by Anisha81 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

After being together for so long he realizes he needs to start fresh. Fine and dandy but he wants to come around when he feels like it and gets upset when you're not feeling him.Why play with people's emotions like that?

2006-10-06 14:37:01 · 7 answers · asked by Fran J 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-06 14:37:00 · 20 answers · asked by awagner1971 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

what do you look for in a "girlfriend", compared to a wife?

2006-10-06 14:36:04 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My crush is black and I'm asian, I really like him but recently I've found out all of his previous ex girlfriends were white... he's not into asians =(

i'm so upset..
I can't believe it. i really liked him.
but now i don't even have a chance with him...

any ideas on how to get over him?
thank you sooo much. <3 xoxxx*

2006-10-06 14:35:57 · 12 answers · asked by Taylor. 5 in Singles & Dating

Join my 360 18 and older

2006-10-06 14:35:51 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I been in a relationship with this girl for about a month now. one day she wants me, the next day she doesn't. Yesterday she told me she wanted to see a movie tonight, today she never even replied to my phone calls. I didn't do anything wrong. She is always asking me questions when I go places. I never question her about anything, I'm not the jealous type.

2006-10-06 14:35:47 · 15 answers · asked by harvey r 1 in Singles & Dating

whenever my boyfriend and i get into fights it always ends up with him slapping or hitting me and calling me ugly but the next day he always does something nice like get me flowers or take me out to dinner. my friends say this never happens to them and i think thats weird. does this happen to you?

2006-10-06 14:35:38 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I got a phone call from my mom telling me that my dad was in the hospital. He's 63. He crashed a 4wheeler at work. I know what you’re probably thinking "What was a 63Y/o man doing on a 4wheeler in the first place?" Well I intend to ask him as soon as he is able. He broke 3 ribs and got air in his chest between the lung and the ribcage (Which I hear is a bad thing). He's been in the hospital for a week. He's fighting off pneumonia and has been put on a respirator to help his breathing. He’s been sedated for the whole week so he won’t move around to much and they want him to stay 2 more weeks. I told my supervisor this and asked for some time off to go visit him. My dad lives in another state. 2 days later my supervisor comes to me and says I can't go because I don't have any personal time. And If I don't show up for work I'll lose my job. I don't want to lose my job, but this is my dad, the only one I have. Where would your priority go? Mom says he’s getting better.

2006-10-06 14:35:00 · 5 answers · asked by webwriter 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok everyone tells me to be a pediatrician because i'm really good with kids and babies but i want to be and have always wanted to be a PBM i love peircing,tattoo's,guaging and everything else in it..but people tell me its stupid and a wastefull career choice how do i get them to understand me a lil bit more and see it from my point of view

2006-10-06 14:34:39 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-10-06 14:34:33 · 5 answers · asked by paperrosie77 1 in Friends

2006-10-06 14:34:07 · 19 answers · asked by scotttorrez 2 in Singles & Dating

I saw my ex-gril friend today first time in 6 months and it depressed me.. How come? We broke up like 11 months ago and still to this day when I see her out and about it make me sad.. why is this? I was with her for a year and a half

2006-10-06 14:33:50 · 17 answers · asked by BIG_STING_9 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am very sensitive and my personal life is easily effected if any thing goes wrong around me . It also hurts my friend and parents if i am rude to them but can't help .
What should i do ?

2006-10-06 14:33:45 · 15 answers · asked by pooja 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I've really fancied this guy for a while and he says that he's very interested in me. The whole thing's long distance and we haven't slept together yet or anything, but he says that he can picture himself being committed to me long term and that he's "falling madly in love with me." Well, after 3 months of this I find out that he's still married but separated and waiting on a divorce (so he says). But since it's long distance (as in another country) I have no way of really knowing. We were supposed to be arranging a visit in a month or two. I really care about him but I'm afraid that I'll just get hurt if I get tangled up in all of this. What do I do?

2006-10-06 14:33:43 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-06 14:33:36 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay.

Well I have quite a sittuation.

I really like a guy.

He really like me.

I am told.

We like each other and see each other every day.

I feel bad.

I am LDS (a.k.a Mormon)

And "he" is too.

:]]

We both go to seminary almost eveyday.

He says he likes me a lot.

And we always hold hands and flirt with each other like crazy.

Buuut.

I really want to kiss the guy.

And he said he feels bad too.

That he likes a girl and can't really do anything about it.

I told him I wouldn't date him till I was 15-16 somwhere around there.

AAANNND.

He actually said he will wait.

My birthday is in March.

6 months without anybody.

And he is really cute.

2 girls already said they like him and he said to them he isn't interested.

:O WOAH.

I am just really confused.

What should I do.

I have no really close friends and my best friend doesn't support that I like him.

She says all he wants is to get in my pants.

He already said nothing till marrage and I am so happy about that.HELP ME

2006-10-06 14:33:28 · 6 answers · asked by >:} 1 in Singles & Dating

FLIRTING??? help please?
ok so i really like this guy and he flirts with me and i flirt with him. i am in seventh grade he is in 8th i wana ask him out btu if i do i am afraid that he wont want to be friends so what whould i do

cause like i really like him and if your gonna tell me im to young then go to hell cuae its not like im haveing sex. and like he is really nice im in love kinda but like how should i hint to him that i wana go out?
and i think he can be kinda imature cause like sometimes his was of flirting is like calling naems. i know this is difficult to answer but please!!! i realllly like him!

2006-10-06 14:32:46 · 8 answers · asked by livers 2 in Singles & Dating

Me and my boyfriend have been together for 6 years and have 2 beautiful kids together. He is an overnight security officer so im at home with the kids all night and pretty much all day *when he comes home he sleeps*. He works with this chic and tells me how she is working, goes to school and has a kid and why cant i be like that, hes always talking about her like that in my face but does not see the good i do. I just got unemployed 5 days ago and hes been acting so mean lately, doesnt want sex really, argues with me constantly and just does not act the same. yesterday i looked in his cell and found that girls name programmed in his phone. I looked to see if they talk and under is recent calls it shows they talked for 2 hours at 5:30 am at work. I asked him and he said it was wrong and that it was 5 minute call so she could leave her post. im soooo sad and praying hes not cheating on me. what does it sound like to yall? =*(

2006-10-06 14:31:51 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I read this instructional oral sex book a while ago, can't remember name or author, but the author is a speech therapist. Much of the book contained instructions for different oral exercises - the same type that would be used by a person doing speech therapy. She claims by doing them you'll have better control of what you're mouth is doing, and you'll be able to have, um, better results when working on your partner.

So, I'd like to know, do you believe this? Do you think that a person who has had speech therapy as a child might possibly reap the benefits as an adult (as well as curing their speach impediment)?????

2006-10-06 14:31:40 · 6 answers · asked by Lisa Faye Chardonnay 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-06 14:30:56 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-06 14:30:47 · 11 answers · asked by DIANA 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-06 14:30:04 · 7 answers · asked by topsecret 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-06 14:29:49 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I like this boy, he likes me. I want to get him something for this prom but i dont know what. What do boys age 13 like?

2006-10-06 14:29:25 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

never been caught cheating although there has been signs. also caught her smoking weed, also when we fight she go's straight for the bottle, been together for about a year and some change and it's been fairly good, has a friend that lives above us and does everything she can to break us up from the start cause shes overwieght and no attractive cant find a man for herself

2006-10-06 14:28:33 · 11 answers · asked by scoutathand 1 in Singles & Dating

My Bf'z fantasy iz to have a 3sum.. I personally dont like the idea.. i know i fullfill him n'he lovez me n'everything.. itz just a fantasy of hiz since God knowz when.. n'i wanna ask u gurlz if u think itz a good idea to do it & why. I already made it clear that i'll be picking out the other gurl... n'when i told him 2get a guy with him, too.. he'z like NO! THATZ DIFFERENT !! lol sexist ?! lol right ?! ;) anywayz.. plz tell me what u think!! coz i REALLY need advice on this, i feel if i go on with it, ill end up breakin up with him r'somethin! plz help!

2006-10-06 14:28:14 · 7 answers · asked by CupCake 3 in Singles & Dating