17 year old guy 14 year old girl both lds.?

Question

Okay.

Well I have quite a sittuation.

I really like a guy.

He really like me.

I am told.

We like each other and see each other every day.

I feel bad.

I am LDS (a.k.a Mormon)

And "he" is too.

:]]

We both go to seminary almost eveyday.

He says he likes me a lot.

And we always hold hands and flirt with each other like crazy.

Buuut.

I really want to kiss the guy.

And he said he feels bad too.

That he likes a girl and can't really do anything about it.

I told him I wouldn't date him till I was 15-16 somwhere around there.

AAANNND.

He actually said he will wait.

My birthday is in March.

6 months without anybody.

And he is really cute.

2 girls already said they like him and he said to them he isn't interested.

:O WOAH.

I am just really confused.

What should I do.

I have no really close friends and my best friend doesn't support that I like him.

She says all he wants is to get in my pants.

He already said nothing till marrage and I am so happy about that.HELP ME

Yeeah Ohh about that guy thing.

Others.

I have 6 guys who like me, I just figured it out that I have another yesterday.

Aannnd, He gets kinda' sad when I hang out with them. He won't come over to me when I am talking to them.

Cause he knows they do.

:\ hmph.

Answer 1

oh little kid problems. if you wait to long he will be gone. either he will move on your you will. you will start getting hit on a lot more in the next few years, especially if you boobs havent come it yet

Answer 2

He probably feels sad when he sees you flirting with the other guys because he knows that even if he does wait until you are old enough, you will probably ditch him for other guys. Also, by the time you are old enough to date, he will be 18. 18 is not a good age for guys to be dating girls under age 18.
You are already setting a pattern for when you are older by keeping young men dangling along after you.
I don't think you are old enough for a boyfriend yet.
Tell him that right now the flirting and hand-holding can't lead anywhere but to trouble. If you were thinking about anyone other than yourself, you would suggest to him that he move-on, and perhaps someday down the road, like when he returns from his mission, you two can get together.
You need to focus right now on making the right choice...seems like you might be having trouble doing that!

Answer 3

I used to be 16 and can tell you that if you are not there yet, there is a lot of life left to come. Keep up the contact with the fellow and wait until you are of age to date. He has some standards and you have some too. Live up to both and things will work out.

Answer 4

age doesn`t really matter. as long as you guys love eachother. then that`s good enough. why wait when you have the chance to be with him right now? what if he says " he`ll wait " but what if later on he thinks it`s too much? or what if something happens. that you guys can`t stop? you have the chance right now to be with the man you love. so why wait? and i don`t understand why you`re " best friend " won`t support you for that? what`s wrong with it? anyways. i really think you should just go with him. if not. you might miss your chance. good luck ! =]

Answer 5

Hey...you're LDS, you know better. Don't date until your 16 and even then its just casual. As someone who is lds and older, I've had first hand experience that those guidelines are there to protect you.

Answer 6

apparently he really is a nice and respectful man to wait for you. just do what you said, and if he really likes you, then he will wait! as for your friend if she was a real friend, she wouldn't care who you like, as long as your happy. Good luck!!