My Bf'z fantasy iz to have a 3sum.. I personally dont like the idea.. i know i fullfill him n'he lovez me n'everything.. itz just a fantasy of hiz since God knowz when.. n'i wanna ask u gurlz if u think itz a good idea to do it & why. I already made it clear that i'll be picking out the other gurl... n'when i told him 2get a guy with him, too.. he'z like NO! THATZ DIFFERENT !! lol sexist ?! lol right ?! ;) anywayz.. plz tell me what u think!! coz i REALLY need advice on this, i feel if i go on with it, ill end up breakin up with him r'somethin! plz help!
2006-10-06 14:28:14 · 7 answers · asked by CupCake 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, if your not crazy about the idea then don't do it. I think its every guy's dream, I know my b/f would love for me to have one. But like you, when I said something about a guy, he didn't say no, he just said well I wouldn't like this or this. Then I said ok, well thats how I feel about a 3some with a girl. Cause I didn't like the idea about a 3some either. He was like ohh, ok, I understand. So, we have both decided together not to do that. Try that, and see what happend. But it sounds like he truley loves you, so even if you decide not to do it, i'm sure he'll be ok with it.
2006-10-06 14:35:02 · answer #1 · answered by waterchick1822 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if its someone you love, then dont do it. how could he ask you for a 3sum if he loves you? what if things dont go right and they start messing around more or really liking eachother and you want to back out? thats not something a guy who loves and respects you would do.
2006-10-06 21:42:44 · answer #2 · answered by MiaDiva28 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! A fantasy is just that...fantasy, not reality. It's not your job to try and fulfill that for him, and he shouldn't be putting that kind of weight on you. Your relationship will be destroyed if you follow through with it. If he loves you, he should be able to drop his stupid fantasy and realize that he doesn't need it anymore because he's got a damn good woman in reality.
2006-10-06 21:34:11 · answer #3 · answered by Sager 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you don't like the idea, don't do it. It's that simple.
Follow his example: he doesn't want to do it with another guy, so he won't do it. You should do the same.
If you break up over something this dumb, the relationship isn't worth it anyway.
2006-10-06 21:54:33 · answer #4 · answered by Girl Machine 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are better off alone than being with a guy who treat you his 2nd best.
2006-10-06 21:38:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, he said "NO" cuz he couldnt stand the sight of some guy banging u........, ask him to stop fantasizing about stuff like that, or do wat he says, if u do it, it'll make him happy, simple as that.
2006-10-06 21:36:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say hell- no!!!!!!!!!!!!! my husband tried that ****
on me, trying to make me feel guilty, like I owed him...
don't owe him that much!!!!!!!!!!! he never asked again...
now been married for 22yrs.....
2006-10-06 23:29:54 · answer #7 · answered by jojo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋