My crush is black and I'm asian, I really like him but recently I've found out all of his previous ex girlfriends were white... he's not into asians =(
i'm so upset..
I can't believe it. i really liked him.
but now i don't even have a chance with him...
any ideas on how to get over him?
thank you sooo much. <3 xoxxx*
2006-10-06 14:35:57 · 12 answers · asked by Taylor. 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hi!
I say if he dates by race and not by the actual person, then he is not worth your time...
:)
You know the saying... there are plenty of fish in the sea. Find a man who will appreciate you as a person and appreciate your cultural background...
Best Wishes...
T.
2006-10-06 14:40:35 · answer #1 · answered by Theophania 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey, don't sweat it. a lot of black guy's go for white girls simply because white girls tend to throw themselves at us more. Yes, I am black, and I have always found asian girls more attractive than other races, i cant really say why. The point is though, that many asian girls are shy, you need to speak up if you want him to notice you. It doesnt matter if his previous girlfriends were white, maybe he couldnt find the right asian (wink).
2006-10-08 08:49:37 · answer #2 · answered by benn 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this does NOT mean you don't have a chance with him!! i personally like all kinds of people. if someone amazing comes along, then i think that most people will fall for them. just keep being amazing and don't let it bother you. if he is THAT dense that he is strictly "WHITES ONLY" then he's dumb. but i suppose that people are different and it could be similar to a thing like when a girl only dates men taller than her.... you know? i just know that i like the guys for what's inside, i find many different things attractive and i don't have all these ridiculous requirements... and that's what everyone else should do.
best of luck.
2006-10-06 14:58:56 · answer #3 · answered by laurie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please don't "make him jealous," cause that only makes u seem immature and desperate. Join a new club @ school or go to a dance club and get numbers of boys you like. Sounds elementary, but it works for me. Or, if that's not your thing, ask your friends if they have any cute friends (have them show u the pic first lol). Maybe they can bring their cute friends along the next time you guys hang out together ;)
2006-10-06 14:58:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"what's incorrect with me?" what's incorrect with THEM?! they have a decision, so what? that's nonetheless incorrect to reject somebody with out giving her a great gamble. **** them. so a procedures as your alternatives bypass, you desire a masculine guy? consistent with probability you wrongfully linked specific actual characteristics to intend "masculine." What I mean is, your theory of masculinity could be somewhat off. this would sound completely loopy, yet consistent with probability in basic terms for a speedy time, test with adult males who do no longer likely seem as though your form. consistent with probability they'd become your form.
2016-12-26 11:39:25 · answer #5 · answered by osuch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel I been through it Im asian too, try to show him how great you are not that you are really Asian so jealusy and FLIRT
2006-10-06 14:39:12 · answer #6 · answered by carecherl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your crush is so ttly gay if he doesn't like asian gurls...some of the prettiest gurls i know are asian...shyt,lucy lu is asian and shez gorguous so don't sweat him...get a hott asian guy or a guy that just isn't so simple minded
2006-10-06 14:42:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just date another black guy. The sooner the better.
2006-10-06 14:38:22 · answer #8 · answered by engteachtw 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most of the time guys dont really care they;ll say one thing but they may find a girl they like and not care
you should try to talk to him and get him to like you
2006-10-06 14:39:23 · answer #9 · answered by Yello! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
y does it matter what he was into before? if he liked white girls he can addapt to asian can't he? if not then hes not worth it.
2006-10-06 14:40:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋